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October Reading

sheri_z6
4 years ago

It’s already October! What have you been reading?


I just finished Lori Gottlieb’s Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, a memoir described as “a therapist, her therapist, and our lives revealed.” It was fabulous. I have never been to therapy, so this was a fascinating look into how therapy works, both from the therapist’s viewpoint, and from that of the patient. The book hops among patient histories (one of which left me weeping, but in a good way) and the author’s own account of her own therapy following a romantic break up. It also sneaks in some history of psychology and psychiatry. It was actually a bit of a page turner and I loved it.


I’m also in the middle of another Charlie Lovett book, The Bookman’s Tale, about an American book seller in England who may have stumbled upon a priceless manuscript annotated by Shakespeare himself. Like Lovett’s other books, this one hops back and forth in time, juxtaposing the book seller’s life in 1995 with the journey the manuscript made from 1592 to 1995. I’ve liked all three of the Lovett books that I’ve read so far, but I still like his newest, The Lost Book of the Grail, best.

Comments (142)

  • Rosefolly
    4 years ago
    last modified: 4 years ago

    Donna, that is an amazing list. Thank you! If we wander over to Roman mythology, we might add Lavinia by the late Ursula K LeGuin. It is based on Virgil's Aeneid. I enjoyed it, too.

    Right now I am reading Becoming, the autobiography of Michelle Obama. I expected to find it interesting, but it is better than that. In between I am reading The Rise and Fall of Dinosaurs by Steven Brusatte. I find myself fascinated. The description of the mass extinction at the end of the Permian Period chilled me - 60,000 years of continuous volcanic eruption and the extinction of around 90% of all species. But then I can be an overly vivid reader. It is why I dislike reading true crime. I have trouble sleeping at night when I do, as occasionally I do for my book club.

  • friedag
    4 years ago

    Msmeow, your mention of Five Days Gone (or On Chapel Sands, the UK title) caught my eye because I read it a few weeks ago. I am not sure how I first heard about it. Perhaps Vee had previously posted about listening to the audio reading on the BBC..

    I think it's a poignant story and well told, but I wasn't surprised by any part of it. I guessed correctly what happened only a few pages in. One of the photographs, along with the author's identification of the little girl and the other person in the picture on the beach, told the tale. It's probably something that happened more often than people ever talked about in those days -- in the UK, the U.S. and elsewhere.

    I know of a similar story that has circulated in my family since 1901 -- only the little two-year-old girl in that story never did find out who she actually was, and apparently neither did the family who fostered her.

    What do you think of the author's presentation?

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  • msmeow
    4 years ago

    Frieda, I really wanted to enjoy Five Days Gone, but so far I’m struggling with it. I’m only through three chapters and so far I’m finding it dense and rambling. I wish she’d just get on with the story. I’ll report back later. :)

    I’m also reading The Address by Fiona Davis, but haven’t gotten far enough to be really engaged by it yet.

    Donna

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    This is so OT!

    I startled a couple of bobtail goannas when I went out of the house this morning. The weather has suddenly got hotter and they have come out from where they have been sheltering in the gardens.

    I remembered Vee and her "Fluffy creatures" with a smile.

    Vee if you want to see my local sweet creatures, Google "Quokka Selfie" for pix of the happiest animals on the planet!

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    Ann.......they are so adorable ! Are those real animals in the selfies ?? How big are they ? Are they completely friendly ?

  • vee_new
    4 years ago

    Annpan. are they marsupials? I had certainly never heard of them before!

  • msmeow
    4 years ago

    Ann, they are so cute! Thanks for sharing.

    Donna

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    Yoyo, they are indeed real animals in the selfies. They are about the size of a domestic cat and very friendly. They are used to tourists on Rottnest Island and enjoy the selfies. It is a must-do for visiting celebs to take one!

    Vee, they are marsupials.

    I haven't been to Rottnest for many years and that was before selfies were thought of! The early Dutch explorers thought they were a kind of rat, hence the name of the island.

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  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    They look like a result of breeding a kangaroo and a rat !

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-g92H3TCPas

  • sheri_z6
    Original Author
    4 years ago

    They are adorable!

  • Kath
    4 years ago

    I have read some good things lately.

    I have continued with Mick Herron's Slough House books, and am on the final one, Joe Country. These are contemporary spy thrillers with large doses of British humour.

