Sorry to be so late with my notes to all of you! It warmed my heart and and made me tear up when I read your lovely comments and saw your beautiful photos! I drop in now and then to see what you are up to. I have missed all of you, too, but I don't have as much time to spend here as I used to. My family,kitties, birds and garden take a lot more of my time now. I send all of you love and hugs! Thank you Carol for starting this wonderful birthday thread and for you kind comments! It really made my day to read all of these lovely birthday messages! Your photo is beautiful! Thank you Patricia for your birthday message and lovely comments, you are so special! Your photo is beautiful, and the bees in your roses are so cute! Lori Elf, thank you for your lovely wishes! I am doing well and my garden is better this year because we have had more rain this spring. I will have more flowers, but I also have lots more weeds. ;-) Pam, I have always felt a close connection to you, too! I am looking forward to seeing you, your family, Kitty and wonderful garden again this summer! As I have said before, your garden is the most beautiful garden that I have ever seen! Your photo is gorgeous! Linda, thank you for your kind comments! I hope that you are enjoying your Hurdy Gurdy, I think that she is a sweet little rose! I am happy to hear that you like my Cecile Brunner bowers, I enjoy them more every year. Rosefolly, thank you for your birthday wishes! Yes, it has been a long time since we met in Pam's garden! I plan to visit Pam's garden with Andrea this year and I look forward to seeing you again! Thank you for the birthday wish, Carla! Your Lilly if gorgeous! I had a wonderful birthday. One of my friends gave me a bubble stick for my birthday and I was out early blowing bubbles in the garden. ;-) Thank you Jackie for your birthday wish! Your photo of your Eden is wonderful! I am happy that you are enjoying Eden! I love that rose! Patrick, I love it when you go on and on about my garden...hehe...it always makes me smile! I love the song that you ~wrote~ for me! ;-) Also, I had forgotten that you loved my charming spiders. I will do a post entitled Roses and the Spiders that own them, for you...soon.... Jon, I love you dearly and always remember you fondly, too! Youngster.... ;-)....hehe...I am still very young at heart, does that count? Thank you for your birthday wishes and your awesome photo! I will never forget how stunned I was when I first viewed pictures of your garden! Awesome! Your photo is so beautiful! You and Wanda (Rosesense) were my first friends on Gardenweb. Love and hugs...Missy Florence, thank you for your birthday wishes and your photo of Compassion! Yes, dear, we have been friends for a long time! I was so happy to hear that you are feeling better and will be able to spend more time is your beautiful garden this year. Ah, dear bodi, thank you for your lovely words! Thanks again to Suzi Wong for bringing us together on the Fern forum! I hope that we can get together sometime this spring or early summer! I love you, too! Hugs! Thank you for your birthday wishes and kind words, Melva! I hope that all is going well for you and your garden! Wishing you a wonderful spring! Olga, thank you for your birthday wishes and your kind comments! I have always loved your photos of your beautiful garden! Happy gardening this spring! Carol, dear, thank you, you are so kind! I hope to see you in Pam's garden this year. I don't remember the date, but I am really looking forward to seeing all of you dear people and that magificent garden! Dear John, thank you for your birthday wishes! I hope that all is going well for you and that your garden will be fabulous this year. Max...my dearest fur baby..... Here is a link if you would like to see some of my pictures....click on the thumbnails to enlarge the pictures. My Pictures

Why wouldn't you just be honest? Tell them that you accepted the invitation before looking into the cost, and are so very sorry, but you'll have to decline. Be extremely sorry for reneging and send a lovely card to your Godmother. Of course you know that you should've looked into the details before accepting, right? You don't need to go into extreme details of justification, but it's important to get the info to them right away. I'm sure they're planning on the 2 of you and figuring food, etc. based on number of acceptances. If you wait any longer you'll have to be doubly apologetic - for changing your mind and for waiting to tell them. Just tell them. And then send the note to the party givers and a lovely card, and perhaps gift, for the birthday girl.

You're very welcome Jenna. It sounds like you needed them. (What does IRL mean?)

I didn't get a chance to wish you a happy birthday yesterday. I'm glad it turned out to be a nice day. It was a perfect day to spend in the pool in Texas!!!