I am a veteran (of the Vietnam era)
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Thank you to our veterans and those currently in the service
Comments (15)Thanks for starting this thread. I nearly missed it, though! My family extends a huge heartfelt thanks to all of our military men, women and their families. My dad did 3 tours in VN (Marine Corps) and, as a child, I didn't really understand there was a chance he might not come back home. I am very appreciative of our service men and women. There is a retired marine (I don't know him) who lives on one of the roads I travel daily. He flies a Marine Corps flag and an American flag. I noticed his MC flag was all tattered and weather-beaten. I bought a new one and left it on his stoop with a thank you note from "a Marine Corps "brat"." That weekend he replaced the MC flag with the new one. I see it flying every day and it makes me feel good that I could do something in some small way for one of our servicemen. I'll check back to see if anyone posts any blog links. Great question Jessy!! I'd love to read some of the writings....See MoreVeterans Day
Comments (4)Veteran's Day is November 11th so I assume you meant Memorial Day, formerly called Decoration Day. It also honors veterans and the front of my house is covered in flags in honor of our uncle who lived with us and died last year at age 93. He landed at Omaha Beach and men like him are honored all over the cemetarys today as we remember. It's also a day to remember lost loved ones who weren't veterans....See MoreQuestion for veteran homeowners...
Comments (51)Hi Makeithome I'm a newbie myself but your post hit home for me. Hang in there! My dh and I bought our starter home with the goal of paying it off in 15 years. It is a decent home was new at the time but a spec house so corners were cut EVERYWHERE (as in no insulation around the windows - we live in MI for goodness sakes - it gets COLD, cheapest everything, carpet, furnace, windows - big ticket things). Starting out we were DINKS, paid the mortgage like it was a 15 instead of a 30. During that time we started a family and because we didn't buy too much house and weren't house poor I had the choice to stay home with the kids. I am 100% certain had we bought more and at the time we could have easily afforded too I wouldn't be able to say that. I am so thankful that we didn't start our marriage out struggling to make payments on a house! When I stayed home - our income was cut in half. Because we had always budgeted, we knew what we were in for but ouch - that is an adjustment! I feel completely blessed to have had the choice to stay home with the kids and I know these days a lot of people don't. Now of course once the kids came the extra house payments stopped but before then we had actually refinanced to a 15 which would make it in total a 16 1/2. It was still our goal to pay it in 15 but we could no longer pay extra. We always lived on a budget which helped, we never spent more than we made. No credit cards (I know that is extreme to a lot of people but we found we spent less if we felt it coming out of our pocket right then instead of getting that bill at the end of the month). A lot of our family and friends took regular vacations had nicer homes, etc.. The hard part was that they couldn't even understand why we didn't just do it, just go and pay for it later. We stuck to our guns, stuck to our personal goals. At times it was really hard and I did feel envious or that by the time we could afford it the kids would be all grown up - no fun memories, no 6 Disney Parks in 7 days, yearly spring break trips, etc etc. We took small trips - travel a few hours and maybe stay in a hotel over night, did that a couple times. Time flies and the kid are now 7 and 9. I did end up going back to work part-time after being home for 6 years (when the economy tanked we were worried dh was going to get laid off) so we did see a little relief from being so tight for so long but we still kept on our budget and started paying extra on the house again. Since they are older they notice that some of the neighbors or there friends have their own motorized scooters, snowmobiles, atv's, and we just tell them it doesn't mean they are loved any less because they don't have THINGS. Not sure if they really care about that or not but there are so many more important things. We don't have smart phones, we don't have an xbox, nintendo ds, etc.. We do have a Wii we got for Christmas from Grandma and Grandpa and we enjoy that because it's something the whole family can do together. I always joke that we are living in the 80's - where is that Atari??? ;) I better cut this short I could go on and on. Anyhow - we have stuck to our goal by living within our means and I don't regret it a bit. We have put some money in the house over the years (we are serious DIY'ers and would save up and then do a project) and this October our house will be PAID OFF! Woohoo! Our 15 years would be April of 2013 so we are even doing it a bit early (our goal was actually to have it paid off before we turned 41 and we will make it)! So guess what - to celebrate next spring we will be going on a nice family vacation - paid for completely with cash. We did it (or we will have done it). Sometimes it seems like it was a ridiculous goal or that we should just spend the money on other things but we stuck with it and I'm so glad we did. So it sounds like you know right where you should be and you are doing it. Sometimes it does get you down but keep your focus and you'll be just fine (probably more than fine in the long run)! On a side note - I love looking at these forums. We did a MODEST update comparably to our modest sized kitchen and I learned a lot from lurking. I never did post before and afters because we still have totally mismatched appliances. But I think you can take what you can use from here (there is so much good info. and ideas) and leave the rest just like anything else. It's sort of like looking at a magazine but the pictures have life because you 'know' the people behind them and all that goes into designing and choosing every last detail (which I'm not good at so I enjoy it even more). There are some gorgeous gorgeous homes/kitchens on here and I can appreciate and admire them but a lot of them are not me nor are they even in a realm of possibility but that's okay, I appreciate them for what they are - gorgeous kitchens. We are pretty casual and I wouldn't even know what to do in a kitchen like some I've seen (I think I would probably drool for a second though, although my current item of desire is a MUDROOM). Anyhow-just my 2 cents. You'll get there!...See MoreThank you Veterans !!!
Comments (4)As an adult I didn't go to many parades in our little town, but I tried to never miss the one for Veteran's Day. Thanks to all past and present armed forces personnel wherever they may be. Shirley...See More- 7 years ago
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