Am I overreacting to something my contractor did?
Lisa
5 years ago
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Comments (10)Thanks for the comments. You may be right that I am overreacting, things definitely started on a sour note, so maybe I am more sensitive than normal. Our project was not a cost plus 10% basis - it was fixed price for the job. I've never heard of cost plus 10% for anything other than designers, but perhaps it varies in other areas of the country? When the GC bid on the project he went to great lengths to tell me how much attention he pays to details and how other poeple are sloppy, but he takes great pride in making sure everything is done to the highest quality. Well that may be true, but I wouldn't know as we have been dealing with his sloppy subs throughout the project, not him. Then there was the fact that his partner offered us $4000 for our old kitchen and then decided he didn't want it after all as soon as it was demoed and all the pieces were sitting in our living room. As we are in a city row home we had no where to store anything and the impression we got was that he hoped we would just say take it for free to get rid of it. It defintiely put a bad taste in my mouth. He ended up taking it away and storing it in the house he had been going to put it into and we were able to sell it as a package on craigslist for the same price - could have got way more if it had been here and people could have come and viewed it. I will also say that having done many projects with different GCs I have never had one who was present less than this one, and given the number of problems we had with the project I do not think this is ok. It's one thing to trust your subs, and another thing to leave it to the home owner to have to spot and address every mistake made by the subs with no presence from the GC at all. It was very stressful for me as I am always the one who was home and always had to point out when things were wrong.... which I think is the GCs job and why we hired him. Also for the record I have requested a list of 'additional charges' several times, and haven't received anything - this may also have contributed to my frustration over hearing that the remaining couple of small things which we discussed from the beginning were now going to be an 'extra'. It makes me worried about what to expect when the bill finally comes. At this point I just want to pay for what we need to pay for and be done. It's a shame, we gave our last GC so many referrals, but I just don't know that I am comfortable referring this crew. I know some of his clients hire him on the basis that he does all the work personally. I guess we should have just done that. Live and learn....See MoreAm I unfair disqualifying this contractor over something this small?
Comments (25)Thanks all, I disqualified him and glad I did. After not hearing from him, he reached out with some B.S. that he hadn’t forgotten about me? He said he’d get the rendering I was waiting on out asap but his computer broke (dog ate it?)....all B.S. ....I wasn’t waiting on anything from him. After sending me that note with a promised future rendering asap, he followed up without a ‘promised rendering’ and didn’t even mention it again. Dodged a bullet there....See MoreAm I Being Rash Disqualifying this Contractor for Something This Small
Comments (6)I would also be a little apprehensive that he turned it around so quickly. I have worked with my contractor on three major renovations and each time it took him about a week to get back to me with a price because he is always working on other projects and has to spec each section with his subs. Plus, if he can’t listen to you on this, what if there is a problem during construction and he doesn’t agree with you on how to fix it? This sounds like it might be a blessing and maybe you should look at your other options a little more closely....See MoreAm I overreacting our bad craftsmanship
Comments (17)My guess is that the OP went to one of those one stop kitchen remodeling showrooms where they do the design, let you pick everything out in their showroom and then hire all the subs to do the work. While those sorts of places are convenient, you have the trade off of not knowing the quality of any of the tradesmen. I’d personally forgo the ease of such a place in favor of buying cabinets and appliances on my own, hiring a good GC to handle install all of the above and handle carpentry and coordinate the electrician and plumber, while I pick my own countertop fabricator. Counters are an area where you want to do a lot of research and pick the best fabricator....See MoreUser
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