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Comments (138)I had been trying to re-connect with a friend by emailing her and arranging lunch dates. I was always the one to initiate. I kept it up for several months. When we saw each other it was always really nice. When we ran into each other at church there were always big hugs and "we have to do lunch again soon !". The only way that was going to happen was if I initiated. I stopped. For good or bad I don't think that it can be one-sided. I have given this a lot of thought. I have always been a loner and I believe I always will be. I have had one good friend at a time for years and then it would end and I would have another. I seem to be able to manage that and nothing else. I believe that if I really wanted more I would do more to aide the process. DH and I are really close and do a lot of things together and separately. He has no close friend either. But that is nothing new. Looking at it dispassionately it is the way we are. I no longer think there is something wrong with us. Everyone finds their own way of carrying on. My way wouldn't work for someone else and their way wouldn't work for me. When I am on a bike tour for months at a time I do enjoy being with others ...up to a point. All of us on the trips agree that our tent is like a return to the womb :) When I get home I really relish the lack of stimulation from others and go right back into my solitary ways. I have meditated at length on this and on my original thread that spawned this thread. I am what I am and that is all that I am. Peaceful is how I feel ...not lonely or alone. c...See MoreBook of the Week
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Comments (0)Ellen Swallow Richards Quotes American - Scientist December 3, 1842 - March 30, 1911 New England is the home of all that is good and noble with all her sternness and uncompromising opinions. Ellen Swallow Richards If you keep your feathers well oiled the water of criticism will run off as from a duck's back. Ellen Swallow Richards The only trouble here is they won't let us study enough. They are so afraid we shall break down and you know the reputation of the College is at stake, for the question is, can girls get a college degree without ruining their health? Ellen Swallow Richards We never can tell how our lives may work to the account of the general good, and we are not wise enough to know if we have fulfilled our mission or not. Ellen Swallow Richards You cannot make women contented with cooking and cleaning and you need not try. Ellen Swallow Richards Work is a sovereign remedy for all ills, and a man who loves to work will never be unhappy. Ellen Swallow Richards If it is a relief to take your clothes off at night, be sure that something is wrong. Clothes should not be a burden. They should be a comfort and a protection. Ellen Swallow Richards Subject the material world to the higher ends by understanding it in all its relations to daily life and action. Ellen Swallow Richards I prefer surveying for a week to spending a week in fashionable society even of the best class. Ellen Swallow Richards Anna Freud Quotes Austrian - Psychologist December 3, 1895 - October 9, 1982 We are imprisoned in the realm of life, like a sailor on his tiny boat, on an infinite ocean. Anna Freud We are aware only of the empty space in the forest, which only yesterday was filled with trees. Anna Freud If some longing goes unmet, don't be astonished. We call that Life. Anna Freud Things are not as we would like them to be. There is only one way to deal with it, namely to try and be all right oneself. Anna Freud I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time. Anna Freud Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of bad training. Anna Freud Papa continually emphasizes how much remains unexplained. With the other psychoanalytic writers, everything is always so known and fixed. Anna Freud We live trapped, between the churned-up and examined past and a future that waits for our work. Anna Freud Sometimes the most beautiful thing is precisely the one that comes unexpectedly and unearned, hence something given truly as a present. Anna Freud It is only when parental feelings are ineffective or too ambivalent or when the mother's emotions are temporarily engaged elsewhere that children feel lost. Anna Freud My different personalities leave me in peace now. Anna Freud Why do we go around acting as though everything was friendship and reliability when basically everything everywhere is full of sudden hate and ugliness? Anna Freud How one can live without being able to judge oneself, criticize