The Best Skin-Care Trick is Being Rich

deegw

5 years ago

Thought of my internet friends when I saw this article.

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writersblock (9b/10a)

5 years ago

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I read that article, but there is a lot wrong with it, starting with the assumption that just because a procedure is expensive it must work well. I can well remember playing a dinner at world famous jeweler's on Worth Avenue quite a few years ago, at a time when they were starting to get back a lot of their more significant pieces, 'cause the heirs didn't want jewelry that had to live in the bank. It was also the time when the women who were of the Ali McGraw generation (little LP shift, pulled back short ponytail) were starting to get way up there in age.

You don't get an invite to a private dinner for a necklace unless you have some moola to spend, and this necklace traveled with a retinue, including one guy whose whole job it was to take the necklace out of the case and put it on the stand, then put it on the model for the walkaround, then put it away again. I didn't play during walkarounds (they wanted everyone focused on the jewelry), and he came over and sat next to me, in very high glee.

"Look at this one, look at this one!" he chortled as another woman who should have known better than to maintain that cruel hairstyle after 70 came under his eye. "Even money can't save you!" And of course he was right. Yeah, the super-rich look groomed, but in reality their skin mostly doesn't look that much better than that of the middle classes. And at that point in my life, my work gave me plenty of opportunity to observe.

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jellytoast
5 years ago
I couldn't agree more. I noticed a real difference in my skin when I
focused more on sinking money into it rather than applying products on
it. If only my funds were unlimited ...
DLM2000-GW
5 years ago
Thought of this group when I read that this morning. Like so many things in life, all it takes is money!
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leela4
5 years ago
That's a very interesting article. Thanks for sharing it.

I've often thought about how it probably takes actual "procedures" to achieve certain results, which of course also requires (more) money.
gsciencechick
5 years ago
last modified: 5 years ago
Ahh, but don't forget about genetics! Just use Olay products but come from a long line of people who don't wrinkle. I've had people ask me what's my secret, and that's really it.
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5 years ago
I almost posted this as well, but since I don't wear make up and moisturize my face and body with the same stuff (Amlactyn), I didn't feel qualified to post it on any of the make up threads. Thanks for posting d_gw.
nini804
5 years ago
As a woman in my very late forties...I must say that I LOVE seeing famous/wealthy women in their 60’s and 70’s that look fabulous! Bc while I certainly don’t have the genetics of Christie Brinkley or the bank accounts of Robin McGraw and Jane Fonda (who I think is 80 or something crazy like that!) it simply gives me hope that it is possible to still look young and vibrant into senior citizenship! The necklace guard in WritersBlock‘s story sounds like a cruel, bitter person. It’s not kind to laugh at anyone’s appearance, no matter how much money they have. :(
jellytoast
5 years ago
I need to give up my ponytail after 70? Nooooooooooo ....
terezosa / terriks
5 years ago
I need to give up my ponytail after 70? Nooooooooooo ....

Just don't put your hair in a ponytail when you go to fancy dinners for necklaces.
salonva
5 years ago
Good article and discussion. Yes, genes are a big part of the equation for sure as is how we treat our skin. However, age does happen and people react differently.

I have an issue when people mention Christie Brinkley- because while she is clearly has been blessed with good symmetrical features and a lovely smile, she has not been blessed with good plastic surgery results. I find it almost offensive when she touts skin care products as it is so apparent that she is not being truthful. Does no one else see her eyes and how different- more uplifted- they look from her youth?? Sorry rant over.
gsciencechick
5 years ago
Twice this week at the Y I got asked if I was a student when wearing my school logo performance zip. I don't get that as much as I used to, but it still feels pretty good. :)
llitm
5 years ago
salonva, I don't see the poor results of p/s on Christie that you do but one that absolutely blows me away is Goldie Hawn. I find her to be almost unrecognizable from her younger years.
terezosa / terriks
5 years ago
I'm watching the Golden Globes and thinking about this conversation...
deegw
Original Author
5 years ago
I know, right? Even many of the middle aged guys have glowing, dewy skin. I was looking at a few pre show instagram pics and many people were wearing fancy facial masks while getting dressed.
Dolbanka Naher
2 years ago
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Sorry for reviving the thread, I think that there is no difference you are rich or poor as if you do not take care of yourself then anyways you will have acne. My friend Oxiro, has ocular rosacea. Treatment for rosacea focuses on controlling signs and symptoms. Most often this requires a combination of good skincare and prescription drugs. The duration of your treatment depends on the type and severity of your signs and symptoms. Recurrence is common. New rosacea medications have been developed in recent years. The type of medication your doctor prescribes depends on which signs and symptoms you're experiencing. I can recommend acne vitamins supplements they can help you faster than any other meds. You may need to try different options or a combination of drugs to find a treatment that works for you.

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