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Savannah Area Fall Plant Swap & Luncheon
Comments (0)Fall Plant Swap and Potluck Luncheon Mission Statement: The first priority of this plant swap is to have fun and enjoy the fellowship of other gardeners. Secondly, is to share some of your overstock plants and to collect some new plants in return. Date:__November 4, 2006 Time:__11-3pm_________ Place:__Mary Kahrs Warnell Forest Education Center 5960 Hwy 17 South, Guyton, GA What will we do? We will have fun meeting new people, eating, trading plants, learning some gardening tips, discussing our gardens, and enjoying some fall weather. We are also very lucky to be having Gail Lutoswski, Kahrs Warnell Forest Education Center director, to be speaking to our group about local native plants. Who should come to the plant swap? Anyone who is interested in having fun, meeting other gardeners, and taking some new plants home. You donÂt have to be an expert just someone who likes to play in the dirt. We are not Master Gardeners so please do not expect us to know all and to have a lot of fancy, hard to find items. What to bring to trade? Bring any plants that you think others might like. These can be flowers, herbs, or vegetables. Bring packages of seeds. Bring cuttings, bulbs, corms, rhizomes, etc Bring gardening magazines or books you no longer need. Bring garden tools, artwork, pots, labels etc Anything that you think others might like to trade for. Also bring a potluck lunch item. Cost: Free! No money will be charged for the event or for any of the trades. Contact Sandra D. at 912-772-8384 or RJDBlues@aol.com for RSVP, questions, and Directions....See MoreNeed a few more suggestions re the fussy & the semi-toothless luncheon
Comments (24)Sounds like the honcho is set on the sandwich (and I'll add my "pass" to it FWIW!) but how about a compromise? Ham salad with cheese and serve the raisin bread on the side. People would have an easier time chewing, the bread would be better accepted by the (read "us") naysayers and those that want it together can make a sandwich if they want. Deviled eggs sound good and I will say I've never been a quiche fan but at a luncheon at the nursing home I was in a while back served a few quiches. The bacon, sausage & cheese one - I went back for seconds on that. I'm also a fan of less fancified especially on fruit. I'd take my applesauce without cinnamon, but then again I prefer mine unsweetened too and I'm sure that would not go over in this group. Mixed fruit cup is extremely refreshing. And the spears of fruit sound great and reasonably budget-friendly. As for the creamy cucumber salad, wasn't that nixed by the "no cuke salad" clause? Good luck. It should be interesting!...See MoreWhat are funeral services like in your area?
Comments (71)I haven't seen this thread either. It's been an interesting read. Growing up Methodist in the South,, I have attended my fair share of funerals. I do not care for open caskets. Would rather remember them up and about. I have only attended traditional funerals, nothing more fun like Funkyart's trout stream story. The most moving was the service of DD2's friend since they were 2yo. They were in 7th grade when they found out she had leukemia. She died within 2wks. It was a Jewish graveside service. One gal from HS seems to have the hobby of posting about deaths, the information on services, and attending funerals. Even those she wasn't friends with, just knew of. I totally do not get that obsession. For decades, my father made it very clear he hated HATED funerals and wanted to be cremated. He wasn't the approachable kind, so I never asked why. When he died by suicide, Mom was close to death, so I just had him cremated and spent as much time as I could with her during her final weeks. Per his last written wishes, her ashes were put in an urn with his, and a few months later we had a private, immediately family only dispersing of the ashes. Only one (a married couple) of his lifelong friends kept questioning me on when was the private memorial. Even one of their sons said to me several times "they want to be included." Um, no. All of their other friends understood. Honestly, I do not want a funeral either. Neither does DH. As far as the poster that said those left behind do not get closure without a funeral or memorial service, I have to disagree....See MoreQuestion re funerals....
Comments (12)I kind of struggle with this. First, there are so many versions of a funeral or life celebration these days. I have friends of all faiths and many who are not religious. So what part to attend or go to all functions? I recently went to a Catholic service but did not go to the cemetery or luncheon after. The deceased was a pretty good friend, but I did not know her children at all. My cousin died and they just had a "visitation" with the family. It was in a town about an hour away and for some unknown reason they had it when people had to drive through rush hour in the dead of winter to get there. I did not go since it sounded like all I would be doing was filing through and expressing condolences. I would have gone if it had not been a challenge to get there. Another friend died at age 104. She has a pistol during her life and I was quite fond of her. I went to that service and was glad I did. There were only 17 people there. I also am indecisive about whether or not to go. I go if the survivors are important to me. In that case I usually go to the luncheon as well. I also go when the deceased was important to me but if I don't know the family, I sometimes skip the extracurricular activities. I like Life Celebrations where there is just a luncheon where people remember the deceased by chatting and sharing memories....See MoreUser
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