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Comments (7)janann I use Photobucket to put pictures into forums, there are other ones you can use and they all work basically the same. Set up an account with one, upload some pictures, you can edit them once they are uploaded, then open the picture in the app, click on the text in the HTML box, it will automatically copy the text, then insert it into your post using ctrl+v click on this link, then it will say "copied" once it is inserted into post it should look something like this...See MoreFor those with vacation homes...
Comments (45)We live minutes from Washington DC, and far from family and many friends, so we get a steady stream of guests, as well as a lot of friends' adult children who are lucky enough to go to area colleges, or get internships and jobs in the area, and who expect that their children will be able to stay with us (one stayed for a month this past October). While she was here we had 2 other sets of house guests, one in town from India (looking at area colleges). We live about a mile from the nearest Metro stop, and are a half block from the nearest Metro bus, so it is all quite convenient! Once I have guests in my house, I seem congenitally unable to to do anything but play the role of a gracious hostess, preparing meals and providing lovely guest rooms and a welcoming atmosphere. We have a 4-bedroom house as well as two very private family rooms, so everyone knows we have the space, and we do enjoy having guests. But because I have a home office and work full-time, I often feel completely overwhelmed. I find that my very best strategy is to just say "No" to requests for visits since I know I will unfailingly go into the hostess mode once they are under my roof. It has gotten easier over time (to say no)! And I have trained my husband to do the same (many guests are his friends from afar) unless the terms of the visit mean a short stay on my terms. Still, we rarely go a month without a house guest. My sister-in-law and her husband have a luxurious vacation house in the mountains in CA (and another vacation house on a lake in northern CA). The mountain "lodge" sleeps 21 in the main house, and another 3-4 in the "little house." She does not cook or clean for guests and expects her guests to do everything. We once arrived from the east coast and got there at dinnertime with my then-anorexic daughter who had just been hospitalized for over a month (I was exhausted and looking forward to a break). My SIL said she wasn't lifting a finger and we could "figure it out" (she had invited 21 family members for Christmas week, and hadn't even planned to prepare a single meal). So I sat down, created menus, drove down the mountain to the nearest grocery and bought all the food, drove back up and spent the rest of the week cooking and cleaning. I told my husband that I would never again be a guest in their house (any of their houses), and I have stuck to my word. She just sent out an invitation to us to spend next Christmas with them (along with the entire family) and we have declined. Way too stressful to be a working guest!...See MoreOT - WWYD about house guests?
Comments (97)dee-dee - where are you? Is your school district planning to do the same thing? with all the snow days, we're already going to the end of June. I can see closing the school where the infected child was attending, but *all* the schools in the district, K-12? I assume you have one fully functional bath downstairs? How old are your kids? Hopefully not teenagers who spend an hour at a time in there! I am definitely a perfectionist - though when it comes to tearing walls out b/c a header is crooked, I'm learning that cutting the sheetrock so the casing lays flat is "good enough". I spent yesterday AM while DD was on field trip (I didn't have to drive) skimming some spots around my bay window so the baseboard wouldn't have a huge gap behind it. Anything under 1/4" we can caulk, but over that just really needed joint compound (with stained trim, can't hide as much with caulk and paint). My cousin is meticulous, but as he said, he knows how fussy he *can* be, whereas I know how I want things, but don't really know what's possible, or possible with a reasonable amount of effort. He did finally call. DS is sick with a high fever, but dr didn't say it was serious. They're not in the same district (though his ds and my dd attend the same preschool), so there really isn't any way he could have been exposed to anyone in our district who may have been exposed to the kid who just got back from Mexico. He doesn't have a cell phone, so couldn't call me when the landscaping ran late. I don't know why his DW couldn't call me back when she heard the message (maybe figured he'd be home soon enough, maybe figured I'm *his* cousin calling for *him* to work, so let *him* deal with me). It just drives me crazy waiting for someone who never shows and doesn't call when they're late/can't make it. He is a good carpenter and just a sweet guy, so I'll wait until he's available again, just keep finishing what I can so it's ready for him to nail up or miter. Some day, maybe 5 years from now ;-), my house will finally be finished, with floors that *stay* installed, and a bath for the kids/guests, and my soaking tub (Calgon, take me away!!). Then I can start thinking about replacing the laminate countertops and doing a tile or stone b/s ;-), maybe even repaint the ceilings LOL! Thanks for letting me vent....See MoreHGTV Dream Home Follow Up
Comments (22)Internet had this to say about taxes on large lotteries..... Taxes on Large Lottery Winnings Depending on your other income and the amount of your winnings, your federal tax bracket can go as high as 39.6%. Your lottery winnings might also be subject to state income tax. So depending on where you live, your total tax bill could exceed 50%. You don't get any capital gains rate break for lottery winnings, nor is there any income averaging to help lower your tax bill. If you win more than $5,000 in the lottery, 28% must be withheld from your winnings for federal income tax purposes. You can do a google search 'taxes on lottery' to get more info specific to your situation......... ADDING (that) in the US it would all likely be taxable and effectively be taxed at whatever your rate on AGI ends up being...... (Rememeber Oprah audience...the entire value of the cars they were given was taxable...in fact the money they were then given to pay the tax on it was taxable). ------------------------------------------------------------ Oh, BTW...they also said Canada's is $0.00 We had a friend on Price is Right late last year. He won a car. We were all SO EXCITED for him because he was never without a smile even though he was waiting for a kidney transplant. 3 days after winning but before he could pay the taxes and pick up his car, he was in a coma in the hospital and died a few days later. I never did hear whether his parents were able or wanted to get the car....See MoreLucyStar1
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