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How Many Cancer Survivors Are Here??

susie53_gw
13 years ago

I read so many ones on here talk about cancer.. How many of you are survivors? I will start..

I am a cancer survivor of almost 20 years. I had breast cancer. I went through cemo and radiation. Sadly, cancer runs deep in both sides of our families. I am the oldest woman in my family that is still alive. Grandma,both aunts, 3 cousins and my oldest sister are all gone. One niece also has had breast cancer. No male has had it.

On my hubby's side his dad and sister have both died from cancer. His oldest brother had prostrate cancer and his son colon cancer. Both are doing well at this time.

I remmeber the first day I went into the radiation chamber. You lay on the table in your mold that they made for you to lie in. I rememebr the door shuting. Just like a heavy bank door vault. So scarey. I remember tears falling from my eyes. I had to go everyday for 7 weeks.

I remember the people I went through my treatments with. Some never made it. I will always remember a strikingly tall beautiful red headed woman. So sweet. She had twin daughters that had just started college. Her brother always came with her. She died after a couple months. I remember a young guy with brain cancer that had 3 small daughters. He wore a toupee and when he would come out of his treatment it was always on wrong.. He fought so hard but died soon, too.

One funny was when I went to take my cemo at the hospital. I took a drug that was administered in an IV slowly The nurse had to watch her watch to make sure it was going in slow. If it went in to fast your crouch area would be on fire. It only happened once to me but went away quickly. The nurse laughted and told me about an 83 year old lady that had come in the day before. She took the same drug. All of a sudden she squirmed in her seat and said, "OH, I haven't had a hot box like this in 30 some years."

This is a horrible disease and if you haven't dealt with it yourself or had a loved one that has had to deal with it you can't possible know the heartache it causes. I know they have come along way and hope and pray there will be a cure soon. I thank God everyday I am here to enjoy our children and grandchildren.

To all you survivors out there, enjoy life to the fullest. Tell those around you love them, help others with the simplest things. I have a couple elderly ladies in my neighborhood that I love helping and have adopted them like my grandmas. I love taking food to them. Simple things like this makes life so grand for me and for them.

Comments (30)

  • debbyga
    13 years ago

    I've survived cervical cancer. This November it will be two years since I ended the treatment for it--chemo and radiation. I went every day for 6 weeks for the radiation and once a week for those same 6 weeks for chemo. I told everyone that the radiation was a breeze, which it was--a couple minutes every day and it was over--not much more than an X-ray from what I could see. The problems from the radiation arose later.

    It's OK, though, I can live with some after-effects. I'm alive and doing very well.

  • roseluver
    13 years ago

    I am a 16 year survivor. I had rectal cancer. I went through 3 months of chemo and hospitalized to administer the radiation. It really humbled me. They had me lying on my stomach with my bottom taped open!! Gross huh??? I still think so. I lost about half of my hair on the exact day they told me I would. I remember the blisters that formed in my mouth, it was so difficult to eat. I lost so much weight, but was thankful I had it to lose. The radiation took its silent toll on me also. I experience diarrhea to this day. But, I am so grateful that the Lord was not through with me and allowed me to survive.

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    me too.
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  • kacram
    13 years ago

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  • sheesh
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  • Vickey__MN
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    Vickey-MN

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  • whidbeykathy
    13 years ago

    Well no one knew at the time, but my Mom and many others took DES, my Mom had injections. DES had some really horrific side effects on the unborn daughters and I am part of that group.
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  • jkayd_il5
    13 years ago

    My breast cancer surgery was in July, 2008 so just over two years as a survivor. I had seven weeks of radiation and am still on daily mediation. Every six months I have an infusion of Zometa. This is to protect my bones should the cancer travel there. This is not chemo but would be in the chemo mixture if I was taking it. So far all tests have been good.

  • cheryl_down_under
    13 years ago

    In early February this year following a colonoscopy was diagnosed with bowel cancer and 2 weeks later with breast cancer. In March had surgery for both - 2 weeks apart. The bowel cancer was contained and thankfully didn't need any further treatment there - only to have follow-ups for a while. However, I needed further surgery on the breast to take more lymph nodes. They were all clear but I still had to have chemo and finished the radiation last week. I am going well and my hair is just starting to grow back, but I find the hardest part is living with the fear that either cancer will come back. But I am hoping like heck that I will be able to say in years to come that I am truly a survivor!!!

