Did anyone ever buy a lot or house amd something better came up after
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Feel like buying an existing house after so many lot issues!
Comments (8)Hi bus driver, Well, the tolerance is getting much lower. We get one thing taken care of then another thing comes up. The engineers don't explain things, just take money and do what they are supposed to do and then mention other issues after they get you deeply involved, etc. The RE attorney very good, but so many issue are so technical, that even the township attorney isn't sure on things. Luckily the seller has been spending the money to do most of the work (lot lines redrawn and surveys to go with it. They also did septic approval, but now need to move septic bc of another issue that evolved after the approval was done.) The attorney fees on our side are piling up.. and it's just basic things. I wish we could find a resale we liked...then I think the frustration of the lot would get too much and we would walk away. So, I guess it's a waiting game and watching to see if something good comes up. Unfortunately, some decent things have come up, but we are so wishy washy and it's upsetting to pour money into fixing something up that will never be exactly what you want....See MoreAnyone ever feel homesick for their previous home?
Comments (58)I have been married now for 15 yrs and have lived in this home we custom built for 10 yrs. The first 5 yrs we lived in a 2 BR, one Bathroom, tiny apt where we shared many precious times. We moved there after getting married in our early twenties. Prior to getting married, we struggled to scrape together $7500 for a down payment on 9 acres of land. While living in that small apt, we payed off they land, saved money, and had our first child, a beautiful baby girl. We also made many special friends. During that time, we also started building a 2400 sq ft home that we contracted ourselves. Not to mention the countless hours my DH and Dad spent plumbing, painting, doing trimwork, etc. We did not see each other much over the yr it took to build our home. When we finally were finished and able to move in I remember the excitement I felt moving the boxes and all the toys from that small apt just a couple of miles from our new home. But once we moved here, I felt isolated. No more neighbors to visit everyday. Only though it was only a couple of miles away, it seemed like 1000 miles, because my life had taken a drastic change. I cried for a couple of months. My DH even offered to sell our home and move back to the apts we loved so much our first 5 yrs together. I knew we had worked and planned so hard for this home to be perfect. We stayed and had a son about 3 yrs after moving to our new home. Now I would never dream of going back to the life I had before, but memories are securely attached in the back of my mind that I will never forget. Our family of 4 would have never made it in the small apt. I find myself now lurking on this website everyday that I discovered while remodeling my kitchen. My husband thinks I am crazy that I spend so much time looking at others visions and dream kitchens. He often makes the comment that I should be thankful for the home we have which will be payed for in just a few years and our kids are still just 8 and 13. I do see things on this website that I love and sometimes even makes me dislike the home I have. I have gained much knowledge on this website, but I also have become more critical of every detail I see. I am glad to read this thread that reminded me to be thankful for the things I do have. I know there are people from all places and walks of life on GW, but you never know what kind of situation they are in. My aunt and her DH have no children and make plenty of money. She has a brother who is basically homeless that moves from motel to motel just to survive. She does help him tremendously, but he lived with her for awhile while she was in the process of remodeling her kitchen. When she got a new frig she cried because it was not what she had envisioned. He just looked at her and said "you can't even be happy with a brand new frig, and I don't even own a frig or place to put one." That opened my eyes to the real world. There are so many people who have lost there life savings in these terrible times we live in. I hope this thread helps everyone on GW realize how thankful we all are to have the homes we live in. I could dream all day of something bigger and better or changed, but I still would not be any happier in life than I am today! Thanks Creekylis for the thread. In time your heart will heal and you will have wonderful memories of your other home!...See MoreEver buy something because you simply needed it in your life?
Comments (32)"Art is one of the few things DH likes to "shop" for"-how similar..and how lucky I must say, as most of our art was also found while traveling together, and oh, each time is so wonderful..frankly wonderful whether we actually can buy something or not. I still remember everyhing we admired together but couldn't afford..and yes we both regret things we could afford but didn't buy..:) and yes, art, ceramics, netsuke-yes I simply need them in my life. Add books to that too. My DH is an extremely savvy person-yet he'll never say "no" to a book..he understands this. Do I feel guilty? no, not at all if I'm up and leave again-that's what I'll take with me, after all..Well besides my husband:) and kids if they'll want to.. one smart person-actually my boss, one of several..I was blessed with very smart work supervisors all my professional life...he said "The feeling of home comes from these very things you don't exactly need to survive" There are levels of need..and the basics, we all know them, and they should be there since without them it's obviously really hard to strive for something else. Even just wanting, dreaming, wishing for, admiring-you already have something extremely important. You might not realize it until you don't.. You might meet people that don't have it. They don't have it. Sometimes not at the moment, sometimes not for years. They're so deeply buried inside, so hurt, that outside doesn't touch them. It's not how we're intended to be. It's awfully sad. It's also extremely scary when one doesn't feel himself..as somebody existing and separate you know?.. you're also not exactly into wishing for things while in that state.. so, yes, in my mind -even to want to buy somethiing you "simply need in your life", it's a blessing..it's a star in the sky..it seems so little amongst other stars, you don't know its name and its meaning..but the meaning is actually there and it's huge..you're alive, you're connected, and you want to continue to be....See MoreHave you ever sold a house after just purchasing it?
Comments (13)@JGGM, it isn't unusual for a seller to lose money if they put their home on the market right after purchasing it especially when it is a newly built home. By right after, I mean within 12 months (typically). Builders get top dollar. Much of the extra "value" is perception by the general public that a new home comes without problems. This isn't true of course but it is the general market perception. Each market is different. You mentioned that you spoke to two agents. Contact more. There are buyers out there that are willing to purchase a new home that is only 7 months old for slightly less than what the builder offers that same home with the same upgrades because they can see what they get. Plus the home is already up and has window treatments and other items that the builder doesn't offer. Presumably the builders warranty transfers to the new buyer. You can mitigate some of your closing costs by having the buyer pay some of them. After all, the builder pushes ALL of his closing costs over to the buyer. ETA: Are there any other resales in your neighborhood now competing with the builder? If so, have any closed yet? The agents you interview should be able to point to those resales and the market. Even if there aren't any resales - you stand a good chance of selling it to someone that simply doesn't have the time to wait for one to be delivered by the builder. I am of two minds about your sale. The first thought is to stick it out to mitigate any losses. The second thought is to sell it and get out of a mistake eg: cut your losses. Only you know which will work for you over the long term,...See MoreLove stone homes
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