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Comments (70)Something that bothers me in particular to this situation of mowing into the neighbor's property, is how so many people have a lawn service now. Those lawn services (at least in my perspective) don't show any regard for others properties. The yards here where I live are relatively small, yet they all use huge ride on mowers. The lawn service guy is typically a lone male having his own small business, while another might have two other guys there so, again, they created a small business with their own work ethics. I don't know what governs them and speculate they just make up their own rules. The city ordinance allows them to begin at 8 a.m. and in other area's it might be 7:30 a.m.. Here, the services across the street and next door, both sides, all arrive first thing in the morning, roaring loudly, and many times there's 4 or 5 different services arround at once! The riding mowers and the powerful blowers produce noise that is so loud, it's frightening and drowns out phone call conversations. So if the services arrive on a work day when you have a conference call, it's never good. Eagerly, I await when these loud mowers will be against the rules and outlawed. I've been reading how California is headed that route... YAY! I get why they look for fast ways to mow, but realistically, these lawns are not big enough to justify riding mowers. The one service is out there now, it's just him, so he spends over an hour mowing and blowing with professional equipment! We (neighbor and I) have side fencing. The riding mower can't get into small spaces or some around landscaping, so he just mows 4 feet, even 5 feet into my yard so he doesn't have to do any of her yard by hand. He mows so far in that he's mowed over 3 of my sprinkler heads, which are far enough away from the property line to not mow, but he seems to care none. I've gently spoken with him. He blows her yard leaves up against my home side and side fence, creating a large mound. This also happens on the opposite side of my property by another lawn service. Their services cause my property to appear to be a total of at least 8 feet less wide, at times 10 feet. They mow so low they scalp the grass, and, because of the wood fencing, it's visible they've mowed plenty over the property lines. The sad part is the lawn services do it for their mowing conveniences, so it says they have no respect for my property as long as they can more easily do their jobs for the neighbors, yet the neighbors don't ever mention it to say how sorry they are, or that they're trying to remedy it. To add insult to injury, the one neighbor has been burning pinion wood in her patio chiminera that is placed so closely to my yard and blows downwind, that my home often reeks of the burning wood. The smoke fills my yard and the smell permeates into my home. She is too close in proximity to be doing that wood burning. My home will reek like it's on fire, which I used to think it was in the walls. We are not neighbors at odds, so there's nothing going on there. She burns so much pinion wood that I wear a cloth mask to sleep in because my throat has become scratchy, and now I cough a good bit, which I suspect is due to the wood burning. My sinuses seem to be highly irritated by the smoke. My bedroom is in close proximity to her patio. I'm not far from age 70, own my home and have lived here over 25 years. Her inconsiderate styles are becoming such a pain that infringe on my life, and I'm afraid the laws don't care about me in any of these situations....See MorePreparing Bulbs For Potting - Part 2
Comments (24)Thank you, everyone! I am very pleased that many are able to take away some good information and ideas from my shared photo series! I clean my small paintbrushes with anti-bacterial dishsoap, and I scrub pots and saucers prior to using them. In the interest of space and time, the more small and obvious details have been left out. The small paintbrushes usually come in packages of 3 or 4 different sizes... perfect for use with the different powders I apply when potting bulbs. Any chemical, no matter how harmless, should be used with care. It goes without saying that you should be careful when applying anti-fungal powders or liquids, or any rooting hormone powders. Always read the directions prior to use, as with any product you'd use for household or garden. Read labels carefully, and decide for yourself if these are products you can handle. As with anything else, proper use and clean-up is important after you are finished using products. These things go without saying to most of us, who are seasoned gardeners, or who at least have handled household and/or garden products before. If you wanted to get really technical, you could ask the manufacturer of garden products to send you a copy of the Material Safety Data Sheet, or MSDS, for the product in question. Personally, I don't find the need to go overboard... I simply take precautions, and use common sense when handling certain products. Hazmat is short for hazardous material... it's one of the endorsements on my CDL. Since Captan and other anti-fungal products are sold retail at garden centers everywhere, I find them no more hazardous than any other chemical sold for use by private citizens. Again, simply employ common sense, and there will be no problems. This particular forum is my home on the internet, too, and most of the inhabitants are my online family! I came here to ask a few questions about my large Minerva bulb, and everyone was so nice and helpful, I kept coming back. I think it would be very difficult to find a better group of gardeners, or a nicer group of people! :-) One of the things I've been experimenting with since beginning bulb collecting is finding the perfect medium for my environment. I need a medium that will drain quickly and dry out in a decent amount of time. I grow indoors, but I have the changing temperatures, sunlight, and humidity of the changing seasons to contend with. I have found that a more inorganic approach works best for me. My favorite medium consists of pine bark fines, turface, perlite, and a few other minor additions. It's very close to a bonsai medium sold by a company on the east coast... New England Bonsai Gardens. The small bags of medium they sell are rather expensive, and they don't contain enough medium for my needs. I've been searching for the main ingredients in bulk, so I can mix my own. Maria, it would be wonderful to see the Amaryllis Society of America make a comeback! It would even be nice to see a new society formed... whatever it takes to bring good information and a seed and pollen bank to the people. Certainly, there is a need for such a specialized society... there seems to be a good amount of interest, and a goodly number of growers these days! Interest in Hippeastrum growing as a hobby seems to be on the rise! Getting back to the 3 bulbs I just prepared and potted... I'd like to follow their growth through a series of pictorial threads, which will hopefully help our newest hobby growers to understand the cycles of these bulbs. I'm a fairly experienced grower now, and I'm also a frequent poster... if I can help by exploring all the aspects of Hippeastrum bulbs and their home culture through small pictorial threads, I'd like to. Stay tuned for more, then! It's not yet spring, and the year is young!...See MorePreparing: Sell the home to pay for care or?