  • jenson13
    13 years ago

    Lost my sister at age 42 to colon cancer, and my hubby died at 66 with esophageal cancer. Nobody knows what it is like to be the caregiver of a cancer patient. It is an experience one will never forget. Why in the world they cant find a cure to this devastating, life altering, disease, I can't imagine. I admire all of u who have been through the ravages of it.

  • joann23456
    13 years ago

    Wow, I am so amazed that there are so many survivors here, and so pleased that all of you are doing well, at least for today. I love your positive attitudes.

    Both my parents died of lung cancer, so I do know something about cancer. My dad went quickly, but chemo worked to give my mom a good year before she died. She had the same positive attitude and grace that you all are showing here. I admire that and hope I can live up to it if I ever need to.

    I've lived through cardiac failure and four serious adrenal crises, so I have personal experience with life-threatening illness. I agree with all of you that it makes you so much more grateful for the time you have on this earth and for your loved ones.

  • lindaohnowga
    13 years ago

    I'm a 16 year survivor of cancer. Mine was uterine cancer,caused by being on hormones, and thank God, it had not spread. Surgeon got it all, and no followup treatments were needed, although an oncologist suggested "preventative radiation". I refused and went with vitamin therapy instead and glad I did. I was tested every year for 5 years and declared cancer free. This year I decided to be retested for my own peace of mind and all is clear. Hubby survived prostate cancer. He had surgery and all is well with him too.

  • chloecat
    13 years ago

    I'm a 5-year survivor of breast cancer.

    And those who say they know what survivors are going through - unless they've gone through it themselves - are full of you-know-what.

    I thought I understood it when my mom was diagnosed. I thought I was aware of what she was dealing with.

    I was WRONG.

  • jkayd_il5
    13 years ago

    chloecat I think you are right. However, I can't let myself think about the what ifs. I have a mammogram scheduled for this month and of course am anxious they will find something. I try to keep my head on straight that if or when it comes back I will deal with it then. I'm by nature a worrier so have to do what keeps and helps me be happy.

  • Sally Brownlee
    13 years ago

    I have tears of joy for all of you...I can barely type.

    Thank you all for what you have gone through and continue to experience. Advances are being made everyday, in no small part to your contribution to medicine. Yes, medicine is a practice, and they are getting better and better all the time.

    I have experienced (too) many instances of cancer in my family, young and old....'There but for the Grace of God, go I'.

    God Bless you all.

  • patti43
    13 years ago

    I've seen PSA's on TV with people singing "Happy Birthday" to all cancer survivors, so I want to add my happy birthday to you all, too. You sure are a brave and positive bunch! Thanks for sharing your stories. They came at a good time. God bless and watch over you.

  • Mystical Manns
    13 years ago

    My mother had breast cancer 30 years ago, and had what they called a "radical mastectomy" and removal of all lymph nodes on her right side. She came through that ok, and 12 years later was diagnosed with colon cancer. Her "treatment plan" was terrible. Through surgery, they found that the cancer was wide-spread enough her oncologist didn't see the point in putting her through chemo, which we appreciated his honesty. But he did put her through another "exploritory surgery" six months later to check and see how it was progressing. I never, ever forgave him for that, as abdominal surgery just takes so much out of you. She led us kids to believe there was a purpose to the surgery (more than just ... looking around). Afterwards, we really gave her doctors a hard time and it didn't happen again. She died a short time later.

    In 2009 I found a small hard lump in my left breast and knew immediately it was cancerous. It was so different from the fluid-filled cysts I'd had for years. My GP recommended a surgeon, plastic surgeon and oncologist ... two weeks later I had a double mastectomy and reconstruction. Altho the tumor was large enough to be considered Stage 2, my lymph nodes were all clean and the Oncotype DX test put me in the lower category for recurrance based on the mastectomies and my taking a cancer inhibitor for five years. So that's what I'm doing. I did not require chemo or radiation.

