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14 years ago

Christmas Adventure with Grandma


I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid.

I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that!"

My Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted...."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go."

"Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world-famous cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything.

As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's.

I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping.

For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for.

I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church.

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class.

Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter. His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat.

I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat! I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

"Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby."

The nice lady smiled at me, as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it.

Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby.

Fifty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were -- ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and we were on his team.

I still have the Bible, with the coat tag tucked inside: $19.95.

May you always have LOVE to share,

HEALTH to spare and FRIENDS that care...

And may you always believe in the magic of Santa Claus!

Comments (14)

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Very nice Sherry.

    Sue

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    That was a great story. I've always told my kids (they're all adults now) that I still believe in Santa.

    Shirley

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    A very sweet story, jasdip!

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    What a wonderful story. I have always been a straight shooter, and my older grandkids know, I talk to them not at them. In their words the "ornery fun maw maw" I hope my legacy will be that they remember me, and some small event, that somehow influenced their lives.

    Thanks again for the story, on a day that I needed a lift!

    maid

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Beautiful,Sherry.

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Thank you for the wonderful story.

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    What a wonderful story!

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Thanks for such a heart-warming story.

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Please do such things for children, both the young who are unsure of Santa and the Bobby Deckers.

    I was a Bobby Decker. I had a coat, but I was cold at home....

    One day during history class, I was called to the principal's office afraid of why I was being summoned, as that usually meant you were in trouble. I was a good kid and could not think of what I might have done wrong.

    Well, the principal had an envelope for me. Cash. I believe my family was spared a winter of misery when our school's Home & Health Committee gave me the modern equivalent of $240 for Christmas, supposedly to buy presents for our large family. I gave it to my mother, knowing we had nothing to buy fuel with. In fact we already owed for it. I did have a coat, but it was cold in my house even with the fuel purchase. I slept with my coat. But I was okay since it was far from freezing in the house after that present.

    Another child also had gotten money from the Committee. She was so happy and uninhibited that she told everyone. She was poorer than me and came a long way to get to school. She lived in a two room house with tar-paper on the roof and outer walls to keep out the rain. Yes, she was definitely a Bobby Decker, too. Some students were disgusted with her, fuming "Why did she get money? It isn't fair."

    And these were teenagers who should have understood. So I did not dare mention to anyone that my family had been given money. One of the kids I most respected had protested the loudest at this Christmas present. To this day, I wonder why it so disturbed her. She just was not normally judgmental or jealous.

    I am forever grateful for that Christmas gift.

    Funny thing-- in later years, I found out which parent at the school had told the Home & Health Committee about my family's situation. I learned that all her adult life she was involved with charities to make sure kids would get toys or other pleasantries for Christmas. Even if she was involved with a charity with another purpose, she would convince them to graft on the service of Santa toys. She was like her own little Toys for Tots force!...She had been a Bobby Decker herself.

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Thanks, jasdip.

    Truly - there is more to life than meets the eye ... or the half-young/partly matured brain.

    Would that more of us had the perception and wisdom of that Grandma.

    ole joyful

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Oh, dear God. Jasdip, Matthias. What an evening I am having with these two stories. Uh, you are both so gifted.

    I am painfully, joyfully moved by these events that tie together. A great conversation. Thank you.

  • 14 years ago
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    My siblings and I were 'Bobby Deckers' on his worst day, but my wonderful teacher alerted the state child protection services and they put us in a foster home.

    We didn't know what hygiene was, didn't have two matching shoes, but through the love of others, we were taken to a better place.

    To this day - 50 years later, it still hurts, so THANK GOD there are those caring people who take notice of bad situations and DO SOMETHING about it!

  • 14 years ago
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    Kayjones, I'm so sorry. It does make me cry. I have a hundred questions to ask you but just can't dssturb you with them. I truly hope your life has adjusted to a good one with lots of love.

  • 14 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    I have read this story before but it was so nice to read it again. It hit the spot. Thanks, jasdip.

    Matthias and Kayjones, thanks for sharing your stories, too. We have much to be thankful for.

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