Tablet (and other) people, I could use some guidance.
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Comments (3)His mom is always going to come first. You can either give him full and uncomplaining support, or you walk. My MIL lives with us. She has dementia and it's getting worse. Fortunately, she's a very nice lady and unlike your MIL, relatively easy to take care of. But it's clear I don't count as far as she's concerned; only my husband (her only child) does. What I say doesn't matter; only what he says is important to her. Yes, she stresses him out. But he has learned that he can in fact say "no" to her more unreasonable demands, and it isn't the end of the world. You'd be surprised how hard that lesson is to learn, sometimes. And no one can do it for anybody else; that's a personal journey of self-awareness (aka maturity) that every person has to travel by himself/herself. I'd suggest therapy or counseling for both of you. If you get someone good, it can be a great help. It isn't easy to always admit one needs help, and a lot of people feel they're too busy to do it. But it can really be a lifesaver, or in your case, a marriage saver....See MoreThinking of cabs to counter, could use some other POV...
Comments (15)Palimpsest: I'm trying to plan so that I have to keep very little out on the counter. I can fit all the small appliances I have into the 30" deep base under the uppers in question. My kitchenaid will tuck into the corner on the left and luckily we don't need a place for a micro as we don't use one. Sounds like you think it's doable. I just hate to screw either thing up: not having enough pantry space or wrecking an awesome deep counter. I'm torn as to what would ultimately be more useful. Raehelen: it would be storage for all the dry and canned goods, plus we do canning as well and want to do more. This place is not a hop and skip to the grocery store so I'll be buying more in bulk, not to mention Amazon subscribe and save (love that). The 10" you mention is almost 5' wide, though. I just measured my little freestanding cupboard that I keep some of my food in now and that one 10" shelf equals 2/3 of what fits in there. It would be a boon, storage-wise. I thought if I kept non-cooking related stuff in those drawers, the need to get in them when that counter is being used would be greatly diminished. The tambour idea is interesting, though. The only other place in the kitchen for 'pantry' stuff is a 4" wide full height pull out next to the fridge. Does anyone keep food in the cabs flanking the range hood, or is that too hot to be a good idea?...See MoreI downsized and now I'm lost. Could use some help. PICS
Comments (17)Assuming they hired a professional designer to do the model living room, what I see is that under the best of circumstances, that living room is awkwardly set up. In the model room, there is space for three, maybe 4 people to sit. Only one seat directly faces the TV set. Look at the furniture in that room. One small sofa or loveseat. One armchair. One TV stand. One end table. One large coffee table that was chosen to fill up the empty space in the center of the room to make it look more furnished. Imagine that room without the coffee table and it starts to look a lot like the OP�s room. There are three lamps, one of which appears to block part of the TV. And then at least 4 plants, to make the room appear more furnished and welcoming. I think they did a wonderful job making that room look open and inviting, and hiding the more obvious flaws in the design of the room. The room�s layout simply doesn�t function well. Either you have the sofa on the wall in the model room, and then you have a hard time watching TV, or you put the sofa on the window wall so you can see the TV set, and then you lose the view out the windows and have an awkward layout. OP, it�s not you. It�s the room. Working with the furniture you have, the first thing I�d do is take out the two small chairs. They don�t work with the rest of the furniture. Then I�d try to put the sofa on the wall where it is in the model room, and buy a table top TV swivel stand so that you could easily watch TV from there. Move the blue chair to the same position as the woven chair in the model picture and place an end table between the sofa and the chair. Down the line, look for a coffee table similar to the one in the model picture�glass or Lucite to keep the space looking open, and slightly oversized to fill the space better. And maybe a smaller unit to hold the TV....See MoreI could use some good news. You got some?
Comments (42)Hi Rob, Not much to add ... and hope that you're back at least part way out of your blue funk. Brother, retired farmer who lives 1600 miles way, has one son, only child, in a city 100 miles from here, a couple of small grand-daughters from son's second marriage, and comes to visit them a couple of times a year. He'd called to say he was to be in the neighbourhood, and we got together on Friday, I called son and he and his partner were there for lunch, as was brother and wife ... and a couple of favourite cousins were, as well. Brother spent a few years when he was very young with the family of our Mom's brother and their two children when she was ill, so he considers one as almost a sister: the son, a local farmer, died several years ago. The other cousin lives locally and I see her at church fairly often - she, who had voice training, has sung in the choir for 75 years. The brother and I went to deal with some complications over inheritance of cemetery plots that Dad owned ... and it looks as though resolution is to be easier than we figured. Then we sat and had a chat ... and he's rather worried about future viability of his son's marriage. We don't see one another often, but we've been close, over the years. Our brother died over forty years ago, when his kids were in their teens, and our ready-made sister that came with our stepmom lives near brother in Saskatchewan. It's a red letter day when we get together. ole joyful...See More- 7 years ago
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