Paint the tile. I wish the search function would properly work here. There's a current thread about painting tile backsplash with very impressive results.

I do like the cabinets. It's just a lot of brown, all in the same shade.

Long thread on painting backsplash tile, with pictures.

https://www.houzz.com/discussions/painting-kitchen-tile-and-grout-dsvw-vd~5538366?n=155

I think changing the backsplash would be the most impact for least outlay. There are some peel and stick options you might like, and you could change up your hardware to coordinate with it. If you wanted to spend more I would consider seeing if you could get the tiled counters laminated with a thin layer of substrate material and some of the new laminates. You'd need the help of a pro for that, though.

I looked at home depot for stick on back splash,any suggestions

I would change out the hardware to a color that compliments your stainless appliances. Keep it simple.. clean lines. Since I see you have black table and chairs, I would use a black and white color scheme, maybe a Roman shade or valance above the window in black and white.. I would also look for a carpet runner for the center area of your space. Possibly a 3 by 6. You could also use a touch of red since I assume you will be using your ceramic piece on your counter.
Get a few vases or decorative jars for above the cabinet in the corners. Solid colors preferred.

that sounds like something i would like

Valance above window.. and size of rug for more impact. Also vases above cabinets in corner. Try looking at pier one imports for vases. 2 or 3 per side. Different sizes.. and varied shapes.. but all the same color

Also if you can change out the backsplash, I would do it.. remember to pick clean lines and simple design.. no gingerbread!

Hardware similar to this

thank you!!! what kind of rug do you reccomend?

Look on Wayfair.com
Possibly something like these

Like these

perfect

Thank you so much!