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Comments (10)Sounds like the Flylady morning routine is what you are already doing especially if you are cleaning your sink the night before. I think Flylady would suggest you make the bed but heck, we all will understand if you decide you don't have the time. Have you tried requesting the emails in "digest format"? Most yahoo groups allow this. That means all the messages in one day are collected together and sent out as one message. That said, I just sort my inbox alphabetically by the sender and delete all the messages I don't want from flylady. Kind of feels cleansing and usually doesn't take too much time. Of course I'm recently retired so I know there is no comparison in stress levels with someone who works outside the home. I have just started Flylady and am going very slowly. She herself says that it all started with a commitment on her part to keep her sink clean so it was clean when she woke up at least for 30 days. I've kind of started that way and progressed to some additions. But I'm taking it very slowly. I LOVE the testimonials she sends out. I delete almost everything else but always read testimonials. I don't have children but even the ones about kids are inspiring. Housework can be so BORING. I had a career as an engineer before I retired and I'm having trouble coming down to real life and trying to have consistently an organized fairly clean house (that is in the middle of being remodeled because we were conned by a contractor but another story..). The testimonials and sometimes some of the messages (depending on where I'm at) really keep me from feeling I'm in a dungeon with horrible boring tasks and no one that understands. Anyway, I figure at the rate I'm going that my house may look pretty decent in about a year or so. Just do what she says, don't worry about being behind, just jump in where you're at. Maybe we could have a thread on this Cleaning Board for flylady support? I'd like that. You made a good start. Once it reaches 99 posts (I think that's max number), we can start "volume 2" like they do on some of the other forums. Of course with your work schedule, you may not have time. If you don't want to, I don't mind starting a thread. Let me know if you are interested and also share any of the other "challenges" that you have in particular that are driving you crazy. One last important thing. If we do this, we have to be concerned about Flylady copyrights and we can't cut and paste anything from her site (or from her emails). Hopefully, just share our problems with our clutter. I think we should still be able to use some of her terms such as 27 Fling boogie where you run thru the house as quickly as possible finding 27 things to throw away. I have modified it to be used with a timer and usually set it for 15 minutes or 30 minutes. Does wonderful things. I usually have to force myself to quit decluttering when the timer goes off. Maybe a Flylady thread would make more sense in the "Organizing Home" forum? What do you think? --Alice...See Morenew to flylady system
Comments (12)I'm a fallen fly-er... I got the emails for a a couple years (set to digest, so I just got one email per day). Just focus on decluttering in the week's zone and don't worry about anything else. That way the system won't be so overwhelming (and it's what she tells newbies to do anyways). Why don't I do flylady anymore? Personally I have a lot of trouble cleaning on a daily basis. And I really can't seem to keep my sink empty. And after a while, the emails are very repetitive. Still, I did get a lot out of it and I still try to apply some of the principles. My favorite one is that it didn't get messy in a day and it won't get cleaned in a day. That helps me a lot when I'm feeling overwhelmed, even though it's only my garage that's super messy and cluttered now. Using a timer and learning that doing *something* is better than nothing was another hard-learned lesson for me. I can tell you that my stepson does a *much* better job if I tell him to work on his closet for 15 minutes than if I simply tell him to clean his room. Finally, flylady helped me learn to get rid of stuff - that I don't have to keep everything, that not every childhood toy is of sentimental value, that it's ok to throw/give away things that were presents. My point is that I don't use her system exactly, but she did make a difference in how I keep house. Is my house perfectly clean? Ha! No. But I could have it presentable in 15-30 minutes and ready for overnight guests within an hour or so. A vast improvement over the sty I used to live in....See Morestash and dash
Comments (21)I used to have all of my pictures in the albums with the clear page and sort of sticky backing to hold the picture. The kind that is a few years the pictures start falling out of. The last time we moved I took all of the pictures out of each album and put them in zip loc bags in the order they were in the album and put them all in a nice old flat suitcase. The old vintage ones. I can feel those of you that are scrappers etc cringing but I have no one that will be interested in my pictures when I am gone so no reason to save them beyond me. I eliminated 12 albums down to one nice small and someday I will make it cute old suitcase. I find I even look at the pictures more often when I do not have to worry about pictures falling out if it. It had gotten so I hated to even touch an album for the mess I would create. I think if a person wanted to save their pictures for ever you can get archival boxes and store them differently than baggies and an acid suitcase. LOL Sometimes I wonder when I will get to the bottom of stash and dash. The last parts of moves are always messes where things go anywhere they will fit. Going on two and a half years here now. The biggest part for me is to try NOT to keep stashing and dashing. :^((( Maggie...See MoreAny GWers Follow Flylady Methods?
Comments (4)YES! In theory. I do a few of the things and I like the idea of babysteps. You will see testimonials like, "and as soon as family members saw the shiny sink, they started putting their dishes in the dishwasher!" or "Everyone in the family is so much neater now, they follow my example." I hope that happens to you - it hasn't happened in my family yet!...See More- 6 years ago
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