    I enjoyed The Last Train to London by Meg Clayton very much. It tells the story of the Kindertransports that took about 10 000 children, mostly Jewish, to England between Kristallnacht and the outbreak of WWII. The main protagonist is a real person, and the main children in the story are a bit different from your usual teens and very likeable. I like a historical novel which is based in fact, and this is a good one.

    I then read The Dutch House by Ann Patchett. Another book with a historical setting, although a bit more modern. The family are quite unusual, with a mother who left and a father who died, leaving the siblings to fend for themselves. The woman is a very strong character, and I was amazed at the number of people in this book who did what was expected of them, even when it wasn't their own choice. The house itself is almost a character in the story.

  • msmeow
    4 years ago

    Those last two books sound really interesting, Kath! I'm still working on Five Days Gone. I find her writing style to be dense, as in she uses fifty words to say something when ten would be sufficient. I'm almost halfway through, so I will keep with it to the end.

    I'm also reading The Address by Fiona Davis, set in The Dakota apartment building in NYC. I'm enjoying it a lot.

    Donna

  • woodnymph2_gw
    4 years ago

    I'm reading "Maphead" by Ken Jennings. Basically, this is a history of cartography through the ages. It's filled with interesting details and factoids. the author's style reminds me somewhat of Bill Bryson. I only wish there were not so many footnotes at the bottom of every single page!

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago

    Woodnymph - I happen to be reading Maphead at the moment also. Odd, huh? It was recommended to me by a "maphead" friend. My feelings about it are exactly the same as yours.

  • msmeow
    4 years ago

    Ladies, is that "the" Ken Jennings of Jeopardy fame? Just curious. :)

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago

    Yes - that Ken Jennings.

  • carolyn_ky
    4 years ago
    last modified: 4 years ago

    Ah, Kath, so you are the one who got me into this. I'm reading Mick Herron's first book, Slow Horses. I had to look up the British pronunciation of Slough for it to make sense, as I had been told in the past that it rhymed with cow. Now I find that there are two pronunciations for British use and two different ones for U.S. (For anyone else who is interested, in this case it seems to be sloo.) The book has nothing to do with horses, either.

    At any rate, for the first ~50 pages or so, I wondered where in the world I had found such a book and was ready to give up, but now it is becoming interesting. Do they get better as they go forward?

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    I have always pronounced Slough to rhyme with cow. I knew the place as my Aunt (pronounced Arnt!) lived there...

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    Yoyo, we also have a kangaroo rat!

    Look up Bettongs on the Bush Heritage Australia site.

  • Kath
    4 years ago

    Carolyn, they are quite weird and may not appeal to everyone. I like them, but I wouldn't be upset if someone said they didn't. And I pronounce Slough exactly like slow.

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    John Betjeman's poem "Slough" has the town rhyming with now and cow!

  • vee_new
    4 years ago

    The 'in'-famous Betjeman poem. Written at the start of WW11, a time when the countryside around London was being eaten-up by ribbon development and the main roads out of the city were surrounded by factories and soulless housing.

    Come, friendly bombs, and fall on Slough

    It isn't fit for humans now,

    There isn't grass to graze a cow

    Swarm over, Death!


    Come, bombs, and blow to smithereens

    Those air-conditioned, bright canteens,

    Tinned fruit, tinned meat, tinned milk, tinned beans

    Tinned minds, tinned breath.


    Mess up the mess they call a town -

    A house for ninety-seven down

    And once a week for half-a-crown

    For twenty years,


    And get that man with double chin

    Who'll always cheat and always win,

    Who washes his repulsive skin

    In women's tears,


    And smash his desk of polished oak

    And smash his hands so used to stroke

    And stop his boring dirty joke

    And make him yell.


    But spare the bald young clerks who add

    The profits of the stinking cad;

    It's not their fault that they are mad,

    They've tasted Hell.


    It's not their fault they do not know

    The birdsong from the radio,

    It's not their fault they often go

    To Maidenhead


    And talk of sports and makes of cars

    In various bogus Tudor bars

    And daren't look up and see the stars

    But belch instead.


    In labour-saving homes, with care

    Their wives frizz out peroxide hair

    And dry it in synthetic air

    And paint their nails.


    Come, friendly bombs, and fall on Slough

    To get it ready for the plough.

    The cabbages are coming now;

    The earth exhales.

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    Vee, I like that. It speaks for all the constant overdevelopment around the world.

