Hi kled, I really think - especially with such a large lovely structure - that this is a job for a professional designer. Having gotten that out of the way, I recently replaced all my fascia (and replacing gutters too) which was painted a dark red. It looked okay on my red-orange brick house, but I wanted something lighter colored. I finally chose a sand-tone color. But, how did I choose? Well, I took a photo of a wall that was fairly representative, in decent light. And then I looked at it on my computer to see if the colors seemed pretty accurate. Then I loaded the photo into a graphics program and "selected" the red fascia and gutters and experimented with substituting with different colors - via the graphics program. I'd like to tell you that I'm completely happy with the sand-tone color I ended up with, but the jury is still out on that. But, I think I'll like it (Once I get all the gutters & downspouts installed and trim painted). There are so many ways to go with color - really hard to advise someone else.

Here is a picture of the Holsium Grout with the Cheseapeak Grey brick I also have provided a direct link for the stone accent Here is a link that might be useful: The Stone Accent for House front This post was edited by zoe52 on Sun, Nov 23, 14 at 20:54

I usually get great advice over on the Home Decorating Form. Post over there and I'm sure you'll get some help.

I think I would match the trim to the color of the windows. Doesn't have to be wide trim.