I'm not familiar with Benjamin Moore shades, but Dunn Edwards has an amazing near-white called "Swiss Coffee" (which is not beige like it sounds) that goes with ANY COLOR. Behr has the same shade, too, so you could go to Home Depot and get a "sample can" of that color for $4.99 and see what you think. If you like it, you could paint a scrap piece of wood (or even a paper plate) and take it to your Benj. Moore dealer to see if they can match it.

Does anyone have a recommendation for a complementary white that goes with Graytint? All these work with Graytint just depends on which one you like best. Chantilly Lace BM OC-065 Ice Mist BM OC-067 Snow White BM OC-066 As far as gloss level, you could do the same as the walls, eggshell, or bump it up one level to satin (or whatever the next bump up in gloss level is called in the brand you want to buy).

As you know, there are lots of grays, but your great beds are now driving the color bus. These colors are considered gray, but the undertone is blue/green. How do you like this for the bathroom? I like the idea of a dark bathroom (lights have to b turned on, so why not have a deep color on the walls); think it will be gorgeous with super white.

Once you get the color your painter can have it matched in the cabinet paint he uses. Get a sample panel painted and check it in your space. BM Cabinet Coat is one product. Target Coatings makes a product for painting cabinets. They can match any SW or BM color Here.