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Comments (3)Hi! This is definitely a hard question to answer as 'Google-ing' it just doesn't seem to produce any results. What I can say is that just like having client pictures on a website or brochure, you need to ask permission. Thousands of companies seem to just post images of their clients without even a thought that their customers might object, so it is good that you are making the effort to actually do something about it! For instance, 'see article attached' posting "before and after" photos of your work, I would object if my garden was a mess before until you fixed it! lol! and it was all over Facebook! Although, just posting a simple picture of a completed project isn't harmful, maybe you will get someone one day that objects without logical reason. We've all encountered someone like that before haven't we?! So really to sum up I think you should always ask and show someone the photographs before you post them on Facebook to avoid any trouble. This will be to your benefit as well, because they will probably 'like' you on Facebook & tag themselves in your photo for all their friends to see. Hope all goes well. Here is a link that might be useful: landscape gardener social media...See MoreTeen social media use
Comments (39)I work with adolescents so I am forced to keep up with this stuff :-) My DS is 10, and I dread the day he gets involved with it all. Some things I have learned, FYI-- Icky, but good to know-- There are now several apps available that "capture" Snapchats. So the sender believes the message will disappear, but the recipient can save it and distribute it. This is frequently used for the sexy/naked images or supposedly private comments dumb kids send each other. There are apps specifically designed to deceive parents looking through their kids' phones. The icon on the phone will look like something innocent, like a calendar or whatever, but when you click on it, it takes you to a password protected messaging or "dating" service. Many of these apps are used by sexual predators; kids get suckered in by the "privacy" aspect. Sending/receiving nude pics of someone under 18 (even when a kid is sending images they have taken of themself) can result in charges of distributing child pornography. Seriously....See MoreCan anyone explain social media photo filters to me?
Comments (12)I am kind of surprised that it upsets people to see a profile photo that isn't a perfect likeness. I don't usually use photos of myself (hate them!) but on a rare occasion, I use a photo of me with one of my (now passed) dogs. It was from almost 20 yr ago but I love the photo and the memories it reflects. Otherwise, I use something seasonal, temporal or a character that reflects my current state of mind. I've used Hit Girl (from Kick-ass), David Bowie, a painting of Ganesha, Winnie the Pooh, and (currently) the Statue of Liberty. I doubt I'd post a bunch of photos of myself even if I was young, thin and hot. Some of my nieces use the silly filters that distort their faces-- or those that swap features with another person. It's all in good fun and they laugh a bunch while doing it. No harm there. We need more giggles in the world....See MoreBreaking up with social media
Comments (60)Well if you look at what the fake accounts on FB were doing in the election, they were just posting negative rumor type things on both sides. They were "fake" in that the people were pretending to be groups that they were not, but do we really care or parse where our memes come from? I try but a lot of it is ubiquitous. The fact that folks got caught up in posting it says more about human nature than FB being responsible. Smear campaigns are as old as the hills. But the issue is, if you have your phone with you and are on social media 24/7, then just the atmosphere it creates in your life will influence you. The memes mostly stoked divisions, fear and hate in the populace, for both parties actually. This is an age old technique. Just repeat things in the background and folk will pick up on it as truth, whether they are paying much attention or not. Repeat a lie something like 19 times and folks will think it is the truth. So if you see it 19 times on a pamphlet, hear it in the halls of your high school, or have it pop up on your phone, it's pretty much the same as far as being bad. The difference is how intense and long lasting it is when it is on a device that you are attached to all day long. That's why I am torn. I want the pluses of having my device for positive communication, but want to weed out the negative. This is something my husband and I disagree on, I try to stamp out saying toxic things and having toxic thoughts and hearing toxic sounds that I don't want to influence my life in toxic ways. Hubs says, "oh come on, it's just a movie, or it's just a joke or it's just a tv show, etc." He denies being negatively influenced by watching and hearing angry people argue all day on TV. Hubs and I are basically on the same page with big political issues but not on the same page about how to speak and act and what kinds of atmosphere to immerse oneself in. I think that's because hubs grew up in a toxic home and then had a toxic first marriage. He learned to wall himself off from his surroundings. It's difficult to teach an old dog new tricks. Particularly if the dog doesn't want to learn. So a lot of the time I have to say, "Go ahead and listen or get involved in that, but leave me out of it." He does a lot of positive things too, so far the scale is far down on the positive end, although sometimes it wobbles. My best friend has a similar issue in her long marriage, she says, "Politically and socially we totally agree. But how to load the dishwasher, how often to clean the car, what time to leave for an event, and a thousand other daily tasks we disagree vehemently on." They have contrasting personal styles as do my husband and I, introvert/extrovert, etc. But then he's a contrarian and if I say he's one way, no matter what it is, he will deny it. He often argues he likes something one day and doesn't like it the next, I can't keep track sometimes! Deny or not, the marketers know a lot about how it works, the FB data miners were sophisticated enough to mine and parse information from FB accounts to figure out who was vulnerable to what messages. No different than FB figuring out which ads to show you or tv advertisers knowing who is watching what shows so they can sell air time to companies to advertise. The only difference is that FB did not pay very much attention to what folks were doing with what they sold them. Candidates want to speak with constituent groups and get their message out to them. But what about folks who want to poison the well? Negative campaigns work, spreading insinuating and biased disinformation works. That's the real kicker for me, how do I watch tv, use my phone and even pump gas for heaven's sake and not be bombarded by this stuff? How do I keep the good and weed out the bad? Every time I turn around, some type of haranguing media is on somewhere . . . The tv station doesn't refuse to air a political add because it is biased does it? And yet most people loathe having to listen to that stuff . . . and yet is persists because it works . . . agh!...See Morebeaglesdoitbetter
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