Neighbor issue, what would you do?
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Comments (16)Go hug a tree :) You may feel you are an outstanding citzen/human by being a teacher. WHOOP DE WHOO!!!! You chose that profession and obviously get more of a reward from patting yourself on the back than your pay check. Its teachers like you that make me want to home school my children. You do more harm than you realize by your judging, and arrogant attidue/ ego. I hope none of your students learn that trait from you. I provide safe, clean, affordable, and for the most part quiet homes. This is obviously a very important issue and housing is considered a bigg need. Basically I interpret your commets that anyone not parenting/ educating/ or contributing to the world in a way you deem worthy is selfish. I do make money renting out property, and my family is financialy stable. Being financially secure I am able to donate money to multiple charities and spend hours each week as a volunteer. But that type of work and those organazations have little to no benefit to anything which means its not a WORLD contribution. Perhpas with all my money and time I will go back to become a teacher and CHANGE THE WORLD!!!!! On a side note I do teach a class every week to K-8th graders. Its called J/A and its one of the most impactfull courses todays youth will ever learn. In case your not familier with Junior Achievment, it teaches youth about personal and world finances. Something our local criculum has been falling short in. But that to, must be a waste since learning a tv isn't a need and how to save money for college/ retirment isn't important. Why don't you check yourself in the mirror next Monday and start being a model citzen instead of talking about being one. I'm not saying you don't have an important job or don't help out todays society, but what I do is important to many others also. Keep judging all you want, people ask for opinions and I give them my honest opinion....See MoreWhat would you do... desperate flooring issue....???
Comments (17)Is your subfloor wood or concrete? If concrete it would be easy to pull up the stained carpet, wash the subfloor with CLUB SODA, then let it dry, wash again with bleach water, let it dry well, and then paint/seal the concrete and just put down an inexpensive area rug for the interim. I know someone who pulled up ALL of the carpeting in her house and just sealed the concrete floors to accomodate her numerous pets. If you want to keep the carpeting and there are just one or 2 spots that need attention (and your subfloor is NOT wood) you might try pulling up the carpet and taking it out to your garage or driveway, then pour some bottled CLUB SODA on the carpet, let it sit for several hours and then extract it with a wet vac. Clean it again with carpet cleaner, and let dry thoroughly. (Turn the fans on and let it dry really well.) The club soda enzymes will actually "eat" the odor-causing bacteria and this does work. (I have used Club Soda to remove the cat urine smell and it does work) That said, if your cats have stained the entire carpet, then I would just pitch it because most animals will go back to the same spot and keep "marking" it if there is any glimmer of odor left. If you think you've got it all out, you may need to have new padding put in (not expensive) and a carpet installer re-stretch the carpet but it's still not as expensive as replacing it with new wall to wall carpet. If you have a wood subfloor, you will need to pull up the carpet, padding and possibly replace the subfloor because that odor will not come out of the subfloor if it has soaked into the boards. I've also read somewhere that a black light will show any pet/urine stains that are on walls/woodwork so you might want to check that out too. In other words, don't assume if you got the floor taken care of that you're done. If that smell is on the wall or trim or subfloor, the next animal will be back to mark that area again and you'll be wondering why. Sorry this is so long but I totally agree with Johnmari above. This is one of the worst things to deal with in a house and requires alot of work to eradicate and patience to deal with....See MoreTell me what you think- neighbor kid issue
Comments (10)I would talk to the mom, to let her know what I'm going to do, and what my stance is. And then I would talk directly to the boy. And make him go home to get the leash, if he arrives with it. So that he knows you're not joking--because if you don't send him home, then really what else are you doing, but kiddin around. You could offer for him to keep a set at your house, but it doesn't solve another problem: he shouldn't be walking outside w/ the dog NOT on a leash. I also think you would be squandering a real opportunity to teach this kid. I'm a fan of the idea that we all help raise one another's children, and that you sort of owe it to this kid to teach him how to properly care for his pet, since his mom isn't. Make this be mostly between you and the boy (partly also he needs to learn that grownups don't joke, and you need to establish some authority with him. He may not be your kid, but he should follow your rules) And maybe educate the boy about how, without the leash, the dog could get out through an opening gate, or wriggle out of his arms while he's walking, and get pasted by a car. or get lost, or something. And emphasize how a collar can serve as a "handle" to a dog--he wants to run away, or you need to grab him before he knocks something over, and you can get your fingers around the collar. also, should he succeed in getting away, the collar will carry his ID info, plus his rabies status. He needs to start training the dog to accept a collar and leash now, while he's young, so it will be useful later. I think I might sit him and seriously, grown-up to grown-up, talk with him about the dangers his dog faces, and how it's important to take care of his dog. it's a big responsibility, and he can handle it. Speak to him as though he can handle this responsibility. He'll rise to it, I bet you....See MoreNeighboring home vacant with door ajar...what would you do?
Comments (13)Which door looked open, the glass door or the screen? We've been having a lot of wind here too, our sliding screen on the French door also moved. Since it was windy and the house is vacant, I'd be concerned but not sure I would call the cops. Someone probably looked at the house and forgot to lock everything up. If you know who is listing it, shoot them an email. I just did this with a house up the street, the sign was driven over & bent. Agent must have gotten my email because the sign was fixed within the next 2 days. Since the agent isn't local, you'd think he'd email to say thanks.....See More- 10 years ago
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