I named him Willie or maybe Mary
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A cumulatie case of the willies, and is there a word in English
Comments (21)Mere, glad to read the good news. I know you have to be stressed about the whole situation, how could you not be? I doubt you are the 1st to need a cool cloth; anyone having to have a biopsy would be stressed. I would think that anyone with a family history; well all the more stress. To go in for a procedure to see if it registers the "big C" well that in itself would make anyone puke. Now that I can put off the actual surgery I probably will till after that. It depends on what all it involves and recuperation, really. It can't be much, so we'll see. Did you ever get to check out the cure magazine site? I wonder if you have other options. I remember reading about one breast cancer study where they were given a drug that worked. Might be worth the time to look into. The article would have been from the time dad was sick - July 2005 to January 2006. I seem to remember it as a fall issue - so Fall 2005. I might still have it but it's packed in a rubbermade with dad's stuff....See Moreany idea what kinda cacti this guy is, i had him named but....
Comments (3)Godi wish i could find where i put that peice of paper i wrote it on! Why do p plant names gotta be sooo long...See MoreMaybe a new dog...WTD about her name?
Comments (16)It's been my experience that the pets will come to the name they prefer. My cat Butrous Puff Butter will ignore me unless I call him Butrousian. But he's a cat...so I can't really use that as an example can I? The dogs...Ruphus is now coming to me if I call him Boofarine, Max prefers Motorcity and Zelda prefers Squish. And Howard will get most excited at T-T-Ess-O, but will come in from outside if we call HOWARD loudly (he's going deaf). I think it's got something to do with the tone, and I always make up songs for my pets using their nicknames, so I think they prefer those names or when I say them in a sing-song way. Ok, I just realized I'm probably pretty weird, here, but I DO have a lot of pets and I can only speak from my non-scientific research. As to introducing a new dog, we just turn them loose. The pack is pretty established and they will either immediately greet the new comer, or they'll be standoffish. I think you just let them set the pace; if your dogs are well socialized, introducing a new one won't make a big deal. I think we humans tend to put too much of a human spin on things when we bring in new animals. There may be some hissing/growling/territorial issues, but they eventually settle in. The big key is making sure you keep the feedings seperate till they're established, and feed the existing dogs first, to establish pack hierarchy....See MoreHELP!!!!! Problem flirt- did I lead him on? how do I ditch him?
Comments (20)Em, I'm sorry I am late getting back, but I'm very glad to hear that you've had no further contact from him. I hope he has gotten the message and moved on. I really think you need to let your dh know how very upset you have been over this and how it has really affected your well being. He probably saw it in a whole different light and never realized that you have been stressing about it in a big way. I think he needs to know exactly how you feel and how this other man has intruded in a manner that leaves you feeling extremely vulnerable. These days, especially, you have to be very cautious with anyone who continually makes inappropriate approaches without encouragement. Your dh isn't worried about you wanting to fool around, but that is completely beside the point. It isn't about YOU at all; it's the unknown of what is going on with someone who is playing mind games with you on your cell phone. That's scary and deserves support. My situation was entirely different but nevertheless gives me something of an understanding of how you must feel. Before the days of cell phones and caller ID, I began getting very frightening phone calls. It began as a "wrong number" call. The guy made some joking statements to which I responded jokingly as well and then we both hung up. But he called again, and again, and again. At first, it was light-hearted banter and I am sorry to say that I did not hang up immediately, but kind of enjoyed the chat. But it didn't stop and it got weirder. He made it clearer with every call that he knew exactly who I was. Gradually the tone shifted to a menacing one. I would walk in my house to hear the phone ringing and he would say, "Welcome home, Cheri! I'm going to get you soon," or something like that. There was always a threat to "get" me or something similar. I was petrified. If I didn't pick up the phone he would leave a message. If I shut off my answering machine, he would call and call and call. If I unplugged my phone, I felt so scared and vulnerable anyway, as it was obvious from the things he said that he knew when I left my house, came home, even where I went sometimes. He also knew how to play the game because I couldn't get anything done to stop him. The police refused to put the thing on my phone that would trace calls because he never made a specific threat to kill me (is that ludicrous????). The phone company recorded the calls but wouldn't trace them either for the same reason. They wouldn't change my number because they were recording the calls and even if I could have gotten them to change it, they were going to charge me a fortune to do so! Can you believe that? I was a single mother. My kids had to spend every other week with their dad, so most of these calls came when I was alone and most of them were at night. My ex was/is very capable of having orchestrated the whole thing and I suspect he may have been behind it, but I had absolutely no way to prove it. The voice was not his. It just stopped, finally, but after months of being terrorized, I had a very hard time getting over it. It seemed like an innocent thing at first, but it quickly escalated to something way out of my control. I was also a lot younger and had been pretty much...well, brutalized, I guess you could say, in my marriage, so I just didn't have the personal resources at that time to tackle such a situation. Predators sniff out the vulnerable, so the best thing to do if you can manage it is to not appear vulnerable! Sorry to say that I don't exactly know how that's done....See More- 9 years ago
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