Severe shoulder pain
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Comments (9)Hi Joanne, I am so sorry about the loss of your mother. I could have written your post a little more than three years ago. My mom had the same symptoms as your mom. She kept complaining about shoulder pain for months and even went for ortho surgery on her shoulder. After that she still didn't get better and her appetite was non-existent. When she was hospitalized for shortness of breath, the ER doctor ran a CT and found a mass in her lung. She was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer and passed away 3 weeks after her diagnosis. I wrote all this to tell you to be careful about your grief. I went thru a very hard time after my mother's death. I think part of the reason was the suddeness of her loss and being caught totally off guard and the guilt that I didn't realize how sick she was. My complicated grief evolved into a severe depression. I too tried to go through daily activities such as work, shopping, etc., but 6 months later I only felt more devestated and sad. I sought the help of a grief couselor who recogized the symptoms were more than just grief.You don't have to wait until you find you can't deal with it to get help. I believe a grief couselor is always helpful to guide you through a severe life trama that can result from losing a loved one. It will always be hard but you do get stronger and the joy will come back to your life. That's hard for you to believe but it will. I will keep you and your boys in my prayers. Hugs, Barbara...See Moresevere wrist pain for hours -- then gone
Comments (4)Sounds like a spasm of some sort. I have fibromyalgia and have various things like that happen. But your's sounds like it might have been a spasm. Next time try some heat on it. If you're around perimenopause/menopause age, you might try taking calcium/magnesium. That helps with spasms....See Moreneed some advice: DD has unid'dintermittent severe abdominal pain
Comments (18)Hello, sweeby, uxorial, weed, & mitch...((((to you all)))) Dd is 9--sorry I spaced answering that, thought I had... Today she seems to have stopped with the pains. Nothing. She's keeping down food (which I think was due to the morphine anyway). We were going to go to the symphony tonight but I think we'll skip it just to be safe. She's saying now that the same feeling she had before when the pains started is coming back...so it's kind of touch and go. But we'll miss a 13-y.o. cellist playing the Saint-Saens cello concerto #1 *sigh* we were all really looking forward to seeing. sweeby, the phenergan was IV, which she already had in for the morphine--since it was already in, I'm glad they didn't try to do the suppository--she was not into any more orifices being affected...sorry to hear about your son's syndrome...I hope you know about the respiratory depression possibilities with it when administered to kids--just might want to keep an eye on him when he has to have it, although my DD had it in conjunction with morphine, which *also* can cause respiratory depression, so we were doubly at risk there...probably much more risky than what your son gets. uxorial, WOW! What a story. Who would have guessed. weed, that was exactly the site I was looking at last night! :) Thanks. The net is amazing. mitch, OW, poor dear...I shivered reading it. That would certainly cause the intermittent pain...I'll keep that in mind and I hope she hasn't had any recurrences or repercussions... So it's a quiet evening at home, applying sanded caulk and comforting my dear girl :) Thanks again you all--I am so grateful for this forum and the wonderful folks on it....See Morewithdrawls from pain killers
Comments (25)I agree completely with Lyndy. This is not directed at Judy, but to anybody facing surgery or medical problems that involve pain. You MUST take responsibility for your own health, and be sensible to avoid this type of problem. I've been prescribed narcotics before and I've refused to take them. After my shoulder surgery, I refused morphine, demerol and anything like that. The surgeon came back to talk me into them, and I flatly refused. He finally made me agree to tylenol 3's, which I agreed to, to shut him up. Then I took OTC pills instead, and suffered somewhat, but I lived and it was not as bad as becoming addicted. There were other times narcotics were recommended to me, and I refused them. I do not ever want to be addicted to anything, and I make my health decisions accordingly. I'm not saying that nobody should have them ever, but according to the doctor I have now...most people (not ALL, but MOST) who do need them, should only have them for a very limited amount of time. Judy, you're very wise to do this with medical supervision now because you are physically addicted. Going to rehab is the absolute best thing you can do for yourself, it's a rare person who can do this on their own. Learn to take control of your life, so you can overcome this and then make the decision to never get in this position again. Once you have gone through withdrawal, remember that nobody can force you to take this type of medication again. There are alternative options available to you. You're taking charge now, and that is very, very good. And I think you know that you will always get a lot of support here at the KT, while you work on your addiction. Now that you've identified the problem, there's nothing more important than for you to do than to focus on than recovery. Good luck tomorrow, and keep us posted....See More- 9 years agolast modified: 9 years agoseagrass_gw Cape Cod thanked ravencajun Zone 8b TX
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