what one has accomplished, and still enjoy what one does, is unimaginable to me. Anna Freud I am no longer afraid to say anything. Anna Freud Everything becomes so problematic because of basic faults: from a discontent with myself. Anna Freud What I have always wanted for myself is much more primitive. It is probably nothing more than the affection of the people with whom I am in contact, and their good opinion of me. Anna Freud Who promised you that only for joy were you brought to this earth? Anna Freud Papa always makes it clear that he would like to know me as much more rational and lucid than the girls and women he gets to know during his analytic hours. Anna Freud If I have a stupid day, everything looks wrong to me. Anna Freud Create around one at least a small circle where matters are arranged as one wants them to be. Anna Freud Children usually do not blame themselves for getting lost. Anna Freud How can one know anything at all about people? Anna Freud Everyone here says in a surprised manner that I have grown... they are so stupid and do not notice that I am standing up straighter! Anna Freud I am glad that I do not have any children. Anna Freud A first visit to a madhouse is always a shock. Anna Freud Kate O'Brien Quotes Irish - Novelist December 3, 1897 - August 13, 1974 If it bends, it's funny; if it breaks, it's not funny. Kate O'Brien I only use my sick days for hang-overs and soap opera weddings. Kate O'Brien It's filled with... baking soda. Because it really smells. Kate O'Brien Everywhere I go I'm asked if I think the university stifles writers. My opinion is that they don't stifle enough of them. Kate O'Brien Hmmm... I never get the answer I think I'm going to get. Kate O'Brien A laugh is a terrible weapon. Kate O'Brien If somebody on this team actually gets to first base, I'll stand there naked. Kate O'Brien My mom always said that if the Protestants catch a Catholic in their church, they feed them to the Jews. Kate O'Brien John Doar Quotes American - Lawyer December 3, 1921 - November 11, 2014 I always felt that, through it all, there was a really strong, forward, positive, constructive accomplishment by the American people during that period, if you consider that during the period from 1954 to 1965, this country broke through the caste system. John Doar Countless black citizens in the South couldn't vote. They were second-class citizens from cradle to grave. The discrimination was terrible, brutal. John Doar You're not going to win anything with bottles and bricks. John Doar I'm not saying to you that every element of segregation and discrimination and second-class citizenship has changed. But in the political sense, the world has changed. People now who want to vote can vote. John Doar To me, success is seeing that justice is done. John Doar For a black student to work in southwest Mississippi for example - or in the Delta in 1960, 1961, 1962 - was high-risk work. John Doar Ozzy Osbourne Quotes English - Musician Born: December 3, 1948 I couldn't be a royal. It's like living in a supersonic goldfish bowl. Ozzy Osbourne Of all the things I've lost I miss my mind the most. Ozzy Osbourne Being sober on a bus is, like, totally different than being drunk on a bus. Ozzy Osbourne Rock music is not meant to be perfect. Ozzy Osbourne Whenever I have a bad day I just think of these people. Ozzy Osbourne I have a saying. 'Never judge a book by its cover'. I say that because I don't even know who Ozzy is. I wake up a new person every day. Ozzy Osbourne I got rabies shots for biting the head off a bat but that's OK - the bat had to get Ozzy shots. Ozzy Osbourne I have a genuine love affair with my audience. When I'm on stage they're not privileged to see me. It's a privilege for me to see them. Ozzy Osbourne All that stuff about heavy metal and hard rock, I don't subscribe to any of that. It's all just music. I mean, the heavy metal from the Seventies sounds nothing like the stuff from the Eighties, and that sounds nothing like the stuff from the Nineties. Who's to say what is and isn't a certain type of music? Ozzy Osbourne It's all part of my journey - I've done a lot of stupid things, but you learn by your mistakes. Ozzy Osbourne I'll only retire in the day I should be dead and they have me buried, and some idiot spell over my casket some stupid gospel stuff. Ozzy Osbourne I'm about caring, I'm about people, and I'm about entertaining people. I'm a family man. A husband. A father. I've been a lot of other things over the years, which we don't really want to talk about. Ozzy Osbourne To be a liar, you've got to have a great memory, and I don't