I’m not a professional, I’ve just remodeled several homes . I like both of your picks. You can’t go wrong with either. The SW Exclusive Plum door would look great with those colors. Do keep in mind that the colors on the chit look different in real life so get three or four samples on the chit. Sample all around the exterior sides, back & front.

Strangly, each color looks closer to the color above it on the chit in real life only with a tiny pinch more gray ( and, depending on the time of day).

I know I am late to this party but I'll give it a whirl. I would paint over the brick and the stone. Then endeavor to hide most of the stone with plants. Pick any color that works with the warm roof color.

It's well worth the effort to paint a big board of your chosen color and look at it against the roof at different times of day and on all sides of your house. Paint chip colors look very different over a large area, and in outdoor light. There are lots of Houzz posts where people are unhappily surprised that their whole-house color looks so different from the chip.

Based on your comment, your roof color might not be showing accurately on our screens, so it's hard to say what colors might look good with it. On my screen it looks like a cool burgundy-brown. Browns can be warm or cool. You color decision is made easier because the roof is the only color that you need to be concerned with coordinating to the paint.

you absolutely MUST paint LARGE swatches of a color and put it up against your house to view throughout the day before landing on a color. I just went through this and tried at least 10 warm grey/ greige samples, all of which I loved in the store but ended up hating on my house with the brown roof. Hence why I ended up choosing green instead LOL.

And for the limewash you absolutely can have it tinted any color, I was told this in email by Romabio and then called my local Home Depot to confirm which they did. If you’re not interested in the limewash finish you can certainly explore their paint options Which are still breathable and low maintenanc.

I'd love to know your roof color and manufacturer if you have it.

we are doing green so I am biased. IMO green looks great with a brown roof.

We we originally wanted bold and I was leaning toward BM Knoxville grey which leans green. LP smart side featured it as a brown roof combo they just renamed it Delta Moss for their marketing.

For various reasons we landed on a more muted color which is called “quiet willow “. One thing to remember when looking at pics online is that lighting makes all the difference.

This Benjamin Moore brown Cafe Ole looks like a good match for your red-brown roof color. Here's what they recommend as one color combo - a muted yellowish green.

I hear you on the “short squattie house” comment as mine is the same. I personally would vote no to the dark brown siding as I don’t think it will give you an updated look but it’s all personal opinion. I am opposed to brown simply because I have a lot of it and am currently in the middle of tearing it all off!

If you and your husband want to agree on the exterior colors why do you keep bringing up green if he hates it?

Have you gone out to pick some samples to try?

This stock photo from the Benjamin Moore site has a roof color that's very similar to your brown. I played around with a few options.

https://www.benjaminmoore.com/en-us/personal-color-viewer/exterior It's the Home Sweet Home house.

One thing you didn’t show (I got it from your profile page) is all the brick . All the brick on each side and brick fencing. After getting the big picture, another option ( if you want to leave the brick) is either removing the center stone or painting it the same color as the siding and putting plants in front. So, painting just the siding/stone section.

I choose this for trim.

One of these for the middle siding and stone. Not sure which, need samples. I think the Malted Milk might not be as bright in person. I really like the Polite White but haven’t seen it in person.

The door in high gloss in this.

Sw Foggy Day.

Or , switch the shutter color for the door.

Since you're keeping the brick, I'd use one of the brick colors for the siding and the stone, instead of adding more different colors. These are the colors that Sherwin Williams sees in your brick picture you posted an hour ago.

In this picture I used the Sommelier color for your shutters, if you want to keep them.

Now that I know there is more brick I suggest painting the siding and stone but leaving the brick as it is. Since your husband does not like green then you could do off white or match to the grout of the brick.

Oh, you asked what I would do lol.

Ok, this is my last shot.

TRIM

Shutters in Silver Gray. Door in high gloss Artichoke.

Now you have the green you want on the door. I wouldn’t go brighter on shutters and door (stick with these grayed down versions) because it could start looking Herman Monster freak show.

Sorry, I was catering to your jumping around to greens. Tie your leg to a post lol

Your next step is to get samples of the colors and paint big board of them, and look at them at different times of day and in different spots. Please don't skip this important step - colors look soooo different outdoors, and in large areas, and beside other colors, as many disappointed Houzzers have found out.

Many years ago I painted my master bedroom a warm beige, but because it was contrasting with a gold carpet, the pink stood out and I had a pink bedroom. Your colors will look different against your brick than they would if they were standing alone.

Partim's picture with the Sommelie painted shutters seems spot on! Just changing the shutter color alone brings together the roof, the brick, and the stone. That pic to me looks so natural, like it all lives together well. What a small investment too to be able to just paint the shutters and boards behind them.

I'd still paint the color that is the material on the upper half of the walls between the shutters.