Dreaded dental appt tomorrow
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Comments (14)Kathy, Ouch, me, too. My neurologist (I have migraines) put me on low dose Lexapro two weeks ago. I know, we don't "Mask" the pain, but minimal functioning is not enough, and I know me. I can function, work, smile when need to, even laugh sincerely, love, whatever, but I do have a low grade depression and some Post Traumatic Stress. My garden needs work, my house is getting messy (I'm a good housekeeper, not fanatical, but clean, so I know this is not normal for me). Went to a funeral yesterday of a friend, died at 84 (my dad's age when he died 4 years ago). His son in law read a letter Louie had written about his mom. (great). At the end, it said "If your mom is still alive, be sure and tell her you love her" Well, the rest of the day was a bust for me, and today (one day before mother's day) isn't much better. I'm thinking of skipping church tomorrow. The trees here are gorgeous, doesn't affect me. I have thought about seeing someone, but will wait another month. My mom's birthday is this month as well. She would have been 78. I"m 49, also have 5 grandchildren. They do help. The corsage thing I've not heard of. Wow. I really feel an empty hole. Give myself time, I keep saying. Let God minister to me (but even the heavens feel as brass at this point). Oh, I don't know. I sound like I'm being a baby about the whole thing but there's not really a close friend I can talk to who will understand. When dad died I was told by them just 4 weeks after to get over it. (his was a traumatic event, diagnosed w/stage 4 lung cancer, never left hosp, died a week later) so I don't have a close friend to spill my guts to. My husband is ok, but not quite there, you know? Thanks for letting me vent. It helps. Kendra P.S. I also feel annoyed and sometimes angry...normal for the grieving process...but it bothers me to feel this way....See MoreThe Gall
Comments (10)I hope this comes out the way I mean it... but I am not sure how to write with out sounding insensitive (sorry) If your son were not sick ... would you even bother with your SC and your SGC? They don't show any interest in your son and show no interest in you other than when they NEED something. I know you cannot take your son's health out of the equation but if all they do is cause you more and more stress why bother trying to form a relationship with them. As far as the dental aren't they on state assistance? let them deal with it on their own ... they have shown no regard for you or your son. How was their relationship with your son before he got sick? same? better or worse? And your hubby's relationship with his children and grandchildren is his own ... it has nothing to do with your relationship with them ... if you want one have it if not don't ... (my own personal rant)... My SD was manipulated into hating me and once I recognized that I came to terms with our relationship we don't have one she is the girl who visits with my hubby and thats all it is the boys well they are children I care for with hubby but SD10 is a visitor. She doesn't(can't) have a relationship with me because her mother doesn't approve of it. It is what it is. I don't know if you can do it ... but it has given me great peace in my life to know that no matter what I do SD and I will never have the relationship we use to have so I do not have to try and have one she doesn't come here to visit me he comes here to visit hubby I am not part of that equation. His relationship with his daughter has nothing to do with me. On rare occassion I will bring her home but I take one of the boys with me so I "cover" my own a$$ so nothing can be used against me in a court of law....See MoreHad any fun dental experiences lately?
Comments (18)This last January amidst several months of other health issues, I had a molar crown fall off. I experienced no pain from the tooth despite the fact that the tooth was exposed for over a week from the missing crown. Having just started a new job, I had to find a new dentist that was accepted by my dental policy. I went in and told the dentist that I just needed my old crown re-cemented on. The dentist said that would be a liability to him if the cement didn't hold and I choked on it so I agreed to a root canal and new crown. Ever since the root canal, the tooth has ached. I went back a month later and told the doctor that it hurts to eat, touch my face or brush my teeth. He said the tooth must have cracked and that I need an implant which involves four months without a tooth on that side of my mouth. And of course additional cost done by another dental specialist that I will have to absorb. I said no. I'm furious. Because I've been seeing a half a dozen doctors for my other health issues and having a number of test that require me to take time off from my new job, I have not been willing to take even more time off to go back to the dentist. He told me he would talk to the dentist who did the root canal and get back to me. Which he never did. I have an appointment with the dentist office for a cleaning next week and will have to deal with whatever the next step might be then. Jodi-...See MoreI need some food! Dental stuff again
Comments (33)Oh, I would need some sort of forbidden medication. Some people think that we should all get dental implants, thenenjoy our lives. Or be born with them. When in elementary or junior high we had some class called something like ”health education” and there were illustrations of muscles of the foot showing bone, skin, fascia, muscle, fat … I thought I was going to toss breakfast. I left the class wondering how I was supposed to step down onto my feet or walk without smooshing all that tissue. I thought about this for YEARS. I wish someone had explained a bit about how mucles and lifaments and tendo s worked. Later in life, when I saw a needle in a patients back and clear fluid deipping from it, a dark cloud began to envlope me and I nearly barfed and fainted. I slumped againt a cold painted wall or machine and that saved me from collapsing onto the floor. Be sure you have someone go with you, drive you and beg to be numbed and drugged to oblivion. Versid is good. Time gets compressed. You blink open your eyes in what seems like a second later, have no memory of anything, and the surgeon or endodontist is showing you a plastic container with your removed part/s in it. WAY TO GO! PS I love Kevin’s site....See More- 8 years ago
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