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forgottenhusband1
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Comments (10)This is the first year I have tried suet. I recently moved from a home in MI to an apartment in CO and have hung a suet feeder on the balcony of my 2nd floor apartment. I am using a basic suet cake from the local hardware store and the birds eat about one cake every 5 days. I get a lot of downy woodpeckers , chickadees, titmouse (titmice?), and flickers. I love the chickadees (so cute), the titmouse (love the punk hairdo), and the overall antics of the flickers! The appetite of the downy woodpecker is voracious. It took about 4 days for the birds to find the suet. I overlook a golf course and mountains and there is a huge tree that comes up right to my balcony so that might be a factor. Anyway, the store bought suet cake is a hit for me. Since the birds eat so much, I am going to try some homemade treats to save a little money....See Morefrustrated, tired, angry, and want my life back
Comments (4)I understand this may not help you at all, but please know that you're not alone. I'm in much the same place with my Mother. please seek a POA with medical benefits. Try to make him see you are his only support but you need the power to make his life easier. We are basically stuck with a few hundred acres of land that we are too worn out to farm, ours free and clear, but she won't leave her 3 acres.We'd like to put the farm life behind us and travel but can't even consider it. And one of the funniest things is when she was driving she went to the nursing home 3-5 days a week, to eat lunch with her friends. Now she won't even entertain the idea. Some tough decisions are going to have to be made for both of us. Good luck, I know for a fact it was easier raising 3 year old twin boys then it is raising a parent....... keep us up on your progress, all of us are learning every day. simple me...See MoreHow to help a friend in an emotional abusive relationship
Comments (9)Thanks for the suggestions and appreciated the input. Agreed that one should inform his family if it's emergency. Possibility he might be suffering from early stages of dementia and I have no idea if he is seeking medical profession for that. Why, he's got symptoms like short term memory loss (cannot remember recent events), anxiety, depression, changes in his behaviour and personality. He said he has been having a gradual short term memory loss over a number of years. I know of another elderly friend and this friend too is suffering from gradual short term memory loss and the effect is gradually debilitating. It's difficult to suggest to him to go check his short term memory loss out with a doctor, as he is not one that would take advise well. So all I can do is give him a phone number of helplines here and let him sort it out himself. I will add that he is finding it hard like confused and lost with even managing his own life. He also suffers from bowel issues and must go to the toilet straight away. It's not funny because wait till you and I reached an elderly age we too would suffer from incontinence and bowel problems, therefore have some compassion and empathy. Many years ago I know of a friend's Mum she suffered from dementia for many years and no one knew about it, not even my friend and my friend's Mum's relatives. It was only a year before she passed away something was done about it. My friend after living in another country for a decade, had to make decision to come back after making the decision to live in another country for good, then returned to sort the situation out. I can inform you that my friend's Mum's condition by the time it was sorted out it was very sad, because my friend's Mum did not seek medical profession to get assistance and help years before, therefore no one knew my friend's Mum was suffering from dementia to intervene earlier....See MoreHardware, beyond frustrated
Comments (15)I just had my kitchen cabinets installed on Thursday and hardware was the biggest difficulty I had as well. I ended up going with all pulls in 3 inch and 128mm (a little over 5 inch) from Richelieu. My hardware "allowance" was $10 a piece. I had a really hard time with design and sizing. I had initially picked out something different from something I saw on their display board. I wanted antique nickel and the knob I initially chose didn't come in that finished. When they emailed me letting me know this and suggested a few other knobs in the finish I wanted I was horrified with my first choice. I HATED it!! I looked through the online brochure and made a gusty move choosing the hardware with out actually seeing it! (I had cut out a black piece of paper in the various sizes trying to gage it though). I stressed the entire week before seeing the finished product a few days ago. So happy with my choices! I'm really glad it's over! Now all I have to worry about is the backsplash! Good luck!...See Moreforgottenhusband1
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