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Comments (27)When I was a teenager, my mother thought chipmunks were cute. My Aunt next door cut down on the amount of cats & Mom was feeding them (the tree rats). The next thing we knew, there were chipmunks EVERYWHERE. Dozens of them, digging up all the bulbs & everything we planted. Emptying all the bird feeders. Running & playing & most of all multiplying. My Uncles were poisoning, trapping & shooting them until they finally got down to a manageable number. In later years, I had a Sheltie who thought it was her job to be on chipmunk patrol & she took it very seriously & kept them away. My Newf isn't that excited over such a small mouthfull but we have an Eskie who likes organic dog toys (mice & such are organic cat toys). Linda...See MoreI hate her...I hate her......I hate her
Comments (6)I feel the same way about my husband's exwife. I am custodial stepmom of 3 chlldren. My husband has always had custody because the exwife decided one day she no longer wanted to be married or a full-time mother. Before I came along she constantly dumped 99% of her time on my husband, he of course never said no, she had full control of her old household only she lived in a differnt place and had her own life. It was a very unhealthy situation. My husband just never stood up to her, he struggled to keep a full-time job and take care of 3 children. I give him tremendous credit because many men in his situation would not be able to take on that responsibilty. Well, then I come along, we get married and all of a sudden she begins to take a deeper interest. Mainly because I would not allow her to control my household and my husband began saying "no", She always used us as her babysitter, whether it was a work meeting, an exerecise class or a European vacation. She has been nothing but a major PIA, she wouldn't pay child support when my husband enforced the order she opened a full blown custody case, suing us for full custody because she did not want to financially support her children. We also have a screwed up schedule. During the school the chldren visit their mother Mon&Tues 4-8pm with alternating weekends. During the summer they visit her Mon-Wed 4-8pm with alternating weekends. The exwife wanted some crazy, they live with her 3days one week, then us 4days, and the next week it was the reverse. Mind you, she only had a 2bedroom condo. All three children sleep in the same bedroom. 2 girls 13&10 and a 8yr old boy. The master had enough sense to reconize that the living arrangemnents were not appropriate and would not grant anymore overnight visits except for the already standing 2 weekends a month. The schedule is crazy. The exwife is crazy. She teaches the children it is ok to lie to us. She is NOT supportative of myself or my husband. She has harrassed us to the point that she is not allowed on our property, she can not contact us by phone, she may only communicate via email, unless it is an emergency related to that day's schedule, then she may leave a message on our cell phone. She would call my husband at work and pull him out of meetings with the CEO of the company for some nonsense question. HE would get numerous calls on a daily basis. I never saw 2 divorced people talk on a daily basis. We have insulated ourselves as much as possible but everyday there is some new issue. She never returns clothes that the kids wear over there, one day she sent my ss home with no shoes on. She won't take the kids to baseball games and then tells them we did not give her the information. I could go on and on. But your words say it best I HATE HER!!!!! If I had hindsight my posting would be alot differnt. I would be like that one woman who used to be involved with a man with children. Trying being involved with a man who has custody of his children. The rewards have been few and far between. I have lived this from the first day I moved to where my husband lives (I moved from a different state). So the entire two years of my marriage have been filled with this crap. My husband's relationship with his children has also suffered terribly. I was divorced for 11yrs before I remarried and never experienced one ounce of the trouble I have in this life, and it isn't even my divorce. The best advice I can give you is stand your ground. Say NO, she is responsible for her custodial time. It took my husband a long time to be able to say no, it is very easy for me. I know that he is still uncomfortable with saying no but I help him, Remember you can't let her control your life. Good luck, God Bless. I understand, it's one hell of a way to live....See MoreAm I the last one to hear about this?
Comments (8)I've never heard of that particular site. I sometimes look at Cnet when I'm looking for reviews for electronics, appliances, etc. We just bought a washing machine two weeks ago, so I figured I'd check out your link. The top washer they recommend is the same washer we just bought, albeit ours is the next size up in tub size. I spent days researching various machines, but for almost every single machine, for every good review, there is an awful review. We ended up just buying the same brand, newer model, that we previously had b/c for 13 years, we never had to call for a repair. As a family of six, I did a ton of laundry, so I'm hoping this one will be as reliable. But to answer your question, you are not the last one to know, but I hadn't heard either. So perhaps you are next to last to know. ;)...See MoreI hate when I do this.
Comments (11)You are right Trish. You cannot blame the plant for getting depressed after our bad behavior. Clematis are another one it is hard to sort out sometimes. I am hoping to avoid this behavior in the future because I've heard Teas are so sensitive. I do see some damaged canes on roses in Spring mostly when leaves are dropped or stripped, and the cane has canker or sunburn and/or flat head apple borer like damage. The canes can look horrible, yet seem to be budding out. I am not sure what to do sometimes. I understand if the rose is a Tea it is safer to leave wood that isn't dead. On other roses like ramblers or HMusks I'm cutting off some canes and leaving others probably randomly. Of course, if the limb withers and fades I cut it off. It's the canes that look so bad, but are still supporting growth that looks normal that puzzle me....See More- 11 years ago
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