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Should We Skip Downraft For Island Cooktop?
Comments (6)We had the same issue. First gas range/convection oven had downdraft (jennair). The downdraft really does pull the flame towards it so you are CONSTANTLY having to rotate the pans to insure even cooking. Six years later the electronic control panel failed so I had no oven. By then I was so sick of it, I didn't even attempt to have it repaired. I replaced it with an Electrolux gas range/convection stove and no downdraft. Our kitchen is in the center of the house and is 12 feet away from french doors that I could open if I needed to air the kitchen out. I have not regretted the decision EVER! I cook a lot and we entertain a fair amount and it is always in the kitchen. However, I do not fry much. I saute quite a bit but that uses minimal oil compared to frying so grease is not much of an issue for me. Our house is wide open with all of the public spaces flowing into each other, and I have not noticed any issues with smells through out the house or grease/odors into any of my soft furnishings. I do not have any carpet or drapes (hardwood/tile/interior shutters) so that may be why. Hope this helps you....See MoreEver regret buying a house? Overly BLOGGISH
Comments (22)I am so grateful to all of you. Sometimes I struggle with being clear and from your responses you understood exactly where I was coming from. I took a risk opening up. I held my breath ever time I read your posts afraid that you would not understand, tell me that we made a mistake, criticize the type of house or my thoughts. The blog was a good starting point and your responses have helped me pave the path. Many of you mentioned the timing of an impending empty nest with selling a house that represented such a fulfilling time in our lives. I loved raising my boys. I accept that it is in all of our best interest for me to put on my game face and support my boys in living independent and self sufficient lives. But, there is a part of me that hurts and doesn't want to. I guess I am mourning a part of my life that I dearly enjoyed and loved and my house represents that to me. Some of you also picked up on the fact that the house was pretty trashed by the previous owners. I have turned around my thinking on that. I am going to "Glinda" banish my worries about anything the previous owners didn't do right and focus on giving this house the love it deserves. My husband and I did become very "glass half empty" as we saw how badly the house was mistreated. It hasn't helped having people in our rural town ask us why we want a big house or mention how windy it must be "up there" or mention that they are glad we have the house because they know we will take care of it (I know that is a compliment but it does stir up some negative feelings). Because these things are all on my mind it hits hard. I would never say anything like that to anyone. I congratulate them, ask how the move is going, and would never say what are you going to do in such a big house, etc. That said, most people are supportive. And, family . . . You were right about that too. I wish everyone in my family were doing well. That is all I will say. You are right about the guilt. Okleyok, exactly! I wish we would have had this opportunity years ago! And, the timing would have been a lot better without this empty nest weighing down so heavily on me. Tinan: I have the same reaction that you do when I move or even trade a vehicle. I don't think I am materialistic but just attached. I would be in a straight jacked if I moved 25 times! Many of you told stories that I found so interesting! Hearing that you also had too adjust helps. I hope it doesn't take 6 months! But, I am going to take your advice and start decorating and make memories. Mjlb, I will take a look at that book, thank you. Hokey pokey, wow! Both homes are beautiful! You clearly have a very nice touch. And, that picture of your daughter puts it all in perspective, doesn't it. Do you ever drive by the other house? How does it make you feel? Our other house is in the same neighborhood. The hardest thing is taking my dog for a walk and having her try to drag me up the driveway. It has been so hard on her. Poor baby just rips my heart out. But, the last two days she has kept walking. She stopped and looked but didn't try to go there. My other house was strongly Victorian. I have been transistioning from that for a few years. I grew very tired of it. The gold and ornate . . . Just is too fussy for me now. I do have a couple of special pieces. My husband and boys gave me a framed picture of a little blonde angel. They thought it looked like me when I was a little girl. It means a lot to me. Plus, I kept anything that was a gift. So, I have a few decorative things and some furniture (those twin beds are in the spare room, couches, recliners, and dining set are here too). We try to buy heirloom-quality pieces so that moved with us whether it matches the current house, or not. But, a lot of the "stuff" is gone. By the way, I have said a few times that I am glad that I still sleep in my own bed. It doesn't fit the house (it is fussy) but I don't care about that right now. Lascat, I didn't think about it until you mentioned it. My parents downsized to a two bedroom house. The spare bedroom became my nieces room. So, there wasn't an extra bed. I have only stayed there a few times with my boys and made the best of it. But, it was so uncomfortable that I preferred driving home instead of staying. That was another lightbulb moment. Bronwnsmom, that is really deep. You have given me a lot to work on. I am going to really try to apply your Glinda example. And, for those of you asking to see pictures, I have posted them. I have another user name. You have been very helpful with my questions. I didn't want to attach negativity to myself, my house, or the help you have given me. That energy didn't feel right to me. If you really want to know I will tell you. I just don't like the ways that feels when I am asking for help--I want to keep it upbeat....See MoreIs it tacky to skip the shams?
