Your build, and who is the boss?
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Comments (16)...tell him that your lawyer said... Most people know that's just a bluff and you'll only end up looking like a fool by saying something like that. Now having a recorder, IS a good idea. And keeping a journal, every day, if you think it might get so bad you would need to resign. Could be enough for an unemployment claim as a justified resignation. She sounds like what's known as a "wish-I-had-a-'nis'". Trying to show superiority over the males to build her ego - the female version of the short-man syndrome. I've dealt with a number of them. Don't really know if it's justified or not, if it's her business she certainly can yell at people if she wants. The thing nowadays is that employers know that employees don't want to lose their jobs and they also know that few will stand up for principle. So they know they can do most anything they want. I think I would take the approach debby_ab recommended. Talk to her in private and tell her it offends you and see what she says. Ask her if should could take the person aside and give the reprimands instead of in front of everyone since it makes you feel uncomfortable. She may well tell you to love it or leave it, or she might say, you're right. Worked with someone once who often started with the "I shouldn't say this" and then would launch into an attack on someone, gossip or otherwise. I got so sick of it I just waited until she did it again and after she just got out the "I shouldn't say this", I replied "Then DON'T!" The first time stunned everyone, the second time everyone laughed at her. We weren't working together too much after that so I don't know if she kept it up or not. But it gave a feeling of satisfaction....See Morewould you enter into a RE arrangement with your boss?
Comments (25)What if someone gets sick and dies - who's left holding what (yourself included)? Hmm, good question. I wonder if we could arrange to have it in writing, who the property goes to if someone gets hit by a truck. Because he is a landlord, can he change the lease agreement once the prior lease expires? Is is a yearly lease agreement that is able to be altered each year? I think we would probably look at a single long lease, at least 2 years, with our option to buy at the end of the lease protected. it appears that you made up your mind and you won't listen to what anyone else says no matter what No, that isn't true. Just because I don't agree with other people's conclusions doesn't mean I'm not thinking about the points they bring up. I don't understand why you're so certain that you would be unable to get a rental that you like better than your current one. Three months of research. Main thing is relationship between employer & employee. I my own self would not like to have a business contract interfere with that. Unless there's a friendship outside of work hours, isn't the relationship between employer & employee exactly a business contract? In the event of a disagreement, the boss almost always wins, & you could find yourselves with no home & no job either. People have said this several times but no one has offered a plausible scenario to *how* it would happen that couldn't happen now or in another rental. I mean, if you have one, I'm all ears, I just haven't seen one. I'm going to call several lenders Monday and see what they accept as a down payment from a rent-to-own situation, because I agree having a third-party lender would be a way safer option. And thanks for the reference to mrlandlord. I'll read there this weekend....See MoreWorking with KD's - Who's the Boss? And cabinet finish quality...
Comments (10)Hi Janralix, You are doing the right think to really think through your choices here. I agree with the above posters. I've been in your situation, and would like to share my thoughts. Re: The KD - You should not work with anyone who doesn't make you feel comfortable and informed. Communication is essential. I know you are probably anxious to make a decision and move forward, but you should keep looking if you haven't found the right fit. Also, take some time and really read the contract before you sign. Make sure you have rights regarding termination and you understand the way fees are calculated. Is the KD getting a fee or a commission on cabinet sales? Re: Manufactured cabinets - vs- local cabinet-makers: I've been all around the block on this question. The "finish durability" issue is one that made alot of sense to me (especially since I live in CA where environmental restrictions limit the types of finish products allowed). However, after talking to a lot of people, and visiting cabinet shops and completed projects, we decided to go with a local cabinetmaker after all. I think the answer is that not all cabinetmakers can produce the same kind of results as a factory - but some can. It requires a more sophisticated finishing operation. If they have the right kind of exhaust system, they can use the catalytic conversion varnishes (even in CA), which are a big selling point for the manufacturers. I visited a 10 year old kitchen with cabinets that looked brand-new - just like the mfg. ones. They were able to customize the cabinets to our exact requirements, and they were cheaper (somewhat). The turn-around time was much quicker, and in the future they could make changes or additional cabinets for our home that would match. Also, it felt good to support our local businesses. Good Luck!...See MoreIf your boss asked you to do several hours work for no pay ...
Comments (21)preaching to the 'mom & dad CPA's & financial planners' choir here. no debt myself other than my tiny mortgage and i'm still up 200% on my house LOLOL. my DH has acquirred college loan debt but at only 3% interest after he's done. he just finished his honors BS in Mech Engineering, is 1/2 done w/ his MS and by Dec will be 2/3 done. college debt for the high earning degrees doesn't bother me but if it's not sciences or engineering i would not bother taking out $$ to do it and it's a waste of time of you are not in the top of your class academically. he has job offers pouring in nothing under $60K and they won't catch my attention until they hit $85K, some are coming close. ideally he would take a job where we live since my job currently pays for all we need. his job would then pay off the loans in a yr. but unfortunately the jobs coming close to $85K are in other states, thou all of them are significantly cheaper to live in. almost any state other than CA is going to be cheaper for us. my point in the above post was that these days most employers expect far more than they are willing to pay up for. hence my high demands for a great starting salary for DH other than he has earned it in spades w/ his special honors and i know the employer will get their works worth. back to the debt thing, back in 2000 i learned that lots of cash on hand is not as important to creditors as extensive credit history. i was starting to look for a house to buy and was buying an suv at the same time. it had been almost 7 yrs since i had used credit cards, they had nearly fallen off my credit record apparently. i was advised by banks to get some current credit history going so i could get a mortgage. even thou i had 6 figures in 401K and enough cash on hand to put 50% down if i had to on a house. i bought and paid cash for the SUV except for the extended warranty and that interest rate for $2k came in at 18% lol. i built up a bit of new credit, got my mortgage & house at what then was a good rate 7%. in 2006 i decided to pay off all credit cards and be done w/ credit. last yr i bought a new suv but instead of giving up my cash i put the amount for the car in it's own savings (pays 3% which balances out the 2% interest on the loan) and it auto pays ea month adding to my credit history which other than my house has become nill again. i will be wading back into credit cards now that all the new rules have gone into effect (been too leary), luckily i still have a high FICO and a perfect record althou not alot of different things and i do still get flooded w/ good credit offers. if i can get my DH to find a local job even part-time (i'd prefer that for another yr) and we stay in my house another yr we'll be set for life! ~ liz...See Morecefoster
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