Need Advice on Handling Builder Mistake
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How to handle a situation with builder.
Comments (29)I have had two homes built, and have had my share of issues as well. Not that this applies but we are now doing our own addition, not a new home, and are learning some of the challenges contractors run into. Bellamay is correct about the "handyman" reality in Maine. I will support the concept of flying in a licensed contractor from another state or city. Sierraeast is also correct regarding the foundation. Having it literally inspected, and it will cost you, will not only give you peace of mind, but will be to the advantage of your builder if you are proven incorrect... It's an all win situation. i.e. builder doesn't object to the inspection at your cost, if you are right, then builder pays for the inspection and the repair. If that will fly. When we built our first home the builder, who I will add had a superior reputation of quality not quantity in building,(6-8 homes a year),it got ugly. I was brought to tears out of anger more than once! As your builder, he was rarely ever there. GC's rarely like housewives after the contract is signed! I ended up (husband had to go to work) demanding a meeting every Friday to review the weeks work. I felt compelled to be on job site every morning. You'd be surprised at the money saved to pay subs that didn't show which would have turned in hours, reality that we paid for #1 grade lumber only to have delivered grade 2 or less. Payed for a 16 high course block basement only to have installed a 12 high. (men in my family are 6'4" and taller, so this was important), and the finishing carpenter installed the kitchen cabinets covering the stove and oven outlets and being it was his error insisted we were to pay extra for the R&R to fix the situation or he quit! He was fired. My suggestions: Use honey first. Speak with your builder. Empathize with his time schedule and position, explain the concerns so far and the worry you have. Ask him/her for their suggestions to stop the failure to do it right as per the contract. IF THE BUILDER IS NOT WORKABLE, THEN ACT NOW AND DO THE FOLLOWING: Meet with your builder every Friday to review the weeks work AND BILLS. Mandate a schedule for the upcoming week and work anticipated. Get names, and times. Be there every morning to be sure it is what it is. Inform your builder you reserve the right to speak to the foreman of each trade to review what YOU paid for and what will be done. Contact your bank and let them know that NOTHING is to be paid too the builder or anyone else unless your signature is on the bill. Make your banker your friend. If the above is not possible because of whatever, then go to the bank and share your concerns and needs. Remember, the banks do not want to finance a loan for shotty work any more than you want to pay for it! It's not to late to put together a notebook of each phase of your new home construction. Include in the notebook what you contractually agreed to (page, section of contract and what page on the blueprints), and who the subs or handy man is. The grade of materials to be used, color numbers, etc. And request, if builder refuses, then demand, that YOU see materials as in the sub-flooring, brand name and look at the color of the paint and see the receipt, counters, cabinets, fixtures... Make sure it's correct and what you agreed to pay for. The builder is notified when deliveries will happen. Remember building a home is no easy task. It takes your emotions, time and energy to get it correct. And when mom and dad aren't home the kids will play! And, that is what the subs/handyman will do. So to speak. Take PICTURES. Finally, go to the loan officer at the bank. Explain to him your problems. Banks usually have attorneys on staff/hand who will get involved should it need to go to that extent. And usually at the banks expense, not yours. Good Luck!!!!!!...See Morei need some advice, i made a mistake
Comments (24)All I can say is that if I found out that my husband had posted his photos and a profile on an internet dating site, it would be a very, very big deal to me. It would be an even bigger deal if I knew that he was corresponding with other women and (once I found out) told me that he only did it for a "joke" and because it made him feel good to know that other women found him attractive. And then tried to put it on me by saying that it was my fault because things I said or did made him feel unloved. To me, that kind of thing is the start of infidelity. Even if I found out during a time when he hadn't physically cheated, I would see it as him starting down that road. I would have a hard time even starting to put it behind me unless I felt that he fully realized the seriousness of what he'd done and would never, ever do something like that again. If he was still voicing the excuses you've written here, I would think that he still doesn't get it. If you have other problems in your marriage-- and it sounds like you do--I think that this was more than just an inappropriate way to deal with them. This seems more like creating a new problem to add to all of the others. If you do try to work things out, my guess is that this internet flirting thing is going to be one more issue you guys have to address....See MoreNeed advice on mistake of size of island
Comments (29)Ed, it really was not like that at all. We went down often to check on everything, not to mention the fact that we have several friends there who went through the house, almost on a daily basis, taking pictures and sending them to us. We could clearly see everything from day one, including the Tyvek wrap, all of the wiring & plumbing, as well as the underground irrigation system before it was covered up. They went above and beyond my expectations in every other aspect of this build. I am convinced they absolutely did not try to put one over on me-I'm sure it was just a miscommunication between the kitchen cabinet company and the marble/granite fabricators who put in the standard depth countertop without checking....See MoreFirst Time Builder - Need Advice on Drawings
Comments (18)Again - hard to read, but you should consider a direct egress in your FIL's suite in the case of an emergency - right now, in the event of a fire or medical event, the path to safety looks a little convoluted. The closet in that room looks odd - the door entry seems partially blocked by the hanging rod? Or is that a dry cleaning system where the clothes rotate around (I have no idea why I think that - but it would be really cool...) As others have noted, there is valuable real estate being take up but closets / bathrooms - esp if there is a decent view out the back. You'll have to be VERY specific on the excavation and foundation to get no steps from the garage into the house. Houses tend to get "built up" instead of being excavated down if you are using a crawl space. The garage usually gets plopped at ground level since it's a slab. And then you simply get the number of stairs to bridge the 2. Lastly - do the upstairs stairs encroach into the hall? That would drive me nuts....See Moremgh_pa
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