My first attempt out of ABB! Oh please just shoot me now!
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Comments (28)Thanks, Lisa! We bought a generator this year, too, and I thought I would be protected from this very problem. BUT...since we have power, the generator is useless, so it's our little camping a/c to the rescue. I slept in a very nice, cool room last night! Wonderful little air conditioner...I gave it a loving pat this morning. Then I opened the bedroom door and was slapped in the face by heat and humidity beyond belief. (Mark slept in the living room, preferring to sleep in the heat so he could keep the tv on all night. That's what he usually does on weekends, and he wasn't giving it up, a/c or no a/c.) I could live with 65 degrees all year long and be a happy camper. My idea of perfection is anything below 72 in the day time, and above 40 at night. I don't like for stuff to freeze and die in my yard, or I would say nights could be even colder. Over 72, and I'm getting warm and need my shorts. Over 85 and I'm very unhappy. Over 95, and I'm not going outside at all. Tony, if I had actually sold my soul, I would have at least made sure I got central air FOREVER, in exchange! So, obviously, my soul must be in really good shape, as I'm sweltering this morning. Thank goodness the outside temps are lower than they were last month or even last week. *Note to self...If ever in need of being put out of my misery, Tony AND Cliff are willing to oblige. Thanks, guys...I think!* I'm going to work outside for a bit. At least there is a breeze out there. And then I think I may go to a movie. I KNOW the theater will be cold! Marcia, alias the RED HOT MAMA, alias The Coleus Queen of Sanford, alias MaNature.....signing out....See MoreShoot me now :)
Comments (17)Awwww sweetie, that just sounds terrible! Though they may be trying to be helpful, other people do say the stupidest things! They probably really care about you, but don't realize that those kinds of comments come across as criticism more than concern. Do your best to let their comments roll off your back. Of course, it's quite another thing to have DH make stupid comments! After 21 years of marriage to an otherwise great guy, I can honestly say that there is just no limit to the stupid things husbands will say. If we were good friends and you were sitting in my kitchen telling me this, I'd say "Girlfriend, you need a vacation! Even just a weekend getaway will help. And if DH does not want to cooperate, then let's plan a girls' trip!" Then we'd pour some more coffee (or wine) and eat something chocolate. I'd give you my unbiased opinion about your hair, but remind you that it's YOUR hair--you can do what pleases YOU. I'd probably then say something like "...and DH needs to either be supportive or STFU. You are not his property!" Then we'd make a pact to power walk the neighborhood 3x a week to lift the mood and get the heck out of the house. Or book a massage down at the spa. Where are your close friends? Has it been a while since you spent time with them? I found an article you may find interesting. The time you spend with friends may be more important than you think! Here is a link that might be useful: how women manage stress...See MoreGROSS me out the door!! Mold..me..oh my!
Comments (12)I'm a bit contrarian on this subject. Mold isn't good. But if I found mold in my house, my primary worry would be "What's leaking? It needs to get fixed before it rots the house." Mold really isn't that different from dust mites. Mold just has a better PR guy. He wrote a lot of that scary stuff you're reading. The truth is somewhere in the middle. The people who are most troubled by mold are people who have an allergy to it, just like people have allergies to dust mites or cats or strawberries. Some people who are more sensitive mold need to be more vigilant, but that's not everybody. At higher levels, yes, it would make more people sensitive, and therefore sick. But even "toxic mold" is not so toxic it's going to take down city blocks. Some of the symptoms people attribute to mold during cleanup is just dust, paint/glue fumes or even stress and dehydration from hauling around hundreds of pounds of filthy old carpet! The "I found mold. And I have been feeling sick lately. It must be the mold!" is a logic that makes very, very bad people money. They go into houses, open their little kits and, voila! MOLD! The truth is, they could go in tho the cleanest, healthiest houses in America and find some mold. Heck. People even eat mold. Many forms are beneficial organisms. We need them. It would be like trying to eradicate oxygen from the atmosphere -- futile and destructive. The reputable businesses, and I'm sure they are out there, would walk out of those houses and say, "Within completely normal levels." The bad ones will sell you fear. And a lot of other stuff. So be careful. An allergen is just anything that produces an allergic reaction, in this case, that's the mold spores, and probably all kinds of other things in the carpet getting kicked up. Any kind of spore is really hard to kill. They have a coating that makes them just lie around and wait for suitable conditions to germinate. So something like painting over them would kill them, but just washing surfaces with a bleach solution and removing them from the house is effective and within your control. If you feel sick, talk to your doctor, not a mold removal contractor! Your doctor can help you put this in perspective, sort out your symptoms maybe refer you to an allergist. Mold is an easy scapegoat. You might start loading up on antihistamines or other over the counter medicines because you're busy with the reno and really make yourself sick without getting a proper diagnosis. I'm not saying don't take the steps you're taking to remediate the threat. They seem reasonable. Cover the dusts for the dust anyway. Talk to your insurance company. Fix what needs to be fixed. But I have heard stories that would make you very, very angry -- like write to your congressman angry -- about mold abatement practices. So I feel the need to tell people: If what somebody tells you sounds crazy and expensive, and out of line with what insurance will pay for --......See MoreJust shoot me now!
Comments (45)Well Pupa, the IRS says I'm a musician. Reality says I sponge off my husband. The Keeper of the Bishop is a musical contact. The only overt stress he experiences is sperm back-up when he's between polishings. New fantasy - the Gang here goes en masse to one of Keeper of the Bishop's gigs. Between sets he waddles over like he has a load in his pants expecting us to all drop ours. Gatorgirl, of course, will lead the assault... When he starts again, I'll just sit back, fantasize and smile. It'll make him nuts. Ginger, if you insist on going ethnic, a buck in a polka band I played in in college used to sing, "Round, firm, fully-packed. 18 inches hanging slack" when we'd play "Who Stole the Kieshka". He was young and stupid and HE eventually grew up to be a really nice guy. Sultana...See MoreBunny
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