have a memory. Ozzy Osbourne I cannot turn down this incredible honor twice. Ozzy Osbourne You gotta be really careful what you bite off. Don't bite off more than you can chew. It's a dangerous world. Ozzy Osbourne When you're young, you're stupid. You do silly things. Ozzy Osbourne Somebody said to me this morning, 'To what do you attribute your longevity?' I don't know. I mean, I couldn't have planned my life out better. By all accounts I should be dead! The abuse I put my body through: the drugs, the alcohol, the lifestyle I've lived the last 30 years! Ozzy Osbourne MTV made a huge impact. Heavy rotation took you from selling 1m albums to 20m albums, and that meant a lot of dough. Ozzy Osbourne They say military have the so-called 'secret intelligence' - this amount of intelligence must be very secret, since I've never seen any intelligent military person, nor I have seen any sense in the bloody stupid wars. Ozzy Osbourne What is this? It's music to get a brain seizure by. Ozzy Osbourne I used to fantasize that Paul McCartney would marry my sister. Ozzy Osbourne I am a raging alcoholic and a raging addict and I didn't want to see my kids do the same thing. Ozzy Osbourne I wish I didn't have to perform 'Iron Man' every night. Ozzy Osbourne I knew it was time to get off of reality TV when someone asked me if I sang as well as acted. Ozzy Osbourne L.A.'s not a good place to grow old. Ozzy Osbourne I can't do anything in moderation. Ozzy Osbourne I'm dyslexic, I have attention-deficit disorder, and I've got something like a hereditary tremor. Ozzy Osbourne I'm a very simple man. You've got to have, like, a computer nowadays to turn the TV on and off... and the nightmare continues. Ozzy Osbourne What is the world coming to? Ozzy Osbourne Francesca Lia Block Quotes American - Author Born: December 3, 1962 Writing is literally transformative. When we read, we are changed. When we write, we are changed. It's neurological. To me, this is a kind of magic. Francesca Lia Block Writing is very cathartic for me. As a teacher, I hear many students say that writing can be painful and exhausting. It can be, but ultimately I believe that if you push through, the process is healing and exhilarating. Francesca Lia Block I think depression creates in me an urgent need to write, but I also believe that daily stress, and even the positive 'stress' of intense happiness, can compel me to express myself through the written word. Francesca Lia Block It's scary to become a woman in this world. We have to understand that some of the messages we get, messages that we are not enough, are there to keep our power in check. We can't buy into these messages. Francesca Lia Block I love Sylvia Plath and Anne Sexton. I also love more cerebral poets like H.D. and Emily Dickinson. My parents subscribed to a monthly poetry periodical, and as a teenager I was introduced to Denise Levertov, who was an influence. Francesca Lia Block I am constantly thinking ahead to what I want to write about in the future, and when I'm done with one project, I give myself a little time and then start the next one. Francesca Lia Block Write with abandon and no constraints for first draft. Cut brutally and save in separate files on second draft. Add conflict; don't be afraid to make your characters suffer. Read what you love. Write what you love. Love. Francesca Lia Block...See MoreQuotes 12 - 31 - 17 : 2, Hopkins
Comments (0)Anthony Hopkins Quotes Welsh - Actor Born: December 31, 1937 My philosophy is it's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am, and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier. Anthony Hopkins I think the healthy way to live is to make friends with the beast inside oneself, and that means not the beast but the shadow. The dark side of one's nature. Have fun with it and you know, is to accept everything about ourselves. Anthony Hopkins We are dying from overthinking. We are slowly killing ourselves by thinking about everything. Think. Think. Think. You can never trust the human mind anyway. It's a death trap. Anthony Hopkins My weak spot is laziness. Oh, I have a lot of weak spots: cookies, croissants. Anthony Hopkins I have a punishing workout regimen. Every day I do 3 minutes on a treadmill, then I lie down, drink a glass of vodka and smoke a cigarette. Anthony Hopkins Why love if losing hurts so much? I have no answers anymore; only the life I have lived. The pain now is part of the happiness then. Anthony Hopkins If you do things, whether it's acting or music or painting, do it without fear - that's my philosophy. Because nobody can arrest you and put you in jail if you paint