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Poll: What is the 1 thing in your home you can't live without
Comments (11)Truly, the one thing in my home I can't live without...the people who live in it with me!!;-) I know that was sappy, but I couldn't resist. Now honestly, I LOVE my laundry room. Two big windows looking out to the woods, my sound system, cable hookup, integrated ironing board, tons of folding space....can you tell where I spend a great deal of my time? Oh, the other place I spend my time is the kitchen, but right now the laundry room is my favorite. Hopefully as the children grow up that will no longer be my favorite. Amy...See MoreHow long have you lived in your home and do you plan to stay?
Comments (87)Dh and I have lived in our current house for our entire marriage, 17 years. Truthfully, it was being built when we got married, so we lived in an apt for 2 months, then my parents for a month then it was ready. We live on the outskirts of a waterfront tourist town. We were supposed to be here for 3 years. Dh was in the Navy and this was not supposed to be our forever home as we anticipated being transferred by the Navy. However, dh realized the Navy was not meant to be his career as he didn't want to constantly move once we had kids. We wanted to live close to one of our families, but unfortunately, they live on opposite coasts. He is from the San Francisco Bay Area, and I am from the Wash DC area. Since it was the height of the tech boom at the time dh was getting out of the Navy, and we simply could not afford a home in the Silicon Valley, he got a job here, which fortunately is only 25 minutes from my parents. And here we've stayed. It is NOT my dream home. I don't even really like it. It was small when we moved in, and even smaller after having four kids! We looked around at moving to a different home, but absolutely love our neighbors and our community so finding a home that fit our needs was very difficult. We live in a high COL so home prices made it hard to find something that fit our desires while still being affordable. 10 years ago, we added on and while the space has helped, it hasn't changed the fact that our floorplan isn't desirable to us. We live in a waterfront community with very strict building codes, so we worked within that and have maxed out what we can do w/o completely gutting the house and starting over. With four kids in private school and one off to college in four years, I've pretty much resigned myself that we won't be moving anytime soon, nor can we really afford at this point to do any major changes that would help. I am constantly looking at houses for sale in the area, but the only affordable ones are in tract home subdivisions and that's not type of community we desire. So we make do with what we have. And it's not that my house is bad, but it's not set up well for entertaining, something I'd love to do more often, we had to give up our fabulous screened porch when we added on and cannot add another due to space constraints. I miss that terribly. On the bright side, we have wonderful neighbors, live in a waterfront neighborhood so the kids can fish, swim, kayak, ride their bikes freely (community is a peninsula w/no through traffic), etc. My dream is to move into the historic district in our tourist town where we can walk and bike everywhere. We live 5 miles from there now, but not on bike-friendly roads (though dh is an avid biker and rides them, no way my kids can). There are some really fabulous Arts & Crafts cottages, as well as many other architecturally interesting homes that date back to the 1700s. My hope is to move into one of them some day and have that be our forever home, with a second home in another climate. I wish I could love this home and think of it as my forever home, but it is not ideal for aging. We have three floors, with bedrooms all on the third floor as the garage/rec room are "under" the main living level. My parents still live in the house I grew up - they are going on 50 years there. They will stay until it's too much for them as it's perfect for aging, a rancher. All that said, as much as I want to move, the idea of moving is dreadful to me, which is probably one of the reasons I haven't really pushed for it. The thought of trying to keep my home in "show" condition with four kids, a huge dog that sheds, well, not fun. So perhaps a small part of me continues to find something undesirable about any of the houses I'm always looking at. I figure if I'm going to go through the hassle, the house has to be pretty close to what I want! Love all the interesting stories!...See MoreWhat Did You Learn About Your Kitchen Over Thanksgiving
Comments (11)I have only had my kitchen in working order for about a week and the final touches to make it ready enough to use happened the night before Thanksgiving. I was so thankful to have a kitchen but also found just about everything worked great. I love my GE Cafe oven. I was able to cook a 20 lb turkey in the oven using the probe with the oven letting me know it had reached the intended temperature. The lower oven cooked the candied sweet potatoes and the green bean casserole. My 30" Kraus sink handled all of the pots and pans and kept them out of sight. The kitchen layout was perfect for all my cooking needs. I don't think I would change a thing at this point. I just love it and I have GW to thank for so many of my choices....See MoreWhat important things did you learn from your dad?
Comments (36)My father taught me how to open a peanut, how to drive, and to never believe a thing he promised. (Out of sight = out of mind.) Typical of him is a letter I found among my mother's things after she died. It was written from his club, where he was living before my parents divorce was final. In it he writes of his deep love for his daughter and how he will always care for her. I was three at the time. (He would remember that from time to time and buy something extravagant for me, but he never paid the small alimony or child support ordered by the court.) I think I've figured out how he came to be the way he was -- forever striving for the love and approval of a pair of grandiose parents who had absolutely nothing to feel grand about. He was a second son. He achieved greater financial success than any of his siblings (6) and supported or helped to support his parents and all the others, to no avail. All parental affection was bestowed upon only one child, the first son. My father never got past that unmet craving. That, and his skirt-chasing, were why my mother finally gave up....See Moreomelet
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