Deep purge of my BFF's home
neetsiepie
6 years ago
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Comments (31)monablair, First you should decide, are you feeling overwhelmed by the items just because it's a new year and many of us get the itch to clear things out and in a few weeks you'll be over it OR does having all these items really weigh heavy on your mind all year? I'm like mtnrdredux, I get giddy with excitement when I know the thrift store truck is coming by to take stuff off my hands. If someone else can use stuff that is clogging up my life, then I'm happy. What if you died tomorrow (heaven forbid)? What would become of the stuff? Wouldn't you rather deal with it now instead of some family member throwing it out because they don't have the sentimental attachment and might miss the value? I don't mean to add additional stress to you, worrying about that scenario, but it is something to consider. Since there are many sentimental items in your collection, I would review everything and decide what few items I needed to keep so that I could use or display them - not just store them for another 20 years. I'd announce to the rest of the family that I am planning to get rid of things so if they want anything now is the time to speak up and request it. (In a perfect world there wouldn't be any overlap of desire for items. But it's not a perfect world so you'll need a plan for if more than one person wants the same item.) If the items are important to a family member then let them find the way to store them. Some of the items could be offered to a museum or historical society. Things that might have real monetary value could be appraised and sold. I'm not a very sentimental person nor do I come from a family heavy with silver & valuables, so it's easy for me to make suggestions. I'm sure it's not an easy task to get rid of these things. But, really, why continue to hold onto them if it brings you mental stress?...See MoreClothing Sort, Closet Purge, HELP!
Comments (6)I use the clamp pants hangers, too. If I fold pants over a hanger, they get wrinkled. As for organizing--since you have the room, designate two clothes for your clothes. The walk-in in your bedroom for currently in use things, and another closet elsewhere for everything else. Put the clothes you use the most in the most accessible part of the closet in your bedroom. At a guess, you'd have a section for work clothes, a section for casual clothes and a section for lounging around the house clothes. Put the shoes you wear with these clothes in that closet. And any belts or scarves or other accessories. In your spare closet elsewhere in the house, put out-of-season storage. Winter clothes in the summer, summer clothes in the winter. That will give you more space in your main closet year-round. Also create a section for those clothes that you only use on cruises. Put the shoes and other accessories that go with these clothes there as well. Do you have a coat closet anywhere in the house? Put all the winter coats and any other outerwear there. Hats, gloves and scarves should go there, too, in bins or on shelves. Snow or rain boots go there, as well. Then, twice a year, switch out the seasonal clothing. If you're like me, there are some clothes that get worn year 'round--jeans, tees, socks. Leave those alone, and move the rest. In the coat closet, move the winter stuff to the back and move the spring/summer stuff to the front, or vice versa. If you need to put things in boxes in the closets--label the boxes. Either a written label or a picture of the contents. I'd try to avoid lots of boxes--it's hard to see what's in them and, as you say, you tend to forget about them. If you can keep the bulk of your clothing in three closets--the one in your bedroom, the spare closet and the coat closet--you will have fewer places to look for clothing. You'll be able to see everything in each storage space at a glance....See MoreDo New Natural Gas Lines Need to be Purged?
Comments (10)I haven't tried running the unit any more but I did do some double checking on the gas lines and think I have found a problem that would affect the sytem when it is heavily loaded. My gas meter is a "pound meter" running 1.2-2.2 psi. The gas meter feeds an Earthquake shutoff valve with a 1" inlet and outlet, which then feeds the low pressure regulator with a spring set at 6-8" WC. The problem I see is the outlet of that regulator is only 1". The 1" section is only 2 inches long after which it transitions to 1-1/4" pipe... but if I look at the gas tables a 1" pipe can only flow 286 CFH (~ 286K Btu/hr) at 50 ft and 259 CFH at 60 ft, the approximate distance to the furthest appliance. With all appliances running full tilt my load is about 485,000 Btu/hr. Thus, I do not believe the 1" section is large enough. The installation does not have a gas line drip leg before the Noritz unit. If that was an oversight by the gas piping contractor, the inspector also missed it, or we don't have the requirement in our local area. I'll be talking to the contractor about the 1" pipe section and lack of a drip leg this week. One thing I wonder about is the Noritz startup gas load... when it fires up the exhaust blower runs at high speed, so I'm guessing the unit requires a lot of gas to get going, after which it drops down once the cold water is up to temperature. If the unit is attempting to start while the furnace and old gas WH are running, I wonder if the 1" restriction in the piping is causing the low gas pressure? It's all very frustrating....See Moremy BFF died today
Comments (59)bengardening, my sympathies extend to you as well today. These losses seem insurmountable at times, but I will say that your moment with the dragonfly must have brought you a little inner peace and given your heart a moment to rest. Giving that dragonfly the time to sit, share, and breathe is the same haven you gave your friend many times over the course of your time shared. Smile when you can, look back fondly, and forward with tears AND hope. My thoughts go out to you tonight....See Moreneetsiepie
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