Comments (19)Wow, Im flattered that some have found my postings useful. Please note this will be kinda long, my apologies in advance. I think for the OP, this comes down to: wills and powers of attorney can indeed work for you and your parents, because they do give you a bit more flexibility over a Trust - at the increase of some time/hassle/expense. If you can deal with this, itÂll be fine. Setting up a trust does not always have to do with the size of the estate. For instance, we have set up a trust, because we don't have children and have selected two people who are less related to us than some others are, to be our heirs. Could we do this with wills? Absolutely. Would the estate, once both of us die, get settled as fast and as cheaply, if we did wills instead of a trust? Nope. Does the trust REDUCE the flexibility for the Survivor, once one of the original Trustors dies? Yes! It is absolutely an excellent idea for your parents to sell the house to pay for retirement expenses. We had to practically browbeat my widowed MIL to recognize reality and do the same thing. Medicare doesn't pay for LTC except in limited circumstances and for limited time (100 days). Medicaid is what 80% of the residents in nursing homes use, but you must spend down the assets, and the "lookback" period has increased dramatically, I believe. What many people don't realize -- we didn't until we actually had to deal with the death of my MIL's husband and then with the house sale four years later -- is that there are some very real disadvantages to Revocable Trusts. A poorly written trust, IMHO, is worse than useless; it is a waste of money. Each RT should be an individually crafted document to suit not only your aims and assets and tax situation, but also your family situation. So obviously, this is a LIVING document. As your life and the lives of those named in your estate plans change, the legal documents should be kept updated! Unfortunately too many people do what my in laws did - set up a document without much knowledge about what they were doing, and then never looked at it again. So 25 yrs later when my husband's stepfather died, his portion of the estate became IRREVOCABLE. Unfortunately since they had not updated the contingent trustees or beneficiaries those lists were woefully out of date (and the others are right that anyone can be named a trustee. You could name me, a perfect stranger, but please don't: I would be happy if I never settled another estate again in my life!). It took some expensive legal review before we were able to craft a strategy to update those lists without a lot of trouble, time, and mandatory court appearance. Trustees do not get paid, BTW, unless the trust provisions provide for it. The only time they are paid is if there are no successor trustees available (everybody named has resigned, is incapacitated, or dead) so the courts must appoint a professional trustee. Executors of wills get paid a flat fee determined by your state laws, no exceptions. Many people do not realize that in a community property state like California, if you are not careful in the language used in a couple's Revocable Trust, when one of the original Trustors dies, the survivor is NOT always guaranteed full use of the now-Irrevocable portion of the estate! It is, in fact, quite common for trust language to state that the surviving Trustor is only entitled to the interest earned off the principal amount; or, interest plus reimbursement for health, education and maintenance, as long as principal is NOT invaded. I imagine this is because for so long, trusts were used almost exclusively by wealthy people to pass along assets to not only their children, but their grandchildren, etc. However, for most middle-class people, they would assume (at least, we did, but we were wrong!) that when one Trustor dies, the surviving Trustor is allowed full use of the "entire pot". But as it turns out, ONLY if the original trust allows it, is that true. In fact, my MIL's original trust had some very non-standard language in it, and she IS given the power to invade principal on her deceased husband's Irrevocable trust. The investment management firm we hired to handle her now-sizable amount of cash (from the sale of the house), mentioned just yesterday that they were very surprised that she has this right; they don't often see it in their clients' trusts documents! Needless to say, when creating our own RT recently, my husband and I included language to give the Survivor Trustor as much legal and financial leeway as possible over both portions. I would suggest once one of your parents dies, to see if at that point, you could convince the survivor (who MUST be still mentally competent) to create a trust. A trust with only one Trustor is a lot easier to deal with. Whatever happens, I do urge you to talk to a good estate attorney (expect to pay for the consultation) as well as a tax advisor, so that you have an idea of what the options are for you and your parents, depending on how things turn out. Having the knowledge beforehand is invaluable, rather than rushing around under an emotionally stressful situation, asking for advice and not being able to judge the quality of it, which can be dangerous. Good luck to you going forward. I hope everything works out for you and your family....See MoreTax deductions for donations
Comments (13)We have always kept a good tally of our deductions, and also tithe. We had been keeping those tallies for years, and giving as much as we could feel comfortable giving, and found out after the fact that we usually did not exceed the standard deduction. We don't hold a mortgage, and that could be why. Since finding that out (we have an accountant do our returns), I am more careful now on my timing for contributions, monies into an IRA, expenditures, capitol gains. I donate to charities/churches because I want to help them, but there is nothing wrong with also being able to use it to offset taxes if you can. I guess standard deductions are nice, but if you don't exceed them, even when you give generously, and others who don't give anything still get the same tax breaks......well, it sort of takes the hair off where fairness is concerned. I have been known to make phone calls to my accountant to ask "Is this a good time to buy capital equipment?", "Is this a good time to make a withdrawal from a deferred account?" It really helps to sit down at times other than tax time, to crunch your numbers after the fact and project what your tax liabilites will be or how you can plan deductions to your best tax benefits. Like you are doing, btw. But a lot of people don't. Always run your household finances, like it were a business....See More- 7 years ago
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