Have I pissed off my contractor's office manager?
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Comments (6)I'm pretty sure she knows that it's way too loud. She doesn't actually believe the maintenance guy is racist, if she does then she needs her head examined. I think she's stalling because she doesn't want to kick out paying tenants. I've actually tried to arrange something with the manager, because my neighbors usually start up around 6:30pm, half-an-hour after the office closes and all-day on Sundays when the office isn't open at all. The problem is, the office is usually closed by the time I get home from work. Tuesdays are the only days I'm home before 6pm and I think they've caught onto my pattern because she's always busy now when I show up and she's off on Saturdays. I've left messages with her assistants but she's totally dodging me. I sent an email to the regional manager last night, I don't have their phone number and can't find it for the life of me. It'll probably be a week or so before I hear anything back. As for my neighbors, they're friends with the people who live next door to them. The guy who lives above them is deaf (I'm not joking he's actually deaf). The woman who lives directly across from them works evenings and doesn't get home until midnight, but she actually told me that she can sometimes hear their television in her living room during the day, but she doesn't want to get involved. I think I can work on her and she might be willing to talk to the manager, if I can ever get a hold of her, but I still don't think my manager will do anything. If the regional manager won't get involved, can I break my lease without shelling out the subsequent fine?...See Moreroof is pissing me off!! (photos)
Comments (31)My 2 cents is that the gentle slope is always going to be a problem in a snow area as when the snow builds up, the 'downhill' snow can easily be higher than the top edge of the shingle just above it, allowing the melt water to gravity flow 'down' off the snow and still reach the top edge of the shingle, overflowing it and getting beneath the shingle where it can then search out any hole in the felt or flashing beneath. I agree that the only real cure will be to use the ice shield on the entire roof. Regardless of the shingles used, the snow problem will remain. The ice shield will at least allow the water to flow beneath the shingles and down to the drip edge without getting past the roofing. A metal roof would be best but the assorted valleys would sure make that a costly option. Ice shield = that black, adhesive, gummy membrane that sticks together....See MoreApparently I've pissed off the remodeling gods...
Comments (22)Your kitchen does look great and I am betting on the same thing Jersey Joe ahs offered -- a drywall nail through a pipe. We had a screw from cabinet installation go through a wire to the outlet for our freezer. That's fun after the drywall and cabinets are installed, but it looks like you've got a pretty good shot at repairing the leak and ceiling with nothing more than some careful flaoting,,texture and paint to put things back to normal. The remodeling gods are just having a laugh before they go. If they were angry, the leak would be behind the brand new cabinets, beadboard and countertops....See MorePissed off
Comments (17)Trust is about a lot more than keeping explicit promises. Maybe technically he did not break a promise, that doesn't mean he didn't break your trust. He disrespected you by going behind your back to do something you'd specifically told him you didn't want him to do. I assume you trust him to treat you with respect or he would not be your SO? Well, he broke THAT trust, whether or not he broke an actual promise. To make a more obvious example, I've never asked my BF to promise me that he will never hit me, and he has never explicitly made that promise. But I trust that he will not, and if he did, that would certainly be a breach of trust. (and he wouldn't get away with, but i never promised you i wouldn't do that so how can you say i broke your trust, blah blah...) Maybe you can come up with some ridiculous example you haven't actually promised you'll never do, but he would see as a break of trust if you did. "well, honey, I've never promised you that I won't blow our retirement savings at a bar, so I guess it wouldn't be breaking your trust if I did, right?" I can actually understand why he would want to fix the problem; she is his ex, you have to deal with her only because of him. I wouldn't want someone I cared about to have to deal with a negative situation caused by someone only because of me. Whether an ex causing problems, a friend of mine that didn't like him and was rude or whatever, my position would be my friend (or my ex, or my whatever) my problem, I'll deal with it you don't have to, you *shouldn't* have to. But I WOULD NOT disrespect someone by jumping in and trying to fix something I knew he wanted to handle himself. He shouldn't have done anything knowing you didn't want him to. Here is a link that might be useful: $216,632.43 Bar Tab...See MoreNJ Mom
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