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Comments (37)Hey ChickaDDD, I know what you mean about Chicklet's story. He sounds super natural or something. Sleeping on roof, resetting his own arm, Typhoon or something and his birthday. WOW. But like you said if it is true your are surely helping them and thats all that matters. I must have missed it when the unwelcoming committee killed a catbird chick. That is awful!!! And it is not FUN to get rid of HOSP. I dont know why they would say that and it makes me sick. I cant believe they said it was fun, that is disgusting and shows how stupid they are. I hope you dont dislike ME for it but I have seen them with my own eyes terrorize my other birds and not just the cavity nesters, but i dont enjoy it. I just want to save my other birds. They were after Braveheart today when he and Scardycat would try to feed their babies AND they are building two nests in two of my boxes right now :-( When papa tries to bring food they jump him and fall to the ground. It is just pure harassment and today i noticed his right eye was closed up. I dont think it was the HOSP because he was fighting two mockers today too and they probably got fed up with him getting in the middle and decided to kick him around awhile. My blue is insane they are twice his size. But now he will be at risk of hawk attack because he cant see from that side. Ahhhhhhh SIGH. I am having such stress this year with the bluebirds. I love them and all the birds except the HOSP and it is hard on me because I worry so about the birds. My other little sparrows are building in my holly bush that the robins used three times this year ( they were busy ), you know the little ones that i keep blowing there little babies out of the bush. So at least i know where they are this time and wont blow them out. Birds are so funny. She fusses at me every time i go out there but then builds her nest right in my back steps. Go figure :-) Why would they kill a catbird? I dont understand that, it must have been before i joined because i dont remember seeing it. Do you know what month and maybe i can go back and find that post. That is very disturbing, maybe they are just animal killers? Maybe they do enjoy it. They almost had me convinced that the house wrens were evil till Bet got on there. Maybe they kill all birds except bluebirds. That's sick :-( Well im glad you didn't have any little jets get confused and end up in your house today :-) Maybe they realized that outside is where they belong. Hopefully for you and your families sake. All summer without air conditioning is a horrible thought for me. You are a very strong and sweet person to sacrifice your comfort for the little jets. I bet Daisy was hot too with all that hair. My Mary is very hairy like that ( 4 layers of fur ) and she doesn't even like to be outside in the summer. We are very spoiled. Im glad your kitties got bored with the swifts, i know you were blaming yourself for the deaths but you didn't know they were coming so im glad all is good now :-) I better go because this is long but i know i could talk a lot more!!! LOL. She who is to long winded~~~~~~~Bonnie...See MoreWhat About Those Middle Ages?
Comments (38)Veer, I don't know anything about the disapproval you encountered over the use of the term "Dark Ages" but it seems amazing that it would cause anyone that much distress. Have we become so "politically correct" that we must take care not to offend those who have been dead for nearly 2000 years? Manchester says in his World Lit only by Fire that "Modern historians have abandoned the phrase, 'Dark Ages'" because it implies a negative judgment of the time. "Yet," he adds, "There are no survivors to be offended." Apparently there must be some survivors :o). The truth is, it was a time in Europe of relative silence as far as written records are concerned; dark because it is mostly unknown--a prolonged, dim, mysterious phase in European history. I see no problem with the term "Dark Ages" when referring to the early Middle Ages--that time between the light of the ancients (when knowledge was shared by all the known World and gathered in the Great Library of Alexandria) and the dawning of the European Renaissance. Carl Sagan, in Cosmos, expressed real despair for the destruction of the Alexandrian library (3rd or 4th Century AD?). What part, if any, did this loss have on the darkening of Europe? Indeed, what effect did it have on the world today? Sagan seems mainly to blame the Church for the ensuing depths of ignorance and suppression of scientific progress. If thinkers were allowed to air freely their beliefs and discoveries, the iron hand of the Church might be weakened. As a result, whatever was written was monitored for any thoughts contrary to the beliefs decreed by the pope (who could not be wrong in any way). In defense of some associated with the Church, Thomas Cahill contends in his book How the Irish Saved Civilization, that following the fall of Rome, Irish monks, tucked away in an inconspicuous corner of a small island, quietly and conscientiously occupied themselves by copying every book they could get their hands on, thereby preserving many of the ancient works still extant so that when the time came, they were available once more to the World. It is amazing to consider how events of the past shaped the world of today. How will the actions and choices made today help shape the world of tomorrow? But therein lies a whole other topic....See MoreKissing family and friends