    I recently watched a PBS special " The Day The Dinosaurs Died" , which was so interesting....but the fact that gobsmacked me was : dinosaurs lived and thrived for 188 million years before the asteroid hit and wiped out all life on earth. It was another 66 million years after that before "modern man" appeared ( 200,000 years ago). Consider those spans of time for a moment.

    They boggle my mind.

  • vee_new
    4 years ago

    So true and SO impossible to get our brains round yoyo. I remember reading somewhere that if you look at an ordinary 12 inch ruler, the beginning of it is when our very earliest ancestors appeared on the Earth and the last half inch represents 'modern man' ie homo-sapiens . . . and as archaeologists keep pushing back their findings so the distance on the ruler become even more stretched out.

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    I remembered that poem because my mother used to mutter about the "friendly bombs" falling on Slough where my aunt lived. She couldn't stand her!

    I gathered that Aunt had been disdainful and patronised her when they first met.

    I have a requested library book waiting for me but the weather has turned nasty and I am not going out in it!

    There was a TV repeat of "The Hollow" last night. It is one of the "close to the book" Christies so I am rereading my battered copy. I liked the staging apart from someone deciding that the Hollywood actress should wear a hat with a full face veil in her garden and she couldn't smoke the cigarette in the long holder with the veil flapping around in the light breeze.

    It was distracting me dreadfully, watching her wave it and wondering if the veil was going to catch fire! Yes, I know it probably wasn't lit...but still...


  • msmeow
    4 years ago

    Interesting discussion of the pronunciation of "slough". I always thought it rhymed with "rough."

    I made very good progress on Five Days Gone last night. I was reading while keeping track of the World Series game on my phone. I couldn't go to sleep till the game was done! Those Nats are giving all us fans gray hair. :)

    Donna

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    Donna, I got my gray hair from the NYY !

    I suspect unless the Astros get their pitchers under control throwing their best stuff they might just lose it all .

    Bon

  • woodnymph2_gw
    4 years ago

    What a splendid poem that Vee posted!

    The discussion of pronunciation reminds me of our own low country "pluff mud." It is unique to this part of SC and has an odd odor. I never heard of it until I moved here 10 years ago. Lately, I note some are spelling it "plough" mud.

    Kathyt, do you plan to finish "Maphead"? I am not sure that I will. There are just too many footnotes on each page for my taste and I am feeling a bit bogged down by all the endless detail.

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago

    Woodnymph - I was enjoying Maphead at first, but I'm now kind of pushing myself to keep reading. So I do know what you mean. I have not given up on it yet, but it could easily happen.

  • donnamira
    4 years ago

    Vee, following up your comment about the time scale, using a ruler: a geology professor came into class one day, drew 2 long horizontal lines across the blackboard, then drew a series of vertical parallel lines to create a long line of upright rectangles on the board - he told us to imagine each rectangle as a typical bible filled with print, with all of them together chronicling the history of the earth - and that modern civilization shows up only in the last line on the last page of the last book. :)

    Another favorite scale analogy is the Eames Powers of Ten Film. I think I was most impressed by the sub-meter scale, when you get down to atomic scale(10**-10 meters), then go for a long emptiness before you finally get to the scale of the nucleus (10**-15 meters). (I think I remembered the numbers right!) We really are made of space. :)

    Back to books, I am still reading Whitehead's John Henry Days. With so little plot, it's hard to pick it up again once you put it down. I'm trading off with a collection of Kage Baker's short stories.

  • vee_new
    4 years ago

    Thanks Donnamira. I don't know about everyone else but it is all rather overwhelming. Even when I look out at the stars in the night sky I feel most . . . insignificant . . . .

  • skibby (zone 4 Vermont)
    4 years ago

    Nonsense Vee. You're anything but.

  • msmeow
    4 years ago

    Woohoo! The Nats won the World Series! I was so happy for them I cried a little bit last night. :) But after a second night of being up till midnight, I'm ready for an early evening tonight.

    I finally finished Five Days Gone. It was 297 pages and I think she could easily have told the story in great detail in about 200 pages. There was a lot of repetition and side trips about paintings and artists, I suppose because the author is an art critic.

    Now I can concentrate on The Address.

    Donna

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    Donna, I'm glad they won. It was the perfect underdog story without much of the back drama of the "stros" :0)

  • woodnymph2_gw
    4 years ago

    I decided to renew "Maphead." It is still a struggle, albeit interesting. Memo to anyone here who is writing a book: please put all your footnotes at the very end. Please do not scatter them throughout on each and every page. I prefer a book to "flow."

