Neighbor issue, what would you do?
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Comments (10)I would talk to the mom, to let her know what I'm going to do, and what my stance is. And then I would talk directly to the boy. And make him go home to get the leash, if he arrives with it. So that he knows you're not joking--because if you don't send him home, then really what else are you doing, but kiddin around. You could offer for him to keep a set at your house, but it doesn't solve another problem: he shouldn't be walking outside w/ the dog NOT on a leash. I also think you would be squandering a real opportunity to teach this kid. I'm a fan of the idea that we all help raise one another's children, and that you sort of owe it to this kid to teach him how to properly care for his pet, since his mom isn't. Make this be mostly between you and the boy (partly also he needs to learn that grownups don't joke, and you need to establish some authority with him. He may not be your kid, but he should follow your rules) And maybe educate the boy about how, without the leash, the dog could get out through an opening gate, or wriggle out of his arms while he's walking, and get pasted by a car. or get lost, or something. And emphasize how a collar can serve as a "handle" to a dog--he wants to run away, or you need to grab him before he knocks something over, and you can get your fingers around the collar. also, should he succeed in getting away, the collar will carry his ID info, plus his rabies status. He needs to start training the dog to accept a collar and leash now, while he's young, so it will be useful later. I think I might sit him and seriously, grown-up to grown-up, talk with him about the dangers his dog faces, and how it's important to take care of his dog. it's a big responsibility, and he can handle it. Speak to him as though he can handle this responsibility. He'll rise to it, I bet you....See MoreNeighboring home vacant with door ajar...what would you do?
Comments (13)Which door looked open, the glass door or the screen? We've been having a lot of wind here too, our sliding screen on the French door also moved. Since it was windy and the house is vacant, I'd be concerned but not sure I would call the cops. Someone probably looked at the house and forgot to lock everything up. If you know who is listing it, shoot them an email. I just did this with a house up the street, the sign was driven over & bent. Agent must have gotten my email because the sign was fixed within the next 2 days. Since the agent isn't local, you'd think he'd email to say thanks.....See MoreNeighbor problems-what would you do
Comments (8)Be careful about trying to find out who did it, especially since you admit you made the mistake. At our previous house, the neighbors across the street, after a decade of both of us living there, suddenly stopped returning our waves and pointedly shunned us. After a few months, we finally got them to tell us what the trouble was--they thought we had called the sheriff on them for something. Well, we had done no such thing. Their suspicion then turned to their next door neighbor, but they had either cooled down by then or thought it would be silly to suddenly give those neighbors the cold shoulder months after the event. So the whole thing died down. Except we were left to feel rotten to have been wrongly accused. And, knowing them both, it was highly likely that the angry neighbor had complained about what they thought we had done to the next door neighbor, who didn't come clean about their part in the whole matter. They were probably just happy to deflect the blame onto us. How nice of them. My suggestion is to let it go. No reason to make trouble where there may be none....See MoreA what would you do question about a neighbor
Comments (67)Interesting responses. A few more points. First I forgot to say I wouldn't assume it to be collection, only that it's not legitimate. I realize that some of these calls and such can catch you off guard so you might slip and say or do some things you wouldn't normally. I would suggest to not give them ANYTHING. Don't say that he's your husband, don't say he does or does not know someone, etc. Give them NO info. If they ask "do you know ___?" My standard question is "Why do you ask?" If they so much as ask if you are talking on a telephone, again, "why do you ask?" Until you are completely comfortable it's legitimate, and you're confident you know WHY they're calling and what they intend to do with the information I would assume the call is sinister and it can be to your own detriment. As for what would a caller hope to accomplish? Sheesh. You really don't know? What does ANY scammer hope to accomplish? My experience in crime prevention, personal experiences and a diverse background has made me skeptical of peoples' intentions. I've seen too many good people have bad situations. Better to err on the side of caution, and that's one of the reasons why there's no doubt in my mind, since you're involved, do the right thing. One other thing, it's curious she offered to take your number out of their database, especially on the first call. Sounds very telemarketer to me. But again, I wouldn't assume anything. A collection agency simply would not. It's part of their records. They might make a note that they can't get through via this number but no way would they remove it. PI wouldn't remove it, again records. She may have said it with the intention to get on your better side to accomplish something more at that time or in a future call, but that's not too likely. Lots of bad smells to this call. Which is why I would want to know about it....See More- 10 years ago
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