Conflicted feelings about the Derby this Saturday
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Comments (18)So a total of **** **** for Annette who got both the city and the century plus **** for her first answer which was actually correct for the way I phrased the question. **** for TM and Nancy who also got Quebec. The first hospital north of Mexico was the Hotel-Dieu de Quebec. It was established in New France in 1639 by three Augustinians from l'Hotel-Dieu de Dieppe in France. The project, begun by the niece of Cardinal de Richelieu was granted a royal charter by King Louis XIII and staffed by a colonial physician, Robert Giffard de Moncel. To go a little further, in Europe, the medieval concept of Christian care evolved during the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries into a secular one, but it was in the eighteenth century that the modern hospital began to appear, serving only medical needs and staffed with physicians and surgeons. The Charite (founded in Berlin in 1710) is an early example. Happy Sunday everyone. We have another clear, not-too-cold day-perfect for the Redskins first play-off game in years! Hope they win just like the Packers did last night! Cynthia...See MoreWeekend Trivia: Saturday
Comments (22)The answer is that Penn did make the switch from having ships carry barrels of beer and water. Seems the beer would sour, so they drank that first (ration was one gallon a day per sailor) and then they would switch to water which developed algae and would be slimy. Yuck. Anyway, The origin of grog lies with Vice-Admiral William Penn who in 1655, arrived in Barbados and captured Jamaica. Unfortunately Jamaica had few stores of beer or wine. Jamaica did, however, have rum. Penn, therefore, began the use of rum as a ration. More from the linked website: By Vernon's time straight rum was commonly issued to sailors aboard ship - and drunkenness and lack of discipline were common problems. On August 21, 1740, Vernon issued an order that rum would thereafter be mixed with water. A quart of water was mixed with a half-pint of rum on deck and in the presence of the Lieutenant of the Watch. Sailors were given two servings a day; one between 10 and 12 AM and the other between 4 and 6 PM. To make it more palatable it was suggested sugar and lime be added. In 1756 the mixture of water and rum became part of the regulations, and the call to "Up Spirits" sounded aboard Royal Navy ships for more than two centuries thereafter. Thus, Vernon is called the "father of grog." Poets' Society comes from an Aussie saying: Piss Off Early, Tomorrow's Saturday. Seems like the perfect acronym for our teachers' happy hours even though we can't leave early. **** for TM and Annette. Nancy, did you have it? Waited for a definitive answer, but seems like time should be up now. Have a marvelous Sunday all! Cynthia Here is a link that might be useful: Grog...See MoreRavencajun: Windows Security/AVG conflict
Comments (9)wait you don't have to take those off just turn them off while you try to get AVG to install and work. They are all fine good programs and should be on the pc. I would bet some of Norton may still be hanging in there causing the problem, so definitely use their removal tool for the version of Norton that she had that should clear up most of it. then go to right click start then explore in the tree> program files see if there is still a folder for Norton if so delete the entire Norton folder, anything you see labeled Norton or Symantec should go. You did not do anything wrong sometimes things just have conflicts and especially with Norton. So do the removal of that then just turn off those programs and try AVG again. The reason I suggest using the method in the AVG faq is that it keeps it from installing some of the extras that have caused problems on some pcs. It is a much slimmer version. You are doing a good deed! You are helping someone ,that is always a good thing. As I said it may require doing an add remove on AVG then reinstalling it, that is why it should be disconnected from the internet since you will be with out protection while AVG is not working. If AVG continues to fail you could try AVAST free, I use it on one of my pcs. avast! 4 Home Edition - FREE antivirus the install and user guide are on that same page off to the left. I do not use Vista so if anyone is aware of any conflict issue that I don't know about hopefully they will let us know....See MoreConflicted by abusive step sons
Comments (14)Southernlights: I truly appreciate every single optimistic idea I am still VERY open to any other ideas. that you've presented. I do feel that isolating what would be considered more of my family unit is unfair to us and my DH. The visitation my husband has is not a few hours or a day, it is an 2-3 weekends (Friday-Sunday) every month, 6 weeks in the summer, winter holidays (alternating thanksgiving [extended time for after christmas] /christmas), and every springbreak, plus more. Additionally, the amount of time required for him to travel, at a minimum of 5hrs roundtrip, to meet up with the boys is not overly extensive, but is draining (physically) on a regular routine, and is added time that we are are seperating ourselves. All of these periods of visitation are extensive and I don't feel that it would be morally exceptable for my DH to give up any amount of time with his DSs. We don't have a location for my DH to spend in the town that the boys reside, or here where we reside. Financially we don't have the means to pay for lodging on a consistant basis or for extended periods of time (I hope I am not coming across as negative, this is our financial reality). I believe that I have tried to process options so that my DDs are not subjected to anytime of further abuse. My DDs have and will always be my absolute priority as I know it should be the same for my DH and his DSs. We may be his family, but even though his DSs appear to have SERIOUS issues, he biologically is connected to these boys and can not sacrifice any time that he is granted, especially recognizing that he was forceably removed from their day to day life by his ex because of her own intentions. I hope this added information sheds more light on our family dynamics. It is not my intention to push away the ideas presented so far. I am still VERY open and desperate to accept any other ideas presented. ----------------------------------- Sylviatexas: I absolutly agree with your opinion. Example #1 was not a planned or expected situation. We all were appalled, and I supported my DD, and I have been diligent to create, establish seperate boundries of personal space. We sat down with all of the children and admently explained the magnitude of the offense and enforced what we at that time "believed" were respect and safety standards. Obviously, we were wrong to assume that the 1st act was dealt with and would be the only. Not to take away from the seriousness of each incident, it is not what was stated a "romantic or sexual fantasy" that create the conflict. My DDs have developed a strong paternal relationship with my DH. He as I stated prior is an exceedingly amazing father figure, and my DDs have an emotional dependability that they were not able to establish with my abusive ex. Unfortunately, in reference to my personal sexual libido is absolutely gone for my DH. It's physically impossible to feel sexually attracted to him knowing that he participated in the creation of these boys....See Moreamicus
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