Oh, no! Slow death thru my own ignorance! (or horrible soil probs.)
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Comments (42)ut you last post is the stressed part. You or anyone can not make that assumption of who is more stressed. You do not know their life. When I had breast cancer, my garden was my outlet for stress more than any other time in my life. I wintersowed very slowly because I could hardly do it, but it gave me a sense of purpose and things to come in the spring. I dreamed through the catalogs of what to buy believing I would be there to live to see them bloom. I tended my plants best I could in spring. I'm sorry I'm getting teary eyed now. I'm sorry. I know what cancer is like. My dad had chemical based leukemia, 14% chance of survival.. he didn't. Treatment was horrible, he did a clinical trial, I have to say that what he went through in the month plus that he was doing the clinical trial, I don't know why anyone would fight that particular cancer. Back to the garden & plants. When he came out of the hospital he was greeted by plants. My hubby, son & I worked really hard to plant his vegetable garden at his new house (it closed a week after being diagnosed) plus I duplicated my gardens at his house. We'd dug up a few of his roses, plus I bought more. I even bought a daylily that was not common, which I now call Matty for him. He was speechless when he came home. We used to like to sit on his porch & watch the butterflies & hummingbirds. While he wasn't allowed near the plants due to his particular type of cancer, he could sit there and enjoy it. He wasn't allowed to eat his veggies either until he went into remission a few months later. His guardian angel gave us really warm weather until November, we were able to have his Hungarian peppers in my stuffing for Thanksgiving. Through his whole nightmare, gardening & plants brightened the time he was out of the hospital. I'm not able to buy a lot of plants any more due to my back problems. There's a reason why I haven't added many photos to helpmefind, I'm not able to walk around the garden like I used to. I do want to buy a few roses next year & will probably be buying from David Austin. Since I'll use a regular credit card, I doubt I'll have issues and so far have not had a bad experience the last time we ordered. I'd ordered a Benjamin Britten rose, it was horrible, a phone call or email with no questions asked and they replaced it....See MoreWanting to improve my soil...best, fastest, cheapest?
Comments (42)I have just recently put down the lasagne layers in several different areas of my garden and out in a bigger open area (mainly there to control the weeds and help the clay soil) and so far I can really see a difference in the garden area AND the other area too...I think it's going to be a great garden spot this coming year!!! I was just in Toronto (in outlying suburban area) and was foaming at the mouth when driving through the neighborhood my cousin lives in...BAGS OF LEAVES EVERYWHERE....If I would have had a few extra suitcases, I might just have loaded em up.... and the best part, they were all in neat tidy Home Depot PAPER leaf bags...the extra big ones. What envy I had. If I lived there, I'd have the best compost pile ever, sigh...but soon enough, the leaves here will start falling and I'll be on the hunt for them. I'm like someone else on here who said they feel like a theif if they dont ask and I too feel like I should ASK to take the stuff at the curb....It's actually worked out nicely when I have spoken to someone, since they usually tell me to come on back anytime for more and take what I want when it's out there. I have also found a good amount of "green" from a local horse person....moldy hay they cant use...and it's great for the last layer (although that might not be lasagne correct layering) It actually works great to anchor everything else underneath...I did cardboard several layers thick..then grasss clippings, then more cardboard and then hay. I didn't have any food scraps of any volume...but it seems to be working......See MoreMy plants grow to slow!
Comments (19)A plant with a leaf like a maple - could be Abutilon. There are several different sorts. Some grow well in baskets as they have cascading branches. I agree with dufflebag on the secateurs. They come in two styles - bypass or anvil. Left-handers can get them with handles to suit - just as they can for scissors. I'm ambidextrous and I know I'm not happy using my left hand with right-hand secateurs. You can also get them with a double action which can be really helpful for people without a lot of hand strength. There are very cheap ones - but they aren't worth it. And horribly expensive ones... :-( (They're the ones that end up in my compost bin. Don't know how!!!) The Wolf Garten range is often reasonably priced - or you may have a local product which is even better. Isn't it great being a newbie?! You can do the most outrageous things and ask the questions all the old hands are too embarrassed to air....;-). There are some really kind 'old hands' here on the forums: lindac and calistoga and pnwgal48. They often stop by on the 'New to Gardening' forum - and their own favourites. I've always found their advice to be excellent - and very plain. You can also use the FAQs (frequently asked questions) for specific forums. It can be worth the time - particularly if it gives you an answer that's relevant for your zone. For excellent 'before and after' bonsai pictures - google for Walter Pall's bonsai blog. Some of them are just 'oh, my goodness! I wouldn't dare!' but he takes truly useful photos so you can see what's been done. (I don't think I'll be up to using power tools for a l-o-n-g time, however.) With books - some can be downright confusing. However, a couple of books later and another author explains. Whew! I don't know how it happens, a bit like a child learning to speak, I suppose; but one day the jargon makes sense. It must just soak in ;-). oakleif (Vickie): go for it! There's one forum I visit and each month there's a thread for members to rant about anything. The only rule is - no one can offer advice or rescues or sympathy. (You have to be specifically asked in a separate thread for that.) And there's also a thankfulness thread. For the simplest things, even. I enjoy reading both of them. And having a grumble, or saying thanks. Feels good....See MoreWhat happened to my slab Sierraeast?Worthy? Horrible pics!
Comments (16)Not that this helps the OP but for people who aren't at the stage of pouring yet, take heed: have your engineer/expert ON SITE DURING THE POUR. The problems with the foundation on the house we bought were already done and covered up before we ever saw the house, a builder's spec model. We found out after closing, and spent the next 5 years in a construction defect case that nearly ruined us. In the end we came out ok but we went thru many hassles and expenses and it took over our lives during that time. We couldn't fully use our house. It was very frustrating. Had someone who was competent and who cared been there when it was built, mistakes couldv'e been prevented. Our builder didn't know or didn't care how to do it right. He just covered up the defects so it all appeared fine. You are at a point where you haven't turned over all your money yet, and you now know about a potential big mistake. You could still have enough leverage to get this corrected even if it means firing him and starting over. PLEASE consider what Susiesnowflake has posted here about her case. Hers was different than mine, but the bottom line is you don't close on a defective house and you don't just hope it will all be ok by ignoring problems. It will not be ok if you close and later find out it's serious. Then, you will have little or no ability to remedy the situation. Believe me, the builders have the upper hand when it comes to holding them accountable. And, they know it. That said, Good luck! Here is a link that might be useful: HADD...See MoreCEFreeman_GW DC/MD Burbs 7b/8a
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