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Comments (5)CRHBobby - We were originally going to go that route but I wanted the flexibility to have the drawings bid out.. We ended up paying about 1000 more then you did but the plans are ours.. Your builder should be receptive to minor changes in the contract, as long as they are reasonable. The way I look at the contract is that you can't have it all, nor should the builder.. The contract should create a level playing field.... On a side note.. If you have the layout you can just take it to another architect and you could have it done in about 2-3 weeks.. When we went to do our house drawings we had about 3 or 4 plans that had layouts and features we liked.. The architect then took these and came up with a custom layout..Having those drawings saved us a lot of time.. Some people go in blind and have no idea what they want.. But if you already have the layout the architect will be able to get the drawings faster and should do it pretty cheap since he doesn't have to draw it from scratch.. You paid 2500 for drawings.. They should be yours.....See MoreWhat would you have said???
Comments (20)Ugh! I just don't understand parents who don't think about their children's welfare. Ima, from what I understand, BM lives 3 hours away from you in one direction, and BM's mother and other daughter live 1 hour away in the opposite direction? I would have offered to bring sister as far as our house, with grandma picking her up for the rest of the ride home. No way would I have made a 2-hour round trip. It's thoughtless that BM would want you to have to do this for her other child, and unforgivable that she made her 9 year old daughter call to ask. This so reminds me of my stepsons' BM. A couple years ago when SS18 was 16 and acting out, he stayed out 2 nights in a row, he disliked me and my rules and couldn't live in our house because of them, and told dad, "It's me or her," and wanted to go live with his BM. BM wanted to "save" son from this horrible, wicked Stepmom. DH asked her, since she lived outside of school district, if she would be able to get son to school. She said, "Of course I'll be able to drive my son to school." This was Saturday. On Sunday, son calls our house to ask if he can sleep over since BM cannot drive him to school on Monday. DH says, "Of course. How are you going to get here?" We hear BM in the background suggesting that dad pick son up. I felt terrible for my SS, since he had just said some mean, hurtful things about me, to have to call and ask if he could come back to our house for a night. But I couldn't understand how his mother would put him in that position. Now that BioMom has moved back east, SS18 goes out to visit her twice a year. We live about 40 minutes from Chicago O'Hare, so DH has always just taken son to the airport and picked him up. The last time, she booked his flight out of Midway, to save on airfare, and still expected DH to do the driving, despite the fact that it is a 3 hour round trip each way. DH called BM and explained he didn't have time to do this driving, and suggested she book a limo for son. She asked if he could do it, pay for it, and she would pay him back. He told her she could do it, and give them her credit card number. I could not imagine putting my kids in a situation where I wouldn't make sure that all the travel arrangements were done, and I would never leave it to someone else to take care of these things for my kids if I could do it myself....See MoreWhat would you do?
Comments (21)I have mentioned over and over all kinds of things like that but then they go oh, okay and then when they think you are gone or not looking yes, that cloth goes all over the place, ugh. I don't like it either at the deli part of grocery store and I have seen pieces of deli meat dropped on floor and else where and picked up and put back with the others. I reported that and the gal at customer service looked at me and I said would you like that? Would you eat that if that happened to you, no. Well, neither do we. I have seen it all and oh, ugh, makes me sick. I have been to Swiss Chalet restaurant lately and each time the tables are sticky, ugh and its like haven't they cleaned their rags or even rinsed them and what on earth do they put on those rags to make all tables sticky? I was seated and pulled up the rolled up sliverware to move it over and had to tuck on it hard and found underneath a huge sticky spot it was holding it down. Moved to another table and same thing sticky. Almost have to bring your own cleaning stuff to have a clean table to sit down at....See MoreHave Viking Queen would love to trade cuttings for almost anything.
Comments (12)Hi Mary! I have cuttings of several plants available right now that I have in the greenhouse: Abraham Darby Applejack Carefree Beauty Prairie Harvest Prairie Sunrise Wanderin' Wind These others will be available in late May or early June: Amazing Grace (if it survived...may have died back to the ground) Graham Thomas Mary Rose Morden Blush Music Maker Redoute' Scepter'd Isle Let me know if you're interested in any of mine. I've actually been wanting Viking Queen for a long time.....being in MN and all. :) Tony...See More- 8 years agolast modified: 8 years ago
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