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Comments (10)Hi. I'm new to AL and GWF. I'm no longer an AGW skeptic. However, since I'm pretty sure people will wait until it is too late to help themselves, I don't really debate the issue. Folks get really fired up about it, probably because they fear the proposed solutions more than climate change itself. Hard to blame them, really. Here's a pretty good link to read the argument from the AGW side if anyone is interested. http://www.skepticalscience.com/argument.php The cool thing (literally and figuratively) is that with the right trees in the right place, and a nice garden, we can create our own tiny micro climate and produce good food. Nothin' wrong with that, no matter where you stand on AGW! Here is a link that might be useful: AGW facts...See MoreWould you leave if you caught him cheating?
Comments (49)I'd kick him out. I was cheated on before (while in a very serious relationship) and while I'm 'over it', I still have scars. It takes a very long time to get over and I'm not sure I could ever really trust the man anymore. Part of not cheating is being self-aware. Many people have no self-awareness. Meaning, they don't watch what they say with other people and they don't watch what they give to other people. If you're married, you HAVE to work HARD at keeping the emotional energy IN THE MARRIAGE. None of this complaining about your spouse to some other woman - that's marriage suicide. It almost always leads to an affair because suddenly there's this understanding ear that lets you gripe and pretend all of the problems in the marriage are your spouse's fault (all marriages go through rough patches - that's why I HATE the 'the marriage/relationship was in trouble' excuse for another person to feel justified in interloping). Anyway - that's why it's so important to be self-aware. You have to register in your mind when you're feeling upset, vulnerable, whatever - so you don't put yourself in situations that may tempt you to cheat. One poster above mentioned being in situations where even the best men would be hard-pressed NOT to cheat - I say that if you're really one of the best men, you'll do everything possible to stay OUT of those situations. Anyone swimming in shark-infested waters is bound to get bitten. Cheating isn't a mistake - it's a choice - no matter how a person attempts to rationalize it. It was a choice to 'make friends' with another person who isn't your spouse and give them emotional energy - to gripe with them and take their sympathy. It's a choice to put yourself in close situations with that person. It's a choice to feed your 'crush' for that person. It's a choice to then cheat with that person. None of that 'it just happened' tripe... it only 'just happens' if you magically trip and fall on her and on the way down, your pants magically unzip and ... well, you know the rest, lol. Infidelity is a choice, period. To me, that's a dealbreaker. I'd make certain that any man I married knew it upfront. I've been through it once - no way I'd tolerate it again. He'd be outta there - just as I would expect to be if I cheated (which I can say with 100% certainty that I NEVER would)....See MoreRemember the 'Bidet' post???
Comments (6)What a fun "memory lane" to travel. I went to Europe the summer before my last semester in college. Several people in our group thought they were foot washers! I grew up in a small town in South Texas. When some people built a house that had a bidet in the master bath, it was the talk of the town. I think it is still the only one in town....See MoreWhen is it healthy to leave a relationship?
Comments (21)If I find myself dwelling on the relationship obsessively while I'm in the shower or in the car or pretending that the person is in the mirror and I'm yelling at them it's time to get rid of them. For me, that is the toxic level. I don't have the temperament to deal with people like that and am also finding that the older I get the less I will tolerate toxic people in my life. I got rid of a very good friend of mine when I realized that she had a habit of criticizing my husband and one of my sons. Nobody is going to do that. And I also dumped my MIL - kept the husband but dumped her. My husband still sees her, she lives 10 minutes away from us, but I only see her on Christmas day and I spend a week gearing myself up for the visit and winding up with a stress headache that takes a week after to dissipate. She is not a nice person. When I got rid of those two people it was like a great weight had lifted and I literally never thought about them again - except at times like this - but I no longer dwell on them. When I noticed that I realized that it was the best decision for me....See MoreCori Ann - H0uzz violated my privacy
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