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To everyone I promised something to, I apologize
Comments (13)I don't know about building a 47 mile long wall, but it would do wonders for my physical fitness :-) We were at 48 last night at 9 pm. It's down to 20 here now and dropping. I hope all my outdoor plants are snug enough. Some stuff I really don't think much about since we don't often get this cold. The cactus garden is drooping. Pam...See MoreToilet seat -- I apologize in advance, this is gross
Comments (18)We have had these for years so I understand the problem. You cannot use anything abrasive. I have tried it all. Soft Scrub will work if you must clean quickly for company but over time even that will erode the finish. Even a Clorox wet wipe will do it if used for long enough. We just had to replace all three of our soft close enameled wood toilet seats because a new maid service used something harsh and basically melted the paint to a point where it was so soft that it came off white just swiping my hand across it. Replace them when they get to that point. Plastic is much easier to clean and probably more sanitary but we just cannot stand those. If you don’t mind then though, you are better off....See MoreWANTED: I apologize for being late
Comments (2)Shelley, I'm the wrapper from hell too. Glad to know I'm not a lone. You need to delete the word Wanted when you do a preview of your post. I always forget too. Ann...See MoreShould I apologize?
Comments (28)I had mother in law problems, big ones before she died. I also have in-law problems in general that we are able to manage only because we do not live close by, we are 4 hours away. In my experience with our mother-in-law problems, it was all about her inability to let go of her son (my husband) and or love/parent him the way she wanted, despite the fact that he was a married grown man. The only way I felt better about the situation was to put it completely on my husband because it was HIS mother. A healthy mother/child relationship wants the adult child and their marriage to be happy and peaceful, and they just want to share in their lives - the ups and downs of life. Unhealthy to me indicates a desire to control. This is not your problem, it is your husbands. I would sweetly, without anger, with all things that she brought to our home say "well thanks for thinking of us, although I don't know where we will put it, we're pretty maxed out as it is and we're donating boatloads of stuff at the moment because we're trying to downsize and make life less cluttered and stressful. But is always nice when you think of us". If she made inappropriate remarks about my house or anything else, I wouldn't hesitate to say "That is enough. You're out of line. Perhaps you should go". I would put everything else with this woman onto my husband if I were you. I would start a box in the bedroom, basement, or garage with HIS name on it. Anything she brought over that I didn't want or didn't know what to do with would go in that box. I would remind hubby from time to time that he needs to do something with "his box" because it's getting full. HE needs to be the one to confront his mom and stand up for your family. HE is the one with the long standing relationship and its HIS mom. Also, watch alot of "Everybody Loves Raymond" and remember that you are not alone in trying to understand mother's and sons, and all of their dynamics. I just don't think this is about you at all other than you took her son. This is about her need to control your marriage and force an unhealthy expression of love onto her son. Many husbands will stand back and let their wives attempt to handle their husbands and do nothing, especially if they tend to be the peacemakers in the family like my husband. Too bad I say. Make him man up and handle his mom and protect your family. That's his job, it's HIS mom. JMHO...See Morelucillle
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