Conflicted feelings about the Derby this Saturday
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Comments (22)The answer is that Penn did make the switch from having ships carry barrels of beer and water. Seems the beer would sour, so they drank that first (ration was one gallon a day per sailor) and then they would switch to water which developed algae and would be slimy. Yuck. Anyway, The origin of grog lies with Vice-Admiral William Penn who in 1655, arrived in Barbados and captured Jamaica. Unfortunately Jamaica had few stores of beer or wine. Jamaica did, however, have rum. Penn, therefore, began the use of rum as a ration. More from the linked website: By Vernon's time straight rum was commonly issued to sailors aboard ship - and drunkenness and lack of discipline were common problems. On August 21, 1740, Vernon issued an order that rum would thereafter be mixed with water. A quart of water was mixed with a half-pint of rum on deck and in the presence of the Lieutenant of the Watch. Sailors were given two servings a day; one between 10 and 12 AM and the other between 4 and 6 PM. To make it more palatable it was suggested sugar and lime be added. In 1756 the mixture of water and rum became part of the regulations, and the call to "Up Spirits" sounded aboard Royal Navy ships for more than two centuries thereafter. Thus, Vernon is called the "father of grog." Poets' Society comes from an Aussie saying: Piss Off Early, Tomorrow's Saturday. Seems like the perfect acronym for our teachers' happy hours even though we can't leave early. **** for TM and Annette. Nancy, did you have it? Waited for a definitive answer, but seems like time should be up now. Have a marvelous Sunday all! Cynthia Here is a link that might be useful: Grog...See MoreMarket Rules - avoiding conflict
Comments (11)Moving around is bad but I have seen it done successfully because it went finally to a better market (next town- not my market). However most of the points Alan makes are actually things at my market and they work out just fine. You absolutely do not want to sell ahead of time. We have tons of problems with this and in 6 years have never changed the policy. We have ALWAYS started at 3:30 and several customers a week claim to not know and try to buy early. They are lying to get ahead of everyone else. If you let people buy early they will become big problems as you are setting up- trying to open your coolers and boxes to take out what they want! Stores have opening times and you are a mini store. I am absolutely firm on the no sales until opening time. Our market manager is on maternity leave all summer but doesn't do much when working. We are city run too and have little knowledgable oversight. It is ok though. I just wish we did more for advertising. I think it is better to have produce left over after a market. It shows you couldn't sell more if you brought more so you don't have to wonder. Also if you are wiped out well before closing time customers will stop coming the last hour. They don't want a few meager leftovers. I truly feel you need piles of produce to sell. I have been selling much better lately and I think partly due to how I set up and how much is there. Our time is 3:30 to 7 and most customers come between 3:30 and 5. It doesn't get over 95 here but is quite humid. We moved indoors once this summer in the community center across the street but then you have to cart in your stuff. The customers are ok with the heat but the veggies can wilt. I have to figure out ways to keep it fresh and envy the pics I see of chard bunches stacked up or rainbow carrots not in water....See MoreCount down to Derby Day!
Comments (13)Thank you so much for asking! The party was great - had a few last minute cancellations since there was a softball tournament the same day and their kids were on teams that kept winning, but I am thrilled that the girls did well so it was all good. The menu was everything listed above, except I skipped the ice cream sandwich thing - it was overkill, and I am glad I did. Several friends (who know me well) know that dessert is usually not my thing, so they all brought desserts! The contributed a pecan pie, a walnut caramel cheesecake (OMG it was delish!), a strawberry cheesecake, and a huge plate of chocolate chip cookies and chocolate covered pretzels. Everyone had a blast and the hat parade was a riot. My GF had been in San Diego on business a few weeks earlier and bought a fascinator there. It was incredible - purple, black illusion lace, black feathers... just amazing and she looked so beautiful in it. I was happy she won, since she has had a tough year battling breast cancer. I am already looking forward to next year! Alexa...See MoreConflicted and Need to hear that I'm Crazy
Comments (9)You've got two very young children and lots of history together -- What you have is so very important that you REALLY need to try to save it. But 'saving it' does NOT mean "suck it up"! You've already done plenty of that and it's not working... Right now, you're exhausted and feeling resentful; and hard as it is for you to believe, your wife is probably *also* exhausted and resentful. Caring for two little ones at home all day is truly exhausting, and the lack of sexual intimacy in a marriage with young children is legendary. It's become a running gag on TV precisely because it is so true... Get yourselves into counseling! It sounds to me like your wife may have some anxiety issues; and you and her parents have been enabling her for years. Weaning her from all of her crutches will take time, and possibly even medication -- but it can be done, and you all will be better off for it. It's not hard to see how her fears will be passed along to her children if they're allowed to continue. Of course you should be able to have the occasional night off. (As should she, and the two of you together.) And as others have already pointed out, what's with the homework duty? YOU are not the one who's going to be a teacher, and if her own work is not up to snuff, how is your fixing it helping her? Or the kids she will go on to teach? If she were trying to get into medical school, TOP grades would be necessary, but to teach? Sometimes 'good' is plenty good enough. Make some changes Struggling, and do it NOW. (Before you're so darned tired that nothing could work.) Stop just sucking it up and start talking to her. Organize your thoughts, and make a list (yes, a paper list) of the most important two or three points you need to make. Find ways to explain your points that are short, simple and kind; and don't let her get away with twisting your words into things you don't mean. Ask her to repeat back to you what you said (and meant) so you know that she understands you, and be sure to emphasize that it's because you want your marriage to last that you're saying these things....See More- 10 years ago
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