I used Benjamin Moore's sparkling wine. It's a warm neutral, It's just perfect and works so well with my bisque appliances.

If you like BM, then use their Advanced paint - it's water based and levels beautifully. I used CabinetCoat as my primer and Advanced as my regular paint on my kitchen cabinets over five years ago and they still look great. I have literally scraped dried food off my cabinets (who knows old long it was there lol) and the paint has never chipped. I did sand and prime (prep work is important). If you're hiring a "pro" he should know what he's doing... No guarantees lol but he should be able to paint.. When I tackled my kitchen cabinets I hadn't painted since 6th grade... and everything turned out fine. I used quality paint, nice brushes and took my time.

Once you get the color your painter can have it matched in the cabinet paint he uses. Get a sample panel painted and check it in your space. BM Cabinet Coat is one product. Target Coatings makes a product for painting cabinets. They can match any SW or BM color Here.

White paint is a very difficult color to choose! I too am trying to find the perfect shade for us. One of the very talented professionals on this forum often recommends PPG’s Delicate White which is sold at Home Depot! Because I value her experience, I had to give it a try. Home Depot sells small sample sizes for a few bucks. I have painted several foam core boards with this color so I can move them around and see how they look. So far, I am loving this color. :-)