Comments (54)My family were mostly huggers. My wife's family usually kiss both cheeks which is not surprising given that both her parents were born in France and I have adapted to that. We have one friend who would be saying hello or goodbye and as came in close I turned my head expecting a kiss on the cheek, and she turned the same direction and planted one right on my lips. I was briefly flummoxed, and worried she might be coming on to me, but it has happened a couple of times since then so I guess its just her way. It doesn't bother me enough to make an issue out of it, especially since we only see her a couple of times a year. Growing up I had heard the term "French-kissing" and I had also often seen movies with French people kissing both cheeks as a greeting. So I assumed that's what the term meant. So when a group of friends asked whether any of the group had French-kissed someone, and I responded that I had French-kissed my grandmother, they nearly died laughing....See MoreQuotes 1 - 6 - 18 : 3, Holmes, Adams, Ellul, Watts
Comments (0)John Holmes Quotes American - Poet January 6, 1904 - June 22, 1962 To feel most beautifully alive means to be reading something beautiful, ready always to apprehend in the flow of language the sudden flash of poetry. John Holmes It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others. John Holmes Yes, we love peace, but we are not willing to take wounds for it, as we are for war. John Holmes Every genuine boy is a rebel and an anarch. If he were allowed to develop according to his own instincts, his own inclinations, society would undergo such a radical transformation as to make the adult revolutionary cower and cringe. John Holmes Joey Adams Quotes American - Comedian January 6, 1911 - December 2, 1999 Do not worry about avoiding temptation. As you grow older it will avoid you. Joey Adams Never let a fool kiss you, or a kiss fool you. Joey Adams If it weren't for the fact that the TV set and the refrigerator are so far apart, some of us wouldn't get any exercise at all. Joey Adams Rockefeller once explained the secret of success. 'Get up early, work late - and strike oil.' Joey Adams The difference between playing the stock market and the horses is that one of the horses must win. Joey Adams Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway. Joey Adams A psychiatrist asks a lot of expensive questions your wife asks for nothing. Joey Adams If you break 100, watch your golf. If you break 80, watch your business. Joey Adams People are still willing to do an honest day's work. The trouble is they want a week's pay for it. Joey Adams Jacques Ellul Quotes French - Philosopher January 6, 1912 - May 19, 1994 Modern technology has become a total phenomenon for civilization, the defining force of a new social order in which efficiency is no longer an option but a necessity imposed on all human activity. Jacques Ellul Mass media provides the essential link between the individual and the demands of the technological society. Jacques Ellul It is the emergence of mass media which makes possible the use of propaganda techniques on a societal scale. Jacques Ellul The goal of modern propaganda is no longer to transform opinion but to arouse an active and mythical belief. Jacques Ellul In sum, thought and reflection have been rendered thoroughly pointless by the circumstances in which modern men and women live and act. Jacques Ellul The Holy Spirit alone can do this, the Holy Spirit alone can establish this link with one's neighbor. Jacques Ellul The orchestration of press, radio and television to create a continuous, lasting and total environment renders the influence of propaganda virtually unnoticed precisely because it creates a constant environment. Jacques Ellul Thinking has become a superfluous exercise... purely internal, without compelling force, more or less a game. Jacques Ellul Prayer holds together the shattered fragments of the creation. It makes history possible. Jacques Ellul The intellectual who wants to do her work properly must today go back to the starting point: the woman whom she knows, and first of all to herself. It is at that level, and at no other, that she ought to begin to think about the world situation. Jacques Ellul For the word is dialectical in itself and at the same time is integrated into the whole of existence. By this I mean that the word is intended to be lived. Jacques Ellul All human language draws its nature and value from the fact that it both comes from the Word of God and is chosen by God to manifest himself. But this relationship is secret and incomprehensible, beyond the bounds of reason and analysis. Jacques Ellul Alan Watts Quotes English - Philosopher January 6, 1915 - November 16, 1973 The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance. Alan Watts To have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim you don't grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead you relax, and float. Alan Watts The ego is nothing other than the focus of conscious attention. Alan Watts You don't look out there for God, something in the sky, you look in you. Alan Watts We cannot be more sensitive to pleasure without being more sensitive to