Hi! You've got some great paint colors to consider! Out of the three you were able to narrow down to, Gray Owl looks like it could be a perfect color! It offers a warmer hue with green undertones and would pair well with the nearby rooms! Another suggestion would be Benjamin Moore's Repose Gray that offers a warm tone but also looks beautiful with natural light. Best of luck!

Yes, arrangement looks much better!! If you are anxious to paint, you could roll out the Natural Wicker, as you are going to need a primer anyway over that deep paint. Won't hurt to use is as basically a primer. I can't really recommend a paint until you are finished with the room. Your next step will be chairs, lamps, end tables, lamps (I would get a nesting coffee table or oval), art and drapes (which are too short).

They seem very similar when I looked the colors up, so either would work to lighten the room. Unless you love the trim color, you can paint it a creamy white or or a very dark shade of the wall color for more drama. Don’t let the trim control the room. Show it who is boss!

Reposition the rug...it's off side. Move the cabinet off the long wall, and try it on the side of the kitchen (?)door, opposite the door swing. When door is closed balance the height of the cabinet with wall art. New chandelier: stay with brass, rectangular and 1/2 the size of the table. New fabric on the chairs: These ideas because I like the wall color you have . I would just paint the chair rail the same as the walls.