HELP GARDEN DESIGN DISASTER
Jennifer Amison
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Comments (10)Some posters from your area will probably come along and give you some good advice, but in the meantime, let me get you started. If you are not going spray, then you are going to have to search out the roses that are very disease-resistant. That includes roses like Knock Out--which is why it is doing fine. I haven't grown most of the roses on your list, but I have seen roses like zephirine drouhin and abraham darby on blackspot magnet lists. In other words, don't even try to grow them if you aren't going to spray. Two things you can do now. 1)Check out the thread I started tonight about "Year-end Review: What are you Blackspotters" (or something like that). You don't want to grow any of those roses. 2) Go to the search box at top or bottom of the page and type in "disease resistant" or "blackspot"--that should call up dozens of threads talking about what roses you should or shouldn't be growing. And yes, there is hope for you. Since you are already becoming obsessed with roses (like the rest of us), just continue on learning more about roses, and you too can develop a lovely garden of roses--I promise you. Kate...See MoreGardening Disaster
Comments (9)My suggestion to you is, do not despair! Take the advice you have gotten here so far and use that as a starting point. A few things I wish I had done and did not, despite all the encouragement here to do so, was keep a journal, map out the beds and take tons of pictures along the way. I was sure the little bit I was doing was enough. I was wrong, woefully wrong. What I did was just enough to make me crazy this spring! I did keep the tags off of the plants and in most cases I even looked them up on the internet and printed out additional information, placing all that into a 3 ring binder. That's been quite helpful. Though I wish I knew exactly where each plant IS within the bed. So a map would've been a blessing. No map...Big mistake. Now here I am in my second summer of gardening looking at all the pretty green things popping up, scratching my head, trying to remember what they are! I can remember some things but not all and am especially lost when it comes to figuring out whats what with the plants coming up that came from the Newbie plant exchange I participated in last fall! Those I didn't make a list of at all and cannot seem to locate the letter that came with the box, so I don't even have that little bit of help! In other words, I have approx 40 plant starts that I put in my bed and I have nothing to guide me as to where I put them, what they are and what I should do with them! So I'm L O S T! Don't let that happen to you! I did take some photos last year, but not nearly enough. The photos I do have are a help but I wish I had photos of what the plants looked like before they bloomed. I find myself trying to determine if some of these green shoots are really weeds trying to blend in with the real stuff in hopes of not being yanked! I find myself a wee bit suspicious of anything that looks slightly different than the majority. For all I know it's a weed or it may be one of those starts that got poked into the ground a little too close in the fall planting. So I'm stuck playing a waiting game. There are some areas in my bed that are empty. I can't seem to remember what was there last year. I'm not sure if it's something that is just a late bloomer or if the something that was there isn't coming back. So I'm playing that waiting game as well. Learn from my mistakes. Some of the note keeping, map making, picture taking may seem like overkill but trust me...it's not. That little extra time would've saved me a whole lot of wasted time this year. Good luck and Happy Gardening...you'll learn a lot here. I sure did!...See Moremy first tomato garden - a disaster - link to pix
Comments (25)westchestergrower, I'm very sorry my naivete has offended you..... and no, I'm not personally offended, in fact I understand you perfectly. Until about 6-8 weeks ago, I had no clue what it ment to grow anything, much less tomatoes. The only tomatoes I've ever seen growing in my life are the ones at a neighboring fruitstand (I'm a city girl, recently transplanted) - his plants are 3-4 feet tall, have 2-3 stems, green as all get-out and have more tomatoes than leaves. That's what I thought tomatoes do. I had no clue they grow in excess of 8' tall, or turn into amazon-like jungles, or are on the dinner menu of just about every pest, bacteria and fungus imaginable. I never envisioned the range of tomato plagues could be as numerous as there are varieties of tomatoes themselves. I also had no idea what a home grown tomato tasted like. Or the pride associated with watching your own dinner grow.... sinking your hands into the dirt, and having the ability to better your plant. Or the utter confusion facing the myriad of voodoo and hocus pocus to wade through in an effort to discover what 'works for you'. (I can't explain how hard it is for me to 'experiment' on my poor plants, wondering what I'm going to find the next morning) And finally, I certainly did not anticipate the enormous and dedicated following of tomato growers and lovers. The art of 'tomatoing' is like nothing I'd anticipated.... its vastness rivals other endeavors of mine like flyfishing and horsemanship. I'm frustrated, confused, embarrassed, enthralled, proud and determined all at the same time. I simply went to home depot, bought a couple of plants and put them in the ground. I never would have dreamed it would develop into an obsession. But obsession it is, which is why I completely understand and respect your comment. Please understand, I literally loose sleep over these plants. I've spent hours upon hours researching and trying to learn. I drive everyone in my life nuts. I've cancelled dinner dates just so I can get back and check on them (I don't currently live at their location, and go days without seeing them some weeks). I'vw skipped meetings at work, just so I could badger the kind folks at the local extension office. From what I'm learning my plants are fairly robust, but they're also struggling and its all my fault. The front looks bushy and green, but inside, its a dying yellow mess. The photos simply don't do the damage justice. Plant after plant is cracking and falling down. The entire grape jungle has collapsed upon itself and the middle is rotting out. The potted plants are in a constant state of having too much or too little water. I'm typically a glass-half-full kinda person... and I really should cut myself some slack here too... but like I'm sure you're well familiar with, after so much time, effort, care and dedication, watching the entire back half of your crop disintegrate and die before your very eyes, and having no knowledge of what to do about it is supremely frustrating and in my naive mind constitutes a 'disaster'. For some reason, I can't see the loads and loads of tomatoes, I see broken trusses and snipped stems. Like I said, I really should cut myself some slack, and apparently be pleased with what I have... but I've got the gardening bug bad now, and I've made so many stupid regrettable mistakes, I just want to start over. I thank you for your comment. I will be wiser in the future thanks to you. Thanks all for this forum as well, its been the best source of help I've found and everyone is welcoming and kind. Be well - Buck...See MoreKitchen design disaster
Comments (27)" I do not want appliances to be the first impression of my house. " They won't be. I agree with bbtrix who said " the living room is front and center and where the eye is naturally drawn when walking in. Now, if there is a crowd in the DR or kitchen of course someone would look that way " Once you create beautiful focal points in the living room and entry I hope you feel better. Realistically, I think most people when walking into a home for the first time just kind of notice nothing, until they relax enough to look around. They will be looking at you, and hunting for a place to stow their shoes and jackets, and greeting other people they know...and then by the time they notice the fridge they will be well into the room and being offered a drink :) The next time they will be taking in the various details, but mostly refrigerators are overlooked. You're safe!...See MoreDiana Bier Interiors, LLC
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