OT; The weed fields of my S CA childhood
Lisa Adams
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Comments (71)Mine was being brought up in England in the 70's, three day week, bread and gas rationing amongst others, my Grandad Pop as he was known came to live with us, and started a Garden for the UK it was huge, he provided our food for may months of the year and he gave me and my Brother a small patch each, I loved it and my mum had to ask my permission to to use my veggies! and very often I would insist she cooked them separatly so I could Have "mine" i'm sure she never did, but she told me she did she could get away with this I was always outside with pop and I was happy, my grandad being in the garden was a constant sorce of delight, he was a country man of few words but lot of love, my dad managed to find him a pre-used greenhouse and when I returned from school he would always be there or the garden. I have 2 things that really stand out and the first was if I injuried myself and draw blood, no Plaster (bandaid) for me! I was draged out to the watering can, the wound bled then washed in it! it was normal for me, I remember as I got used to it just taking myself off and doing it, never got an infection, the second was my dad and grandad trying to pull out the root of an apple tree that had died, in my mind its was months of digging, but probably a few weekends, it was massive but they succeeded! the celebration,(maybe it was months!) my dad and pop made us all come out to watch the final haul, they where dancing around and hugging anyone and anything, it was such a happy day, actually righting this has brought tears to my eyes, as neither are with me now, anyway it meant we had another huge area to plant, I bet I was the best fed child for miles around....See MoreHave you visited your childhood home?
Comments (48)I rejoiced to hear some of your stories about happy childhoods ... and was sad to hear of people who were disappointed that their former homes or/and neighbourhoods had deterioated. But especially sad to hear that a few of you had endured such unhappy childhoods that you felt that you couldn't stand going back. Memo to Country Sunshine (and some others): "You don't ask - you don't get!". Take courage in hand, put on a big smile ... and sashay up to the front door. If they say, "No" ... you're no worse off. Right? We had a big 36' x 40' old white brick farmhouse near London, Ontario, when I was a child, with six bedrooms upstairs , three of them with built-in closets, and a big old walnut clothes press in one of the ones lacking one - Dad's bedroom was downstairs, would be an office/den, now, off of the large kitchen/dining room. Brick summer kitchen and woodshed on the back. Mom became ill when I was just short of 6, Grandpa (Dad's) and Grandma had moved in with her sister a few years before when Dad took over the farm. Grandpa died not long after Mom got sick so Grandma moved in with us and the farmhand's wfe helped in the house. World War II started in '39 when I was 10, so my younger brothers and I were the only hep that Dad had on our large farm. I lived there till I was 17, visited later after finished college (fiends from church had bought the farm when we moved west [that was "friends" from church: dratted keyboads!]). We had a quite close family ...Grandma used to get after us, e.g. for running up the back stair and sliding down the banister of the front stair ... telling us that she'd give us the strap ... but we laughed at her, saying that she, who had a bt of a hard time getting around, having inward cuvature of the spine, couldn't catch us! I have happy memories of the place: Mom not being there was just a fact of life. It was torn down a number of years ago, when they put a freeway from Sarnia, across from Port Huron, to join the one between Windsor(Detroit) and Toronto that goes just south of London. ole joyful...See MoreOT Fall is my favorite season - how about you?
Comments (33)In Northern California on vacation just now, I saw Icebergs in full bloom and my mother's Marie Pavie (a cutting from mine!) blooming away with such perfect form and scenting the air around her. On return home, everything is frozen, grey and brown. What a downer. At work people were telling me that they knew I was in a bad mood. Well, duh. I was snarling at everyone. So the start of winter is the worst. By January, I usually come to acceptance. It's the Kubler-Ross stages of grief every #*$&(*% year. Sigh. Denial: "It's not that bad. It won't be that bad. It's actually beautiful in the winter." (October) Anger: "I hate this f***ing place! Why do we have to live here?!" (November-December) Bargaining: "Can we just PLEASE move somewhere with a year-round growing climate? Please, please, please...?" (December) Depression: "Maybe if I just eat enough chocolate I will get enough phenylethylamine to get through." (December, and 20 pounds of chocolate later...) Acceptance: "Well I may as well get chores done and dream of beautiful gardens." (January/February...if I'm lucky). Then the winds come in March/April the new growth gets ripped to shreds, and I start all over again....See MoreOT: Where’s Virginia and Carol, and how are you Bart?
Comments (34)Just a quick hello from me - to let you all know my heart goes out to all of you going through tough times; it's so good to hear from you all, and I wish I could somehow get the words out to give needed comfort and hope to everyone individually, but somehow they're failing me, and have been for some time. I too miss Virginia amongst others, she was so kind to me and to so many others when in difficulties. I've been having a s**t time since November when I rashly thought I'd have a little outing into the city one evening... and relapsed (several rather traumatic events happened during and after that evening, all in quick succession, so I think that's what caused the relapse; I might have got through one or two of these challenges but not all of them, one on top of the other. As Ingrid said, any stress can exacerbate these weird auto-immune/neurological/inflammation type of illnesses like crazy.) So then I didn't have the mental or physical energy to follow the forum at all for a while, then could only manage to read but not respond/write anything; then managed to write a bit every now and then, so long as it wasn't too complex for my challenged brain (which means anything involving multitasking, like feeling and thinking/forming words at the same time (!) ...I know, it's weird!... But, as I'm getting better at using the mindfulness to dissolve the stress, and with time and rest am definitely improving now; I actually got out of my gloomy house for a little walk the other day and saw the sparkling blue sea again! So beautiful... and have even done a bit of tidying up in the garden! Whooa! 35 minutes max per session including lots of sitting, and/or lying down to rest every time I'm on the point of fainting, heart pounding, until the blood gets back to the brain and I can see and think and stand up straight again. Just pulling off dead leaves and stems from the row of agapanthus on the raised bed and tearing them up and scattering the debris for mulch. That's all I've got growing out there I'm afraid, apart from some dying, drought-struck/borer attacked natives on the verge. And lots of overgrown rye grasses around the dead lawn! But it feels great to do something out there, no matter how minor. :-)...See MoreLisa Adams
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