Is this "old lady"?
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Comments (70)I think we all sometimes read meaning or insult where it is not intended, or at least that is my take blfenton. Littlebug's comments are unnervingly identical to my own thoughts about my life at 58 YO, and how I view women who to my eyes have the luxury of time. I think what she was trying to convey is the sense that at some point the strictures and time demands of employment become more burdensome than the rewards. As Bill Clinton said once in a talk I attended, when you have more yesterdays than tomorrows you start to think more deeply about how you want to spend those tomorrows. I also look with yearning at women who do not have to get up every day and be somewhere for X hours, who can decide what they want to do, or take the time to do what they need to do without squeezing it around 40-or more-working hours. And I do think women experience this more. I personally would never, ever say that a SAH mother of babies, preschoolers or toddlers isn't incredibly busy or stressed during those days at home. But I will probably irk some folks here by saying that, to my eyes at least, once kids are launched, living a SAH life seems a lot more relaxed in general...in fact what else is retirement but living a SAH life?! Obviously people have many burdens and duties that may not be clearly visible. I know we all do ourselves as women a disservice to play that game of who's got it worse/who's got it better. It's only human nature to compare and judge and if this topic shows anything, it shows what a terrifically wide range of life experiences and personalities exist. You can be vital and engaged without having worked a day of your life for pay. You can be vital and engaged and be working while raising children. You can be any combination of those lives, or an entirely different life :). What is so useful for me is reading these stories and experiences. It opens my eyes and my heart to other ways of having a happy and productive life, especially as I get older and face inevitable changes of how my life will unfold. This conversation gives great guidance on how others seek to find connection and engagement, which is in the end for most of us the way we find our happiness....See MoreDoes This Shirt Say "Old Lady"?
Comments (102)I think some of you are being a tad overly sensitive. Relating the story of buying the top and what DH said was in no way "wagging" a finger and/or making fun of anyone. And my opinion of gray and black clothes was just that, my opinion (like ya'lls). BTW, I have black and gray, just very little of it. DH wasn't being hateful or hurtful. I've taken this thread in stride and not been offended in the least (some people would have been). I've thanked everyone for their comments and said I appreciate them. Just thought you'd like to know the outcome and how I came to my decision. Shirt is actually shown with a pair of jeans. I'm planning on wearing it with white capris this spring and summer. Sadly, I can no longer wear the type shoes posted above and haven't been able to in 20 years :( Wish I could! I'm a mostly tennis shoe, clog/mule, sandal person. I'm a stay at home mom, wife and Grammuffy who likes a colorful wardrobe. I'm not in the business sector so I can wear my pretty, colorful, happy wardrobe whenever I want :) Welcome to (part of) my closet. The shirt in question is hanging on the far right. Sorry if it offends anyone ;)...See MoreSpeaking of old lady...
Comments (13)I guess this one is just a bit too close to home for me. I'm not there yet, but that's the direction we're all going if we're over 70. I just got my portable supplemental oxygen concentrator on Fri - took longer to unpack all of it than it did to set it up. Salesman called to "help me set it up" - told him it was set up and batteries charging. He couldn't believe I did it alone (plug in two things and slide battery on bottom - not rocket science) and said he'd spent 45 minutes the day before trying to help a lady set hers up and didn't succeed. I suggested that perhaps she should not be living alone! People treat one totally differently when one is wearing oxygen. It's odd as when I was in a wheelchair in London, no one blinked an eye or acted any different toward me. Now, it means to them that I probably can't drive, walk, and my brain is addled. I don't like this at ALL!!!!!...See MoreHow many old ladies does it take...
Comments (10)Probably it is "spring loaded". Meaning the frame and bulb can be pulled down from the ceiling. If that is the case, you need to get a razor knife and cut/loosen the paint around the frame and ceiling and then gently pull the entire unit down. Or the bulb could screw out. I would try to unscrew it first, if it does not move go to the spring loaded option.......................See Moreaputernut
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