How long after moving in did you start having over night guests?
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how did you deal with moving and starting over on a new garden?
Comments (7)oh mercy I've done it and done it.........my garden in Chicago was a 10-year project of learning and loving. I'd got it to where I could get an armful of flowers weekly and beautiful dirt, compost, etc. Poof, off to Israel. No midwest gardners needed; now I was in for no snow, no frost, sheeting floods in winter and summer hell drought. Ten years I terraced, tried, composted, grew fabulous lavender and rosemary, learned Middle east garden on a 45 degree angle tricks. DG says move, poof we move. I took very few of the old plants with me, and most of those died, and here I am starting anew. Saw old garden this week: completely ignored and in disrepair. New house, very little garden open space, mostly room for containers and a few perennials, lots of shade (great for cooling, not so good for growing). Again, I must still find a place for the compost pile, dig and see what kind of soil I have (rocky, no worms, millions of slugs) figure out where the sun is likely to be in seasons I haven't been here for yet, and put nearly everything in pots and move them around to see where they are happiest before I plant them, which will take at least a whole year of seasons before I can say I understand how to garden here. At which point DG has informed me that we will probably stay here for a "few" years, and then move again so the investment in the house is worth it. I have left more fully functioning gardens, after years of work, than I care to think about. But, I taught myself how to garden, what works/doesn't in a new country. I NEED to garden, and though I sometimes seethe with envy for gardens that I can work and grow for more that a decade, it's the process that I really need. Playing in the dirt. Plant stuff, have fun, learn, get dirty. Move, give as much as you can away, bless the garden that held you, and move on to a new embrace. Start again. Batya...See MoreHow long have you vermicomposted and what have you learned
Comments (85)Vermicomposting since November 2015. I've learned that it's important not to let drain flies get established in your bin because it is almost impossible to get rid of them once they are. They can live on the bacteria in vermicompost, just like earthworms, and for some reason there tends to be no earthworm cocoons in the bin when drain fly larvae are present. The larvae can survive for 17 days and the flies start laying eggs within hours after they emerge. I eventually got rid of them by placing a window screen on my bin, killing the drainflies on the walls of the bin daily, and dumping an excessive amount of cardboard bedding on the bin. I've also learned that I can make the worms attack their bedding immediately by moistening it and sprinkling milk powder evenly on it. I think it's because the sugar in the milk (lactose) dissolves and is absorbed by the bedding. It drives them crazy....See MoreHow long are/were YOU on the market? How much did you reduce?
Comments (18)We listed in May of 2007 with a local realtor with a good reputation who had been in the business for a few years. Our asking price was $10k less than the house two doors away which was a bit smaller than ours and did not have a new kitchen, bath, and other features ours had. We saw three houses that were in our neighborhood, one listed at $5k more than ours and the other two listed even higher sell in the first 3 months we had ours listed. I'm very realistic and just knew that ours wasn't being marketed effectively. Also, I could look at the good and bad in our home and knew ours was in much better condition and in a better location than two of the three that sold. Two of them were on a busy street while ours was on one of the most desired streets in our town. We ended up cancelling our listing after promises similar to yours of people who were "really interested" never materialized. We were going to forget about moving for awhile and relax about the whole selling situation. However, I saw an article in a local paper the week after our listing was cancelled about a real go-getter in the RE business. She didn't promise to sell in any specified amount of time but this woman sold houses that others didn't, even after being listed for months. Two months after listing with her and having had three times as many showings as we had in 7 months with the other realtor, we sold our home. The couple who bought our house wanted to look at it after driving by, they hadn't been looking in our area but our home caught their eye. Their realtor called ours after hours and they saw the house at 9:00 P.M. on a Saturday night because they were scheduled to fly home the next morning. When she asked me if I would leave the dining room drapes, I knew we had sold our home. She said she walked in and knew that was it. We had come down in price about $40k, but it was only 5% of our original asking price so I was happy to sell when we did. We had also cancelled a contract we had on another home that we were going to build when our home didn't sell with our original realtor. In the long run, we ended up getting a bit less for our home, but we also bought our new home for less than we would have and received even more builders' incentives so in the long run, things worked out for the best. I know that is hard to hear but I kept telling myself that everything happens for a reason and it is true. We just need a lot of patience to believe that and keep telling yourself that whatever happens is meant to be. I'm not making light of the situation for those who have to sell and haven't been able to but I really do believe everything happens the way it's supposed to in life. If you're not happy with your realtor, evaluate the situation and think about finding a new one if you don't think they are doing their job. Take a good, hard look at your home with a critical eye and ask your friends to tell you what you can do to improve your home. We had friends offer excellent advice but because we lived with it on a daily basis, we never saw our home the way others did. Most of all, your home has to be priced right. I've noticed in the area we left, homes have come down an average of 5 to 7% since we left and some of them were on the market at the same time ours was. If it's not priced right, it won't sell, no matter how nice it is. Good luck to everyone and may the new year bring you a buyer for your home!...See MoreHow long did it take you to move back in to your kitchen?
Comments (10)When I did the kitchen in my previous home, I purged (I mean PURGED) before packing it up. Once the new kitchen was up and running, I had nothing in the kitchen that was not used. Now that we've moved and are doing another kitchen, the only difference is that some of what was previously in the kitchen will be in a hallway pantry this time (small apartment kitchen vs. house). Also, when I planned the new kitchen, every drawer and cabinet was specifically designed for something, so I know exactly where everything will go. I hope it won't take more than one or two days to unpack....See MoreNone Ofyourbusiness
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