pain. Alan Watts I have realized that the past and future are real illusions, that they exist in the present, which is what there is and all there is. Alan Watts No work or love will flourish out of guilt, fear, or hollowness of heart, just as no valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now. Alan Watts I owe my solitude to other people. Alan Watts But I'll tell you what hermits realize. If you go off into a far, far forest and get very quiet, you'll come to understand that you're connected with everything. Alan Watts Reality is only a Rorschach ink-blot, you know. Alan Watts Things are as they are. Looking out into it the universe at night, we make no comparisons between right and wrong stars, nor between well and badly arranged constellations. Alan Watts Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth. Alan Watts You and I are all as much continuous with the physical universe as a wave is continuous with the ocean. Alan Watts How is it possible that a being with such sensitive jewels as the eyes, such enchanted musical instruments as the ears, and such fabulous arabesque of nerves as the brain can experience itself anything less than a god. Alan Watts Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command. Alan Watts No valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now. Alan Watts You are that vast thing that you see far, far off with great telescopes. Alan Watts The reason we have poverty is that we have no imagination. There are a great many people accumulating what they think is vast wealth, but it's only money... they don't know how to enjoy it, because they have no imagination. Alan Watts The myths underlying our culture and underlying our common sense have not taught us to feel identical with the universe, but only parts of it, only in it, only confronting it - aliens. Alan Watts Saints need sinners. Alan Watts So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself. Alan Watts Omnipotence is not knowing how everything is done; it's just doing it. Alan Watts Zen does not confuse spirituality with thinking about God while one is peeling potatoes. Zen spirituality is just to peel the potatoes. Alan Watts The reason we want to go on and on is because we live in an impoverished present. Alan Watts So the bodhisattva saves all beings, not by preaching sermons to them, but by showing them that they are delivered, they are liberated, by the act of not being able to stop changing. Alan Watts So what is discord at one level of your being is harmony at another level. Alan Watts But the attitude of faith is to let go, and become open to truth, whatever it might turn out to be. Alan Watts What the devil is the point of surviving, going on living, when it's a drag? But you see, that's what people do. Alan Watts The style of God venerated in the church, mosque, or synagogue seems completely different from the style of the natural universe. Alan Watts But to me nothing - the negative, the empty - is exceedingly powerful. Alan Watts Technology is destructive only in the hands of people who do not realize that they are one and the same process as the universe. Alan Watts We identify in our exerience a differentiation between what we do and what happens to us. Alan Watts In other words, a person who is fanatic in matters of religion, and clings to certain ideas about the nature of God and the universe, becomes a person who has no faith at all. Alan Watts The religious idea of God cannot do full duty for the metaphysical infinity. Alan Watts Some believe all that parents, tutors, and kindred believe. They take their principles by inheritance, and defend them as they would their estates, because they are born heirs to them. Alan Watts And although our bodies are bounded with skin, and we can differentiate between outside and inside, they cannot exist except in a certain kind of natural environment. Alan Watts And the attitude of faith is the very opposite of clinging to belief, of holding on. Alan Watts In known history, nobody has had such capacity for altering the universe than the people of the United States of America. And nobody has gone about it in such an aggressive way. Alan Watts But at any rate, the point is that God is what nobody admits to being, and everybody really is. Alan Watts But we try to pretend, you see, that the external world exists altogether independently of us. Alan Watts A myth is an image in terms of which we try to make sense of the world. Alan Watts Buddhism has in it no idea of there being a moral law laid down by somekind of cosmic lawgiver. Alan Watts The difficulty for most of us in the modern world is that the old-fashioned idea of God has become incredible or implausible. Alan Watts If you study the writings of the mystics, you will always find things in them that appear to be paradoxes, as in Zen, particularly. Alan Watts Wars based on principle are far more destructive... the attacker will not destroy that which he is after. Alan Watts The moralist is the person who tells people that they ought to be unselfish, when they still feel like egos, and his efforts are always and invariably futile. Alan Watts Faith is a state of openness or trust. Alan Watts Religion is not a department of life; it is something that enters into the whole of it. Alan Watts...See MoreIdaClaire
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