Savoy Hotel might work. If you could live with pink blend, I grow two that grow pretty much straight up. Louise Estes and Mavrik. Here is a bush shot of Louise Estes.

Memorial Day comes to mind, especially for the narrow width requirement.

Quietness gets 5'+, and very upright for me. It is a grandiflora in growth habit, although listed as a shrub. Its width is 3'. Black spot issues are rarely encountered with Quietness.

Moses.

Noo...I was just admiring your pic of Mrs John Laing..now you're telling me it died from a hot spell? sigh...back to the drawing board then! I've been on a mission to try and find the perfect bluey/lavender no peach or salmon, pink rose. You would think it would be easy, but its harder than it would seem..they're either too dark/hot pink, or too peachy..

Alnwick Castle is very pretty..but mine has a hint too much salmon- its definitely upright though.

Bearing in mind that all the roses I have seen dont have to deal with snow/winterkill etc..and that my nose doesnt work very well; I only seem to pick really strong ones like Double Delight or citrusy scents

Savoy Hotel- not grown it, but seen it several times at a local garden- right colour, pale pink, no scent for me, tall & upright, always looked healthy - was thinking of it for myself, but decided to hold out for something I could smell.

Frederic Mistral- Have this one- vigorous, deals with heat well, gets a bit of BS but sails along, smells lovely, bit of a late starter, and seems to need a bit of warmth to get going but once it gets going, doesnt stop. Mine went on strike because it didnt like being potted. Wants to be tall

Eiffel Tower- very upright, right colour, doesnt seem to mind the heat, flowers pretty in bud and half open, but they blow and look limp very quickly. supposed to smell nice, but no scent for me. Doesnt seem to BS much though

Memorial Day-I can smell this one, its the right colour, very upright, full flower, the bushes I have seen looked really healthy and vigorous, but...dont know why..it didnt grab me..

Just bought Beverley as a bare root, so cant say much, but it may fit your wishlist.

I've tried other pinks, but theyre either small, or shrubby round things or climbers..

What a wonderful list of suggestions. I shall study them all closely. And the pics of Savoy Hotel and of Alnwick Castle are really lovely! Right now, I'm looking at them and at Memorial Day. Had wondered about Frederick Mistral--that might be a possibility.

Does anybody know Baronne de Rothschild? I ran across it last night and thought it was interesting, but I've never heard anyone talk about it.

Curdle--I think you should go with Mrs. John Laing if you don't mind the occasional BS attacks after each blooming cycle. She has wonderful traits other than that. As far as dying off in during the hot spell, that is not typical of her. I don't know why, but I've had several roses this year just up and die mid-summer--including a Double Knock-Out and Felicia (hybrid musk). I'm thinking they suffered winter damage this year and went into the summer not functioning very well--which made them susceptible to the hot spell. In addition, I was in the hospital and recovering rather slowly this summer, so I wasn't watering as regularly as I normally would. None of the roses that died have had trouble with either hot or cold in the past, so I think it was a combination of things this summer that did them in. Mrs. John Laing has been a good grower and bloomer for the 4 or 5 years previous to this summer. And she is beautiful.

I'm not replacing her because as I get older, my garden is getting to be too much work for me to keep up--so I'd rather replace her with a rose that doesn't need to be sprayed, or at least less often than Mrs. John Laing does.

Thanks everybody for the wonderful suggestions. I will consider them all--and any others if you have more suggestions.

Kate

My Memorial Day on Fortuniana rootstock has grown into 6 ft tall and 4 ft wide , it is over taking my rose bed plus the thrips love it . blooms smaller in summer .

My Frederic Mistral is grafted so own root might grow differently. Mine is about 6'x6'. It has great rebloom, huge flushes, is beautiful and has a lovely fragrance. My plant has suffered from some very cold winters a few years ago so I think it is sort of tender. Is fairly blackspot prone.

I bought a Baronne Edmund or Edmond de Rothschild a couple of years ago. A piece of it broke off and it has never recovered. It is a puny little thing struggling along. Maybe it was just too much of a setback for it. It does look pretty in other pics.

Prairie Breeze is a good plant..very healthy, not too big, has big flushes, big old fashioned blooms with a nice fragrance. Might be a little darker pink than you want.

Grandmother's Hat would be lovely, but probably large.

My 2 Beverly's are tall and REALLY bushy.

How about Wedding Bells? I've read good things about this one including disease resistance. I just got one myself.

I have a lot of the above mentioned but they are bushier than Memorial Day, which stays more narrow here, own-root. Blooms are large with a blue undertone and look great from a distance.

Queen of Sweden is tall and narrow. Dee-Lish is tall and somewhat narrow but the blooms may be darker than you are looking for, same with Towering Rose Magic. Quietness is lovely. Fiji is taller and very healthy, blooms are a brighter pink though.

La France is to die for.

http://www.starrosesandplants.com/plants/hybrid-tea-rose/francis-meilland

https://www.helpmefind.com/rose/l.php?l=2.40552.3

Lots of comments on this rose.

I heard a couple of people rave about Beverly and Wedding Bells at the ARS convention this past weekend.

How could I forget Wedding Bells? Its great..healthiest bush I have, not a speck of BS or mildew on it, although it might not be as upright as you want...mine seems to want to be more shrubby and spread out a bit. Sadly I don't get any smell out of it so far. ( two years old here, grafted).

Deelish seems to be pretty healthy and a good grower so far (only bought it last year) The colour is a bit bright and garish if you really want the mid to light pink, but I took one sniff of a potted one and snapped it up immediately, because it smells wonderful; was happy to see it does fade off a bit (here at least) to quite a pretty colour after a couple of days as it opens up.

I will put Mrs John on the list for next year then!

If you would consider an older rose, check out Rozette delIzy; very very tall and quite narrow, Blooms are hybrid tea like, yellow delicately stained with pink around the edges to all pink where nights are cool. A prolific bloomer and very easy to grow!

Quietness is a wonderful blush pink with very pretty old-fashioned blooms. Light, sweet fragrance. Wonderful vigor.

Pink Enchantment is a wonderful rose but is not really pink. Oh Well!