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Comments (11)That's awesome Kay, those are pretty. Yeah, I know I said the same thing. But... I bought Little Rainbow last year and oh my gosh... the beauty of it! Now I'm on a polychrome hunt. Just bought ANGELIQUE FRINGES 10 fans! Woohoo an instant clump. NEON FLAMINGO is on my list too, but has taken a back seat to the polychromes for the moment. It's so dang hard to just "window shop" on the LA. I was doing so good then the wagon hit a bump and I fell off! Any polychromes that you've seen that you think are beautiful and I should add Kay? I do have some hard dormants and they do fine here. Congrats on your 2 new plants, can't wait to see your pics when they bloom!...See MoreRecession Landscaping
Comments (12)Is that road a busy road? Probably that berm reduces some of the traffic noise coming from the road. I've seen soil berms constructed along very busy routes, and thought it was a pretty good idea for muffling sound. But often they are built into an already sloping grade. That berm looks like a big lump on an otherwise flat topography. Reminds me of the big mounds they construct with some septic systems, where drainage is poor. They look terrible on a flat lot. And that berm is going to look like crap when it becomes a weedy mess that is very difficult to mow or trim. A stone wall is a beautiful (albeit expensive) solution to the privacy/sound problem. The people building a stone wall on top of a sand berm should have just skipped the berm. Totally agree that those Leyland Cypresses are sited poorly. Not to mention the poor oak(s) will probably die from root suffocation, sandwiched between the road pavement and the big lump of sand. Is there any plant that would successfully grow on a big lump of sand anyway (besides beach vegetation)? I don't know if I'd say anything - maybe if you get more friendly with these neighbors. My weird next-door neighbor does ridiculous things to his lot and trees. I don't usually say anything, but did mention once to his wife that he might consider putting the pruning saw away....See MoreWhat would you have said???
Comments (20)Ugh! I just don't understand parents who don't think about their children's welfare. Ima, from what I understand, BM lives 3 hours away from you in one direction, and BM's mother and other daughter live 1 hour away in the opposite direction? I would have offered to bring sister as far as our house, with grandma picking her up for the rest of the ride home. No way would I have made a 2-hour round trip. It's thoughtless that BM would want you to have to do this for her other child, and unforgivable that she made her 9 year old daughter call to ask. This so reminds me of my stepsons' BM. A couple years ago when SS18 was 16 and acting out, he stayed out 2 nights in a row, he disliked me and my rules and couldn't live in our house because of them, and told dad, "It's me or her," and wanted to go live with his BM. BM wanted to "save" son from this horrible, wicked Stepmom. DH asked her, since she lived outside of school district, if she would be able to get son to school. She said, "Of course I'll be able to drive my son to school." This was Saturday. On Sunday, son calls our house to ask if he can sleep over since BM cannot drive him to school on Monday. DH says, "Of course. How are you going to get here?" We hear BM in the background suggesting that dad pick son up. I felt terrible for my SS, since he had just said some mean, hurtful things about me, to have to call and ask if he could come back to our house for a night. But I couldn't understand how his mother would put him in that position. Now that BioMom has moved back east, SS18 goes out to visit her twice a year. We live about 40 minutes from Chicago O'Hare, so DH has always just taken son to the airport and picked him up. The last time, she booked his flight out of Midway, to save on airfare, and still expected DH to do the driving, despite the fact that it is a 3 hour round trip each way. DH called BM and explained he didn't have time to do this driving, and suggested she book a limo for son. She asked if he could do it, pay for it, and she would pay him back. He told her she could do it, and give them her credit card number. I could not imagine putting my kids in a situation where I wouldn't make sure that all the travel arrangements were done, and I would never leave it to someone else to take care of these things for my kids if I could do it myself....See MoreContractor dispute. No docs. He said/she said. How would you handle?
Comments (22)Dovetail drawers are a common standard component in cabinet construction. The cab sub orders them from a supplier. It's no problem. Most mid grade and up cabinet drawers come with dovetail box construction. Another common drawer component is Blumotion slides possibly with soft close. Talking to the sub before he gives a quote about these is a normal practice. A specific type of lazy susan is the same. This is locking down components that affect the construction. Once the sub knows these parts are part of the project he can determine his costs and give the GC a price for the number of cabinets this particular job requires him to supply. The same applies to different door styles and wood varieties, paint finishes or other finishing affects. I'm sure you picked those too. There is no standard price because every kitchen has a different number of cabinets of different types. One kitchen can have $3k in cabs and the next $10k. That's why the cab sub is there before the contract price is presented. You told him what you wanted. He told the GC what his part of the job would cost. The GC figured his total cost and profit and gave you a price. You accepted his offer. That's all you owe. The sub is trying to overcharge the GC. He needs to go back to the sub for a refund. Which is probably something he has a lot of power to do because the sub has worked with him and wants to continue working with him on future jobs. Stand firm. Don't accept his verbiage about not making any money. He's making a healthy amount for his work. Next time you work with him require a complete list of specs as part of his contract offer. Write in any changes in pen before you sign. They supersede printed provisions and are controlling when the contract is signed....See More- 8 years agolast modified: 8 years ago
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