badly, so there's nothing to lose. Anthony Hopkins For me, time is the greatest mystery of all. The fact is that we're dreaming all the time. That's what really gets me. We have a fathomless lake of unconsciousness just beneath our skulls. Anthony Hopkins Life's too short to deal with other people's insecurities. Anthony Hopkins We're all caught up in circumstances, and we're all good and evil. When you're really hungry, for instance, you'll do anything to survive. I think the most evil thing - well, maybe that's too strong - but certainly a very evil thing is judgment, the sin of ignorance. Anthony Hopkins I'm a pretty tough guy, you know. I'm a pretty hard man. I've got a lot of compassion, but I don't waste time with people. Anthony Hopkins I love life because what more is there? Anthony Hopkins Relish everything that's inside of you, the imperfections, the darkness, the richness and light and everything. And that makes for a full life. Anthony Hopkins I was lousy in school. Real screwed-up. A moron. I was antisocial and didn't bother with the other kids. A really bad student. I didn't have any brains. I didn't know what I was doing there. That's why I became an actor. Anthony Hopkins The magical, supernatural force that is with us every second is time. We can't even comprehend it. It's such an illusion, it's such a strange thing. Anthony Hopkins I'm devious, cruel, cunning and addictive. Anthony Hopkins Every time I try to retire, or even think of retiring from acting, my agent comes up with a script. Anthony Hopkins I tend to get bored quickly, which means I must be boring. Anthony Hopkins People forget that Mozart wrote for commissions. There's a thing in psychology where they think if it's popular, it can't be serious. Anthony Hopkins I'm most suspicious of scripts that have a lot of stage direction at the top of the page... sunrise over the desert and masses of... a whole essay before you get to the dialogue. Anthony Hopkins I don't have many friends; I'm very much a loner. As a child I was very isolated, and I've never been really close to anyone. Anthony Hopkins I am a bit of a solitude person - a solitary personality. I like being on my own. I don't have any major friendships or relationships with people. Anthony Hopkins I would like to go back to Wales. I'm obsessed with my childhood and at least three times a week dream I am back there. Anthony Hopkins I don't believe in nepotism. I don't much like the idea of parents who interfere. Anthony Hopkins I tried acting, liked it, and stuck with it. I saw it as the way I would keep that promise to myself of getting back at those who had made my school life a misery. Anthony Hopkins I like the good life too much, I'm not good at going on stage night after night and on wet Wednesday afternoons. Anthony Hopkins I was called 'Dumbo,' like the elephant, as a child because I couldn't understand things at school. Anthony Hopkins I'm married. My wife, Stella - a beautiful woman. She's brought a lot of peace to my life, a lot of wisdom. Anthony Hopkins My philosophy is: It's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. Anthony Hopkins I come from - I came from Wales, and it's a strong, butch society. We were in the war and all that. People didn't waste time feeling sorry for themselves. You had to get on with it. So my credo is get on with it. I don't waste time being soft. I'm not cold, but I don't like being, wasting my time with - life's too short. Anthony Hopkins I think the first British actor who really worked well in cinema was Albert Finney. He was a back-street Marlon Brando. He brought a great wittiness and power to the screen. The best actor we've had. Anthony Hopkins I spent two years in the military service, then I trudged around in repertory for quite a while. I somehow wound up at the National Theatre, though, and then I was definitely on my way. Anthony Hopkins I am able to play monsters well. I understand monsters. I understand madmen. Anthony Hopkins My life turned out to be beyond my greatest dreams. Anthony Hopkins We all dream. We dream vividly, depending on our nature. Our existence is beyond our explanation, whether we believe in God or we have religion or we're atheist. Anthony Hopkins I worked with Lawrence Olivier some years ago. He was a great mentor. Anthony Hopkins I've got no need to prove to myself that I can do Shakespeare. I've done it. Anthony Hopkins I love roller coasters. I don't get a chance often, but I've gone to Magic Mountain and gone on the rides. I love roller coasters. Anthony Hopkins I have dual citizenship; it just so happens I live in America. I would like to