Comments (35)Ok definitely in the minority on this thread. I like my shams. When I make our bed in the morning I like the look of my soft gold matelesse duvet with brown coverlet folded and laying across the bed. The coverlet lays so that you can see about 10" of the end of my duvet, so actually it isn't at the very bottom of the bed. Sheets and 2 of the pillow cases are a solid in a very pretty soft gold color from the Hotel Collection. When the bed is made it has a total of 6 king sized pillows. Each side of our bed has: funky/patterned" cased, a solid and then the chocolate sham in the front. Shams and coverlet aren't a "set", but are very similar match. IDK, I like the way it looks, so the extra effort of tossing the shams into a basket when we hit the rack, is no biggie. Making a bed is a personal preference thing IMO. A whatever you like looking at, whatever makes you happy kind of thing. Our home has a very open floor plan, and I really like to make my bed up first thing. Really, it not at all uncommon here that a friend or family member will accompany me upstairs. We host most all holidays, summers ~ we have the pool, so oddly enough, with company, there's sometimes traffic even in the MBR . Also, DD's BR is down the hall, and has friends at the house often when she is home from school. Our BR door open during the day, so the bed is visible when you hit the landing on the 2nd floor. I really don't consider my style or BR fussy at all, it's just made up to please my eye. I can think of very few occasions when I've not completely made the bed since moving in almost 30 yrs ago. Also, I love to score interesting patterned king pillow cases in colors to mix in with solid sheets. Yes, I see the norm isn't 3 pillows stacked on each side of the bed, lol. However, I love the finished product every day....See MoreFinal reveal - skip if you're tired of white cabs!
Comments (27)" Yours is a great example of how switching finishes and just do minor tweaks can result in a fabulous transformation." I was thinking the same. Then things like cost, hassle, time, stress jumped into my thinking... Still, it is amazing how color, a bit change of style/some updates, w/o knocking out a wall, adding on space, vaulting a ceiling etc. makes so much difference! It IS lovely! the island counter top is so beautiful - would scare me to death - lol! love all those drawers! plllog's corner drawers are the first I remember being on here and I think I've been here over 4 yrs now. I do like your floor ... so much like my Armstrong planks. I tested some out on my puppy who slid and skid across a 6'x6' span of it just outside my bedroom door. I'd be on the bed watching tv (or trying to nap) and I'd throw her toy thru the door clear into the LR and off she'd race after it. Fly back to me and pounce on me... her nails were sharp and a bit rough (a lot) - I still have scars from them. BUT, the plank section didn't have any scratches to be seen even after about 6 wks of her wear and tear on it. I knew it was the floor for me. The color is about the same too. I've been thru the old dog (and meds) and slippery flooring. My old girl's last yr I carried her into the vet office for appts and someone there thought she couldn't walk (I guess I was cruel not to put her down). She walked fine (boy did she walk - wore me out) just not on their slippery tile floors! I didn't want her to fall on them with her little boney body....See Moretqtqtbw
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