Try Pittsburgh Paints Dover Gray. It looks dark on the card but goes on a medium gray tone. I think it's a very nice gray, and I sampled several before I chose it for the exterior of my house. Here is a link that might be useful:

I am looking for this same color too! I have tried LOTS of different samples and most are too "fleshy." BM Ranchwood is a popular exterior color in Canada - in the US the color is Indian River. BM Porpoise is also used in our neighborhood as is Urbane Bronze. SW Zeus is popular, but goes too green on my house. My finalists so far (I don't think I am done yet) are BM Fairview Taupe and Kingsport Grey - but both go a little "olive" with all of the green bounce from the landscaping, and I don't love that. I would also love to know other colors that folks have tried :-)

I've been accused by my family of overdoing blue (Kitchen island is Azul Bahia, perimeter granite is Bros Blue, I collect flo blue china, family room rug is primarily blue, even my sheets are blue - pretty much everything I fall in love with ends up a shade of blue). So, last year I was on the search for the perfect gray. I didn't want it to go blue at all. I wanted a simple gray color to softly fade into the background and allow all my blue accessories to pop. I tried paint pot after paint pot. Most turned purple, some green, and some baby boy blue. Finally, I went to the BM counter and asked for a color that did not have any other color in it. I found Iced Cube Silver. It only has one color added - lamp black. How could I go wrong? White plus black = pure gray - right? I was so excited, I threw caution to the wind and had them mix up five gallons. I rushed home and went to town painting into the wee hours of the night. As I was finishing up the third wall, it was a soft gorgeous gray but in a few places, I noticed it looked a little blue. I attributed it to my fatigue. All my blue accents were out of the room with the exception of the granite in the kitchen on the other side of the greatroom. When I walked downstairs in the bright light of morning (tons of windows), it was most definitely BLUE. At night, there are angles and shadows that are quietly gray. The ceiling looks gray most of the time (walls & ceiling are painted the same - broken up with white crown molding). No one believes the ceiling and walls are the same paint. I've decided to live with the blue walls, it's a pretty, light blue-gray, I'm too tired and have other projects that desperately need my attention. All this to say, if you're looking for a pretty blue-gray, you might like ice cubed silver but then again, depending upon your lighting, it might actually look like a completely different color in your room. Good luck!

lizziesma My current paint colors (2 out of 3) have LRV of 25 or lower, and the plan is to find light neutral grays with LRV above 50 (ideally, around 60). I think that should brighten up the room :) Karen Rose You have a beautiful house!!! Love your paint color. I need to run and grab (another) sample pot!! Rory, SW, PA Love your colors as well! so you have used 2 paints, like I am hoping to. :) They seem to go really well together. cat_ky I have been buying sample pots and paint few boards in each shade, and spread around the house. It is amazing to see how the colors look different, depending on the light, angle AND (surprisingly) size of my paint board!! I have well over a dozen sample pots, and now I find myself not letting my DH know that I have purchased yet another one. lol I wish I could find a good use for the sample paints. What a waste.