    A woman at work was very very tired last spring and finally went to a doctor. She was diagnosed with a very aggressive form of leukemia. She passed away last weekend, less than 6 months later.

    Like others, I try very hard to live for today ... enjoy today ... experience and appreciate everything positive I can. But the thought is always there, in the back of my mind ... what if. At this stage in my recovery, I just cannot escape it. I don't know if, after 5 years or 7 years or 10 years I'll be more confident. I just know that, today, Cancer is always with me.

  • 3katz4me
    13 years ago

    37 year survivor of a rare sarcoma including a recurrence 27 years ago. Surgery, radiation and a year of awful chemo the first time - above knee amputation and two years of brutal chemo the second time. My chances of 5 year survial when first diagnosed in 1972 were less than 20%. Chances of long term survival at the time of the recurrence were 80% which may have had something to do with the fact I was treated at a world renowned cancer center.

  • mawheel
    13 years ago

    I am in awe of all of your posts and thank you for sharing. As I type, I am praying that God will bless each of you and keep you strong.

    Peace.

  • susie53_gw
    Original Author
    13 years ago

    I am so amazed at everyone here. We all have a story to tell. Some are harder then others. When it is said that you don't know until you have walked in their shoes, this is truier then you could ever imagine. I remember my sisters last battle with cancer. She decided not to do any treatment. Her doctor was wonderful to her. He told her if it was his mother facing this he would advise her in the same way. We had thought we would have my sister through the hoildays. She died two months later on September 4th. Sadly, it was on my youngest daughter's 30th birthday. I lived about an hour away and went every other day to spend time with her. When we knew time was running out I packed my bags and told my hubby I wouldn't be back until it was over. I am so thankful I was there.

    My grandma died a horrible death with cancer. I saw her for the last time on my wedding day. We went to her house after the ceremony. While on my honeymoon I called every day to check on her. We came home early so I could see her one last time. She died 30 minutes before we got there. She was a fabulous lady and only 54 years old.

    I have lost 17 loved ones from both my family and my hubbies.. It changes a person's life forever. For myself, I don't think of it often. I go get checked when I need to and live my life to the fullest every day. I worry about our daughters and grandaughters having to someday deal with this. But, that being said, we can't sit back and wait for it to happen. If it happens we will do all we can to stand together and deal with it..

    Cancer is no longer a death sentence like it was years ago. I also know when you are first told it is the first thing to come to a person's mind. It is hard not the think this way. I pray everyone here has the best that life has to offer them. For me I think of my wonderful father-in-law so much. I know when I have a really great day he is smiling down at me and saying, "Great job, Susie." Some days I really feel like he is patting me on the back. Enjoy all you have..

  • vannie
    13 years ago

    What good timing for your question since I just got home from a "Komen Getaway" at the hospital. It was 7:30-2:00 and I've gone every year since I had breast cancer in 1999. I had surgery and radiation. It was small and I know how blessed I was, and am. My BFF had it 3 years later, and we do the Komen Race, and the "Getaways" together. Tomorrow the other big hospital in Tyler has their Komen luncheon, so we'll be doing Komen activities 2 days in a row. They have wonderful speakers and today they had a panel of 5 docs--surgeon, plastic surgeon, oncologist, radiation oncologist and the doc that reads the mammos. It was very informative, except they said a woman that presents w/ stage 2 has an 80% survival rate after 10 years and that threw me for a loop, b/c it thought it would be much higher. Anyway, they said the 2 biggest risks were obesity and alcohol. It's a terrible, horrible disease.

  • socks
    13 years ago

    My heart is touched by all your postings. I have never been in your shoes and can only begin to imagine what you have all been through physically and emotionally. God bless each and every one of you.

  • mcjelia
    13 years ago

    Tomorrow will be one year since I underwent surgery for colon cancer. I had six months of chemo and am doing fine now. All of my tests came back clear. Thank you Lord!
    I am the biggest chicken on the planet, and I did it! I never thought I could handle it but I did!

    Don't forget tomorrow is LIVESTRONG day, please wear yellow in honor of all the cancer fighters!

    Jean

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