go back to Wales. I'm obsessed with my childhood, and at least three times a week dream I am back there. Anthony Hopkins My father wasn't a cruel man. And I loved him. But he was a pretty tough character. His own father was even tougher - one of those Victorians, hard as iron - but my dad was tough enough. Anthony Hopkins Years ago I met Richard Burton in Port Talbot, my home town, and afterwards he passed in his car with his wife, and I thought, 'I want to get out and become like him'. Not because of Wales, because I love Wales, but because I was so limited as a child at school and so bereft and lonely, and I thought becoming an actor would do that. Anthony Hopkins Actors I admire? Ed Harris, or course, I think he's terrific; because I know he always had to fight being what he looked like a lot, but I think he's a terrific actor. Anthony Hopkins I came here in 1974 to do a play, and then I went to L.A. I really like living in America. I feel more at home here than anywhere else. Anthony Hopkins I know that the arts are important. I'm not denying that, but I can't associate myself with all the claptrap that goes on around it. Anthony Hopkins I worked with Steven Spielberg on Amistad... he seemed so very secure in himself that he let me do things. Anthony Hopkins This industry has been really good to me. It's been a great life. I'm not through yet. I'm ready when you are, Mr. DeMille. Anthony Hopkins I don't have a vast longing for the stage. Anthony Hopkins If I spent all my time criticising myself, I wouldn't be able to function. There are actors who theorise till the cows come home. I haven't the patience for them. It's maybe shallow, but that's why I'll never be part of the acting set. Anthony Hopkins I do admire Judi Dench and Sir Ian McKellen, but I'm a philistine. I like the good life too much; I'm not good at going on stage night after night and on wet Wednesday afternoons. Anthony Hopkins I think a certain amount of stress in life is good. The stress of just working, which takes effort - I think it keeps you going. Anthony Hopkins Well, everyone likes movies when they're a little kid. Anthony Hopkins I'm interested in the dream and subconscious mind, the peculiar dream-like quality of our lives, sometime nightmare quality of our lives. Anthony Hopkins I don't have people following me around, like bodyguards. I don't know how people live like that. Maybe the young movie stars have to live like that, I don't know. But it seems a little crazy to me. I don't think you need all that stuff. Anthony Hopkins I don't like freeloaders; I don't like people who are negative. Anthony Hopkins It's such a pleasant surprise when you come on set and you find someone in charge like Ken Branagh or James Ivory. You know that you're going to do a day's work and at the end of it, it's going to be good. Anthony Hopkins I've had no contact with my daughter for years. That's her choice. Anyway, you move on. If people don't want to bother with me, fine. You know, God bless them, and move on. Anthony Hopkins I have dual citizenship, it just so happens I live in America. Anthony Hopkins The art of acting is not to act. Once you show them more, what you show them, in fact is bad acting. Anthony Hopkins I have no interest in Shakespeare and all that British nonsense... I just wanted to get famous and all the rest is hogwash. Anthony Hopkins And I love a scary movie. It makes your toes curl and it's not you going through it. Anthony Hopkins I don't know what acting is, but I enjoy it. Anthony Hopkins I never make conscious decisions. Anthony Hopkins I think all those actors from that generation, like Bogart - they were wonderful actors. They didn't act. They just came on and they did it, and the characters were wonderful. Anthony Hopkins I'm always cast in these strange men... that's not me, really. Anthony Hopkins I'm the slowest driver in the world. Anthony Hopkins I've got a great sense of humor. Anthony Hopkins It was a challenge, to work with Oliver Stone. Anthony Hopkins My father was grounded, a very meat-and-potatoes man. He was a baker. Anthony Hopkins Oh yes. I'm an actor, so I just learn my lines, and show up and do it. I gave it a little bit of thought. Anthony Hopkins Richard Burton came from the same town as me, so I thought I'd follow my nose, and follow my luck. I think I've been very lucky. Anthony Hopkins I'm one of the slowest drivers on the road. I mosey along. If you're doing anything too fast, including living life too fast, that creates sudden death. If I have to be somewhere on time, I make sure I leave early enough. Anthony Hopkins In the theatre, people