Ceiling, Alabaster in flat finish, trim, Alabaster in semi-gloss finish. Because the cabinets are abutting the ceiling and Alabaster isn’t true white, I would worry that a ceiling “white” would make the cabs look drab.

We just put the side light in with ribbed glass. That has to stay. I didn't know about the Urbane Bronze color. Do you know if that will work on the vinyl window trims? Also, we just put in the satin nickel door lock set so that stays also, thinking it would look good with black (and my husband didn't want a black door handle). Would the bronze color and satin nickel go well next to each other on the door? What if we did the door in the same color as the garage door? A bit greyer green than the house color.

Just a quick update to say I chose paint colors! I went with Miller Paints (only in the PNW). A for the body of the house, B for the main trim, C for the mullions. Also took an updated photo of my house to share for those of you who commented on the vines on the trellises on my house. (Still lots more vegetation to get under control before painting, but it is a constant process!) I'll share an update when the painting is completed, but it will be awhile. I work more than full time, have lots of weekend getaways planned for the summer, and the prep work is going to be incredibly time-intensive (but important)! Just need to get it all painted before the rain starts in the fall. Thank you all for sharing your suggestions and opinions! (Please excuse the hose, garden watering was underway!)

Your roof is brown and it's very visible from the front, so you're going to have difficulty getting away from it 100%. That brick isn't bad, we've seen a lot worse on this forum. Lighten up the dark brown elements on the facade to something similar to BM Smokey Taupe 983 or Stone Hearth 984. Then cut the tint by 50% for the area between the windows. I can't promise you Smokey Taupe will be the right color because it's difficult to get exact color matches looking at colors on computers. But Smokey Taupe has an LRV of 55, which means it's substantially lighter than the brown. It also is somewhat gray, so it would give you a different look. The biggest bang for your buck would be a substantial investment in landscaping. What you have is simultaneously sparse and overgrown. It's probably been a while since any effort has been expended here. I get it - DH and I don't know much about plants. Engage a landscape designer for a plan and DIY part of it if you're interested and able.