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago

    I'm still with it too, Woodnymph, but I'm only on page 93. The World Series has seriously cut into my reading time.

  • reader_in_transit
    4 years ago

    Woodnymph and Kathy,

    Unless you are reading it for a book club--which I doubt-- with an approaching deadline, Maphead is the sort of book that you can read a chapter, put it down, a few days later (or longer intervals) read another chapter, and so on. After all, there is no plot to follow. I have Maphead somewhere in the house, and I plan (eventually) to read it like that, to avoid being overwhelmed by all the information.

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago

    Reader - I agree with you. It is clearly a book that doesn't not require front-to-back reading. But I'm reading a library copy, so that's not really feasible. I'm not wanting to buy a copy.

  • carolyn_ky
    4 years ago

    I finished Slow Horses and ended up liking it quite a lot. I will continue the series but not back-to-back. The slow horses weren't so slow after all, and the trouble maker at headquarters got what was coming.

  • annpanagain
    4 years ago

    I have just started The Pawful Truth by Miranda James. When I started the series about Charlie and his Maine Coon cat, I googled for the noise the cats make. They are certainly loud!

    I had to work out what auditing a class as opposed to getting credits meant! I am not familiar with US educational terms.

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago

    Reader-in-Transit - regarding Maphead - I suppose you already know this, but Seattle is mentioned rather frequently in the book, since Ken Jennings lives there.

  • reader_in_transit
    4 years ago

    Kathy,

    Thanks for refreshing my memory. I remembered vaguely that there was a local connection (I bought the book in a library book sale, about 5-6 years ago), but over time I forgot about it. Now you've piqued my curiosity, maybe I should go looking for the book and start reading slowly. No, I can't.... I have several non reading projects going on, and at least 2 books from the library right now. So many books, so little time...

  • woodnymph2_gw
    4 years ago

    I have almost made it through "Maphead." Whew! Only one more chapter to go. It does get better. I agree, it is best read in small doses. I learned a lot about GoogleEarth and who Mercator was.

    Ann, many universities here in the US offer the opportunity, especially for "senior citizens," to audit various classes. It's a wonderful opportunity for "lifelong learning."

  • kathy_t
    4 years ago
    last modified: 4 years ago

    Well, I have temporarily laid aside Maphead so that I can read Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell, because I saw a notice that there will be a discussion of Outliers at my local library in the coming week. I vow to return to Maphead though.

  • vee_new
    4 years ago

    Annpan, 'auditing' a class is a term I am unfamiliar with. I presume it just means attending a class. Sophomores and freshmen and similar are also words not used over here.

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    Auditing is attending a university class as a student without paying tuition or receiving credit. In New York State anyone over 65 can audit a class at a state university with the approval of the professor.

  • carolyn_ky
    4 years ago

    You also are not required to take the exams when auditing a class. I had thought that when I retired I would go back and take all the literature and humanities courses I had not taken when getting my degree in English lit. (In Kentucky you must be 65 before you can audit a course.) I have not taken a single course and won't at this point, but it was a wonderful idea!

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    Three years ago I audited an Italian language class at Binghamton University and was expected to participate in class as well as take the weekly tests. Of course I was eager to do all that because it was logical for a language class. I loved the class, loved going back to college four mornings a week and really enjoyed learning the language.

  • woodnymph2_gw
    4 years ago

    I have been auditing college and university classes in both VA and SC for the past 20 or so years. In both states, there is a fee to be paid, even for senior citizens. We can opt to take tests and exams, or not. Among the interesting classes I have audited: History of Ireland, History of Western Art, Ancient Egypt, History of Witch Persecution in Germany, Life of Martin Luther and the Reformation, English Renaissance Literature, History of the American West (with an emphasis on Native American tribes), and Voyages of Columbus. Often, we have been assigned original manuscripts to, as in Columbus' journals. Here in Charleston, I'm fortunate to live only a few blocks from the College.

  • yoyobon_gw
    4 years ago

    wood....you are fortunate ! The campus of BU is set up so that the parking lots are on the far edges and it's always an uphill hike to the buildings. Not an easy place to audit :0) However, the university offers Lyceum presentations located off campus which can be very interesting, often presented by professors, and easier to get to. However there is a cost for those.