talk. Talk, talk until the cows come home about journeys of discovery and about what Hazlitt thought of a line of Shakespeare. I can't stand it. Anthony Hopkins I've been composing music all my life and if I'd been clever enough at school I would like to have gone to music college. Anthony Hopkins A conductor can't be too arrogant with an orchestra and try to impose himself too much. Anthony Hopkins I can't stand directors who try to micro-manage everything. When it happens these days I just walk off set, saying if they don't like the way I'm doing it they can get someone else. Anthony Hopkins What I do is just go over and over and over my lines and learn the script so well that I can just be easy and relaxed. That's the way I always work. Anthony Hopkins I know that some actors and directors like to have intensity on set. I don't, particularly. Certainly, if they want that, that's fine, but I can't work like that. Anthony Hopkins I like to take it easy. Anthony Hopkins I'm fascinated by the fact that we can't grasp anything about time. Anthony Hopkins The Welsh people have a talent for acting that one does not find in the English. The English lack heart. Anthony Hopkins I'm not a health freak. I just work out every day. Anthony Hopkins I don't know why they gave me a knighthood - though it's very nice of them - but I only ever use the title in the U.S. The Americans insist on it and get offended if I don't. Anthony Hopkins I was bullied as a boy - lots of kids are, but hopefully most of us get on with our lives and grow up. Anthony Hopkins I am not very good with relationships. With anyone. I can't be locked up with anyone for too long. Anthony Hopkins I remember coming to New York in 1974 to do a play here called 'Equis.' And I remember the first morning getting up and walking around the streets, and I thought, 'I'm home.' I felt really at peace here. Anthony Hopkins We're always looking over our shoulders, 'what they will think, what the press will think, what will this one - am I making the right career move?' When you're young you have to do all that to survive, I suppose. Anthony Hopkins I just wanted to be a composer; I became an actor by default, really. I got a scholarship to a college of music and drama, hoping to take a scholarship in music. But I ended up as an acting student, so I've stuck with that for the last 50-odd years. Anthony Hopkins I wouldn't use the word 'scared' for my role as Hitchcock, but it was my most insecure. Taking on such a formidable, giant personality such as Hitchcock; he was one of the great geniuses of world cinema. Sheer genius. Anthony Hopkins Jonathan Demme is a very sharp editor of his movies. Anthony Hopkins I hope I would not be so arrogant as to doubt anyone's religion or belief. Anthony Hopkins The knighthood was a tremendous honour, I don't dismiss it. But I feel embarrassed by the flowery, theatrical stuff that goes with being an actor. Anthony Hopkins People ask, 'Should I call you Sir Hopkins?' But I say, 'No. Call me Tony,' because it's too much of a lift-up. Anthony Hopkins Once you begin to fall off the track and believe you breathe different air to everyone else, you're doomed; you're finished. Anthony Hopkins I learn poetry, learn text, and that really keeps you alive. Anthony Hopkins Our existence is beyond our explanation, whether we believe in God or we have religion or we're atheist. Our existence is beyond our understanding. No one has an answer. Anthony Hopkins Acting is just a process of relaxation, actually. Knowing the text so well and trusting that the instinct and the subconscious mind, whatever you want to call it, is going to take over. Anthony Hopkins I've felt like an outsider all my life. It comes from my mother, who always felt like an outsider in my father's family. She was a powerful woman, and she motivated my father. Anthony Hopkins Beware the tyranny of the weak. They just suck you dry. Anthony Hopkins I worked at the Steel Company Of Wales when I was 17. My job was to supply tools to the guys working the blast furnaces. Anthony Hopkins I couldn't say I ever dreamt of becoming a composer, a pianist, or anything else for that matter. I have the kind of brain where nothing is set in stone. Anthony Hopkins I always had a knack for improvisation. I can write down the notes I play, but never really had a proper academic musical background. I suppose I'm blessed and cursed by the fact I have that freedom. Anthony Hopkins We have a Boesendorfer piano that I play every day. It keeps my brain and my fingers active. Anthony Hopkins...See MoreIdaClaire
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