A "marriage celebration" question
msmeow
6 years ago
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3rd Baby - Shower Thoughts - No rants please
Comments (51)Ohhhh shower ettiquite is such a pain! as much for the recipient as the person throwing them sometimes (due to folks like the mom in this situation. Had we not had ds 7 weeks early we would have had four showers. I have two very close friends who planned on but the guest list was getting obnoxious. When you have a baby in your 40s people just want to be involved. So those two gals split the big one up and hosted on different weeks and we made sure that there were no duplicate invites. And even that turned out to be a political nightmare! Then my assistant wanted to have an office one (a tradition at the office) and so did dh's. The sad part being we really didn't need anything. I only tell you this because it ended up being a rather awful stress on dh and I (all the wrangling for the invite they wanted etc). So my only advice is to chat with her first so she does not feel bad about it. I personally loved the love that went into the shower planning from all sides, but I hoped many times that one or all four would cancel! Apparently ds heard me because he came before the final three were to be held and then he was too I'll for me to be involved in a shower type party after birth. Bless that boy lol. A person as old as your loved one might want to invite special friends as well as family so try to give her the opportunity? And whatever you do don't invite Ron and Jeanette! (ok bad flashback lol). I think what you are doing is lovely (as long as it does not include shower games or those cheap pastel mints in diapers made of felt and paraffin)....See MoreQuotes 10 - 21 - 16
Comments (1)> We always project into the future or reflect in the past, but we are so little in the present....< That's it! I don't know much about performance Art, but I like her insights into existence, which is probably the reason for her work, the above quote is right on the mark...See MoreWedding update
Comments (19)You guys are so nice! I'm so glad you like the idea. To be honest, I'm not really sure what a pretzel dipping bar is, but I basically want soft pretzels with different sauces for dipping i.e. cheddar/beer, mustard, and whatever else is customary. I just called it a pretzel bar. I'm hoping the chef can come up with something more definitive. Funky, what kind of dips have you seen? I also found a Craigslist set of six beer steins today in the next town over for $40. They are OK, but will look well with flowers. Some have sports teams. (I know, )but they will do in a pinch....See MoreAre you wearing a mask to weddings?
Comments (46)Then I suppose it depends on a lot of logistics. For example, we're not seeing much spread at church, it's not that crowded and most are older, vaccinated folks. On the flip side, the concert where my grandkids and daughter in law got covid I imagine was very crowded, lots of heavy breathing and full of young people much less likely to be vaccinated. As I mentioned, I went to a celebration of life and that was full of older folks too, in a large, well ventilated setting. Most were not masked but I stayed masked except when I ate. Was not perfect but minimal exposure in a space unlikely to be populated by a lot of covid floating around. Not zero but minimal. As for masks, when I know I am going to be in close contact with non masked folks, I wear a K95. I have some fancy cloth covers for those. In places where I can count on OTHERS to be maked, a lighter mask will work. I went to a meeting at a community foundation in a small meeting room last week, I was wearing a heavy mask but when the two other people at the meeting volunteered to mask up, I was able to switch to my lighter, cooler disposable mask. So that's the way it goes, it depends on a lot of variables and I can only control a few. For example, I'm visiting a close friend at her family's large, well ventilated cottage. I won't spend a lot of time in close contact with many folks, and they are all well and vaccinated and boosted (they work in health care so don't mess around). But I'm not going to spend much intimate contact time while there or stay overnight, maximizing my time for visiting in person and by not just hanging around any longer than necessary to visit, minimizing my exposure time. So one just has to add up all the variables and make the best decision possible, knowing nothing is perfect, virus transmission is a complex game of probability. I try to just keep myself in a probability zone that is reasonable, which is what we do for all other risky activities in life, like driving, for example. We just try to do what we can to maximize our safety and not endanger others but still use the car . . . I think this is the wave of the future. There are many infectious diseases out there and as population grows and grows, so does exposure. I can't live a perfect life, but I am more and more looking to make sure I have everything wrapped up that I want to do in this one . . . so one has to weigh that too . . ....See Moremsmeow
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