Finding Family Mementos/Heirlooms. (Passing them on?)
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Comments (31)Jane, I received the official call from Robert Trumbule who is one of the plant specialist. I believe I understand now where you got the "permit" and "nursery license" information. Robert, who was quite the gentleman, said that you do indeed need a permit and/or nursery license if you are selling plants/distributing for profit. With Robert, I used sending plants from Maryland to Virginia as a example/possible scenerio and he replied, "I don't see any problems with sending cuttings or bareroot plants to Virginia as long as all soil is washed off and removed and the bareroot plants or cuttings are wrapped in damp newspaper and sent in plastic bags. Our main concern is plants being sent overseas and the spread of pests. For Virginia, I don't see a problem. But take Florida for example, it would be illegal to send any kind of citrus from Maryland to Florida and vice versa. States like Florida, Texas, California, Arizona, and Hawaii have strict laws regarding the plant materials that enter the state." I did mention your email from Steve Malan (who Robert knew) and Robert said that he believes Steve may have misunderstood what you were saying in terms of the whole 'cannot take plants pass state lines' and 'cannot ship plants'. The catch here is, you cannot sell plants and ship them for profit, but otherwise it IS legal. I also collected Robert's contact information for you (his cellphone, he says he is out in the field most of the time) if you would like to speak to him yourself. Now, my question for you Jane is, how much were you looking to be compensated for these plants? And would you consider a DONATION or a trade for one of your bulbs? Like I said, Robert said it was completely legal and okay to send bulbs to Virginia and I have his contact information if you would like to clarify things for yourself. =)...See MoreOT: Family Heirloom plants?
Comments (2)Not a very exciting plant but I have an Aglaonema commutatum that I have had since I was 14. I'm going to be 40 this year so it is at least 26 years old. I give out cuttings to people and in fact the one I have now is a cutting and the original is at my fathers house. A have a few other plants that are 10-15 years old too but never received any old hand me down plants. Actually when I was in school I was taking a tree identification course once and when the instructor would talk about some big old trees that were slow growing she would say "This is the sort of thing that you would have to have had passed down from your grandparents to have an impressive specimen now" and I was like "who are these cool grandparents leaving people big old trees? My grandmother was crazy. She didn't leave of anything."...See MorePruning, Earlyness and Family Heirloom found?
Comments (13)Farkee, My fault. I should have done a better job in wording. The first pic is indeed of the most pruned plants and is of a modified version of Wilber's. In most cases, the lowest 6 suckers have been allowed to grow and one fork but no others so 8, rather than 18 but not all plants have cooperated yet in producing large lower limbs as Yellow pear and a few others. The color and scale make it look less than it is but it is true that while very near the best I've seen round these parts this yr. they are not as lush as I'm used to, would like, or in fact as good as most of my other plants. My potted plants in fairly heavy shade are much larger deeper colored and in some cases, more prolific as are some other ingrounds but also much later along the production scale which was the point of the post. There is too little or too much of something. Readings with a garden meter show ph is fine, fert low as is water compared to the other plants. I've not been holding back. These plants have recieved more feed and water than any inground plants I've ever grown but I guess the tree is sapping it faster than I'm feeding them. I'm probably going to try a fairly large scale foliar feeding, rather than occaisionally playing with a squirt bottle once in a while. But all of that misses the point ... Are we growing plants, or are we growing fruits? I'm not happy with the plants, I'm very happy with their production. What I believe has happened based on looking at pics from earlier in the season and separate from the tree issue, is that those plants having the better sun spot, or some other reason, set fruit earlier in their lives than those in more shady spots and set fruit very well. The plants, with my help concentrated on developing seed for the next generation as is their job. The other plants focused more on plant developement than fruit. Not that tricky to grasp. What is unknown is the facilitating mechanism and whether once this flush is over, whether or not they will catch up with their sisters which should be slowing down due to fruiting. It may look or sound weird but may work out just dandy, some early, some mid, everybody late. Thanks for the compliments but I assure you, other than the several hundred shrubs and trees we've planted, its nothing out of the ordinary round here and if we weren't decided on finding a new place, I would cut a few trees and build a more conventional site....See MoreMoral question - priceless family heirlooms vs. garage sale
Comments (12)I agree that jewelry, doll and china collection must be looked at by a professional. You never know, after watching those "Antique Road Shows", what treasures you might find - just because they dont make things anymore like they used to. IF they are worth good chunk, sell it and put the money into her funds. You never know what disaster will strike and what SHE will need. Money is like water, and She is still alive. You all have your own families and houses to take care of. Dont waste her money on storage. Sell it now and then sell the house. I also agree that if anyone has any sentimental feeling or wants to have something from her things, let them take and keep - years later you will regret just selling it to strangers. Just apply the same rules to all - either all take 1-2 items for free as memory, or all pay fare value. My husband's grandpa just gifted me his mother's (great grandma for my husband) chain watch, it was all broken, not working, I spent $80 to repair it, and it is worth maybe $80-100. BUT it has her name and date that it was gifted, etc. so it is a part of family history and I am the only female in the family who is interested in keeping it. Re the family issue - I do agree that you as parents need to set example to your kids - get them out of the picture and discussion until three siblings agree on what to do, and clarify what legal role your brother plays. What a shame that they dont go to see grandma but got their eyes set on the STUFF. And please, if all argument is about $10 desk, have the kid pay for it. Teach them to earn things just like grandma did. Teach them lessons now, even though it maybe too late if they are grown up as you describe them....See Moreartemis_ma
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