Maybe plastic surgeon specializing in reconstructive surgery(like needed after accidents) think they would be the type that could help you the most! You don't want the guy that makes movie stars look good. They may have damaged some tissues below the surface that need help, cosmetic surgeon is not up of underlying tissues. You want to get it right this time, skin can only take so much surgery & then it doesn't work out well.

Why did you not answer him with a yes when directly asked? Makes no sense if you see a problem not to talk about what could happen with the droop in the future.

Hiw long ago was the first & second surgery? How old is the child?

To find the best if the best, I recommend going to an academic medical center, one that has a medical school preferably with a residency in the specialty area. For example, in the Chicago area that includes Loyola, Northwestern, Rush, University of Illinois, University of Chicago. Those are the places where difficult cases are referred and there is related expertise.

Goid luck.

If he has done all of this it is time to not go see him again. You posted "one of our questions we had was actually if there could be nerve damage, he says what do u think?" which is where my question of why did you not say something at that time. Sorry but I learned a long time ago that some times you just have to be direct and keep asking the question. If they refuse to answer then ask why they are refusing to answer. Every surgery has risks. You probably do not have the original sheets that were part of the consent form but you can look on line to see what possible side effects are. Not knowing what the original surgery was for it is hard for anyone here to know if it is a normal side effect or a problem with the surgery.

Did you try to check this dr. out on the Internet? He sounds like he's in it for the money not trying to make people well. My mother had a situation where she was at work ,phone operator & her locker was on the bottom & as she came up another person opened hers & hit mom in the eye area. She eye drooped & she saw many drs. & never had surgery but headaches & looked permanent but then few years before she died we noticed that it hadn't drooped for a long time. Since she is so young I would google Mayo Clinic (they replaced a face up to the eyes, amazing work, did amazing operation on my son in Nov. & know of woman that had surgery there for a cancer & they had to go through her nose, extremely rare cancer that only 217 people in world have ever had & they have the best success rate & lady came out fine. So they are very good & they may be able to tell you what should be done. A 10 yr old shouldn't have to go through life like this. I just think the dr has limited knowledge & did what he could do. There are other drs that want to help & will involve others to come up with solutions. Some drs have to be at bottom of class, some may be at top as far as test scores but poor bedside manner, some are drs only because parents want them to be. Wonder if this guy has any lawsuits against him. You really need a 2nd opinion for entirely different medical place, the pea sized thing is worth getting checked out by someone new. That should not be there, I would want a really good explanation on that!

I think I would take a really good close up pic of her eye & 1 from father awy so they can see her whole face & sent them both to Mayo Clinic & ask if they know what you need to do. They have been so nice to the people I know that have called or gone there, but sending the pics might get a quick response & be sure to give email address to reach you. Sure worth a try!

Oh, along with pics a brief summery of the surgeries with dates & that dr seems to be rather indifferent or difficult to talk to. You thought you were getting the best dr & tell at what hospital & dr. name so they know or can find out about him.

You may want to look into an oculoplastic surgeon. They specialize in plastic surgery around eyes.